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What habit do you possess that seems very normal to you, but would seem odd to anyone else?
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What? I completely get discarding things and living a life without the burden of clutter, but having a game in your Steam library is essentially zero cost/burden right?
Especially since you can hide them if you want to maintain a clean interface. That way you can bring them back later if you decide to replay the game, or share it with your family. There's so few reasons to ever delete a game.
Um, no.
I don't like this normalization where people buy so many games and complain about the backlog of their library. I was one of those people for a while and I hated it. Games are meant to be played, not collected.
If Valve ever got the balls to, they'd have a system where you can recycle/resell games to people in the community. They allow people in the EU to resell their games but not in the US. Because reasons.
You could just hide them and not complain about your "backlog". It's pretty unjustifiable but congrats on matching the thread topic I guess.
I'm not a gamer myself (the only game I ever purchased are a few chessboards ;) but as a book reader I know many people do buy books they will never ever read. They just collect dust on their bookshelves. It may be sad they don't get to enjoy the content, but it's their choice and there is nothing wrong with that.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tsundoku
Seems to be quite universal phenomenonemon. I wonder if theres a word for someone who spends a year or two buying books, letting them pile up and then has a few month period where they read for hours and hours every day. If there is, that would be me.
There's Patient Gamer, so we'll call you Patient Reader. Where, you don't let the tide of FOMO dictate what you should read and when.
That sounds good to me. I actually have some major JOMO these days, with pretty much everything. I think the most recent film I've watched is from 2019, the most recent music I listen to is ~2011-12, I enjoy listening to people tell me about that party/event/whatever they went to and I didn't etc. So your description fits better than you knew lol
I hope it's the loud minority that buys that many games. I think most people don't have the luxury to think that way.
I have over 200 games (not the largest library I know but still sizable) and most of them are unplayed and never will be. A majority of them come from the monthly Humble Bundle subscription that gives me like 7-12 games a month. I haven't redeemed any in a while, I mainly keep the sub for the store discount, and the mild feeling of goodwill I receive for having donated to "charity" (since Humble's acquisition by EA I question how much of this goes to charity).
Clutters the interface, harms discoverability in the backlog, and may point to a game that doesn't even work anymore.