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Ones that come to mind for me are Vegas, Toronto, Paris

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[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 89 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (7 children)

Salt Lake City, Utah. Utterly gorgeous, but strongly reconsider moving there if you aren't a Mormon. The whole valley/arguably state has a constant fog of oppressively bad juju looming over it, despite being truly breathtaking.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 58 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

Relevant but I'm currently going down this Bricks & Minifigs vs Ben rabbit hole and wow these mormons are creepy as fuck.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 53 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Their entire history is insanely, deeply fucked in ways most people don't realize. Dating back to the very beginning.

[–] rabber@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do you have any recommended reading?

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 42 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

So, so much. My very long comment got wiped before I could finish--I was trying to find an old 1800s newspaper account from the Library of Congress, so consider yourself lucky I'm relegated to a phone keyboard. I'm working on a book myself, so I've got huuuuuundreds of sources, but many of them are historic and hard to share conveniently. For a quick variety:

Fifteen Years Among the Mormons by Mary Ettie V. Smith (1860) is one of the most breathtaking page-turners I've ever read. Like many works that touch on history Mormons don't like, they've been very successful at whitewashing this to a mere "unfair anti-Mormon polemic," but...eh. Very complicated, but it really has the ring of truth to me compared to other similar sources. That's the source of the screenshot re: SLC.

Exposé of Polygamy in Utah: A Lady’s Life among the Mormons by Fanny Stenhouse (1872) is a favorite. She had a sharp wit.

No Man Knows My History by Fawn Brodie (1945) was a nuclear bomb of a book.

In Sacred Loneliness: The Plural Wives of Joseph Smith (1997) goes into the MINIMUM 33 girls and women Smith "celestially wed," including minors, mother-daughter pairs, etc...

For a much more accessible option, look up Mormon Stories on YouTube. The church recently sued them, so you know they're good. And lest you sneeze at that, the Mormons successfully forced fucking WIKILEAKS to take down one of the church's internal instruction manuals (it's copyrighted material of the literal legal corporation that is the Mormon church). They've got crazy money, crazy connections. You've no idea.

Look up what was the first Sherlock Holmes book (Part 2) and ask yourself why captive Mormon women became such a theme then. In the UK!? Yup. And so much more.

Did you know that the Mormon church owns 2% of the landmass of Florida? Like right now?

I'm just trying to say: it's a deeeeep fucking rabbit hole.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago

Extremely interesting, thank you for the recommendations!

[–] khannie@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

I just discovered this yesterday and went all the way down that rabbit hole. Holy moly they are really trying to beat down on the guy trying to do the right thing. That police department is NASTY.

It looks like he has some good lawyers coming his way though. Looking forward to the second part of the civil rights lawyer's video (and part three of his own).

[–] cybervseas@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

Seems like it's a really deep rabbit hole!

Definitely SLC. Hands down.

Shit is like walking through the looking glass.

And not in the cool, drug-induced way. Not like that at all.

[–] JeanValjean@piefed.social 16 points 4 days ago

I lived in Provo for 2 years. I'd still be there if not for the Mormons.

[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 15 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I've heard that, in terms of geography and natural scenery, Salt Lake City is the city people want when they think they want Denver.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

What do you get instead with actual Denver?

[–] Frozengyro@lemmy.world 16 points 4 days ago

High plains just before the mountains. SLC is more in the mountains

[–] HeHoXa@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 days ago

They have a program that marches the homeless around the city on rotation to keep them out of sight.

There's a disturbing degree of popular support and blissful ignorance

[–] glups@piefed.social 5 points 3 days ago

Yes! I've been there several times, and I hate to be the type of person that describes it as having bad vibes, but it always feels weird

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.cafe 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Look, I'm just going to say it: I cried the first time I visited, okay? It was that beautiful. Then I immediately moved there. Whoops. Worth it(??????) I'm still not sure. Those 5-6 years definitely took a piece of me.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.cafe 3 points 3 days ago

The first time I went to Paris it was in late November and freezing rain was falling. There was a transportation strike and only one subway line was running. I got drenched and caught double-pneumonia on my first day there and was very sick the entire week I was there.

Still had a better time there than SLC.