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I recommend people make their own "language(s)." Or code(s) to communicate openly without fear of deciphering (or at least quickly and easily). You don't run the risk of people really being able to translate and understand what you're saying.
My dad and his best friend did that when they were growing up. Now we all speak it and so do our kids. Nothing fancy, but most people look confused when they overhear it.
Hell yeah! That's awesome. I'm still trying to convince my wife to do this with me, so we'll see lol
My wife does this with her mom (it was originally a "twin language" that her mom and identical twin spoke together as kids). And then I eventually picked up on it, and now we all sound strange when people hear us use it lol. It's also nothing fancy, but nobody really thinks we're actually saying shit when they overhear it
The funny thing is, we all thought my parents made it up to talk in code around us kids. When we learned that his friend knows it too, I've always wondered if those kids know it and a whole slew of other people too possibly.
Oppish. You'll sound like an auctioneer with tourettes, but with a little bit of practice, it's faster to use, easier to understand, and harder for unpracticed people to decipher.