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What men want (lemmy.world)

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[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yes. Literally when I was in college. I even asked for consent super awkwardly, because that's what everyone said you're supposed to do. and even when someone said yes I still had to deal with accusations from her friends later because they decided after the fact that she didn't really mean yes and that I was supposed to somehow read her mind.

How many times do I need to ask "Are you sure?" Before a yes counts as consent?

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

If it's many times, it's not actually about consent.

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 hours ago

So what you're saying is that habitually withdrawing consent after the deed is done and using that to shame a person is a form of manipulation and emotional abuse?