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Whether it's economic, cultural, political, religious, ideological, whatever, what are some ideas that you believe in? I think friendly (very important!!) discussion of these could be good as to understand the views of others. Pluralism and the acceptance of many beliefs is generally a good thing.

As long as you don't believe in implausible conspiracy theories or say anything that is listed on the rules of most Lemmy communities and instances (in which case, don't say it), I think the opinions of others should be respected!

Please don't devolve this into a hot political argument, holy war, or similar. It ends badly for world powers (all of them), and it will end badly here with no winning sides. Friendly debate is ok as long as you don't go nuts, make sure you give good supporting arguments with evidence!

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[โ€“] bustrouffi@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Kindness, curiosity and a firm belief in treating everyone like they are actual real human beings who can do what they want. It's important to ask people why they do things.

Anarchist with a small 'a' (that is, never going to be vegan, and I've had a managerial position [no, I don't think anarchism means no leaders but I do feel gross about taking part in the paramilitary office structure, and how much I loved the money and status and power]).

The controversial one is โ€™if you have disposable income, your day-to-day problems won't be real problems'. Most problems are not real problems because money addresses them. Existential, emotional difficulty? Great! You can afford to go to therapy whilst still not suffering any real day to day problems because you have the money ๐Ÿ‘.

I'm also fed up of weird consumerist attitudes around 'if I dont get to do everything I want, I'm struggling for money ๐Ÿฅบ I'm poor'

That needs to go fucking yesterday.

[โ€“] AskewLord@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

spoken like someone who has never dealt with problems money can't solve.

like your loved ones suffering

[โ€“] bustrouffi@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

No, no, that would come under "real problem" because money can't solve it.

[โ€“] bustrouffi@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

The important word in that sentence was "most".

[โ€“] Lehmuusa@nord.pub 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Woah! I read tuhat part of their message as sarcasm and was surprised by the sudden change of to be... But they really meant it literally!

Therapy won't help instanteneously. It also will alleviate the suffering, but not remove it.

[โ€“] AskewLord@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

it also won't help chronic diseases or disabilities.

[โ€“] bustrouffi@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

Again, those are real problems that money can't solve