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Evidence that dozens of women were groomed into online sex work by members of influencer Andrew Tate's "War Room" group has been uncovered by the BBC.

Leaked internal chat logs identify 45 potential victims between March 2019 and April 2020 but the total number is likely to be higher.

The texts also appear to show the techniques used by War Room members to exploit possible victims.

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[–] Veraticus@lib.lgbt 96 points 1 year ago

It’s always the people you most suspect.

[–] someguy3@lemmy.world 80 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Mr Tate says the War Room - which costs $8,000 (£6,300) a year to join - is a network of powerful men and those who want to learn from them.

However, the leaked online chats indicate the War Room teaches members through its so-called "PhD" course - the initials stand for "Pimpin' Hoes Degree" - how to groom women into sex work.

Members are instructed by some of the War Room leadership - known as "generals" - to romantically seduce, emotionally manipulate and socially isolate women before luring them into performing on webcams - often taking all or most of the money they make.

[–] xuxebiko@kbin.social 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

he's a pimp and wants other men to be pimps too.

[–] AbidanYre@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

He wants them to pay him for the same PUA shit that's been floating around online for years.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you think his lawyers physically or just internally facepalmed when they heard what the PHD course stood for?

[–] ivanafterall@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

I imagine a belly laugh emanating from a warmly-lit, mahogany-walled study late at night.

[–] mo_ztt@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I know this is not gonna be some revelation, but: I have literally never encountered someone who makes their whole identity about being an Alpha for the sake of getting women, being superior to other men, etc, who doesn't have some deep insecurity at the heart of it (and not very well hidden).

Mostly the dudes who are what Andrew Tate wants to be have interests like fishing or carpentry or business or some particular sports team. They don't spend all their time in the "war room" scheming with other dudes how they can work together to trick women into having sex with them.

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 29 points 1 year ago (1 children)

scheming with other dudes how they can work together to trick women into ~~having sex with~~ earning money for them.

FTFY

Call him what he is: a pimp. He made his money pimping women online. They're not full blown prostitutes, AFAIK, but he's still just a pimp. The dangerous part is he's successfully parlayed this into a "hustle mindset" to get rich, when pimping and conning people into paying him for his "wisdom" is how he got rich. So he's also a conman.

That's the dangerous thing about him. My step-kids think he's worth listening to because, "it's just different for men, you know?" No I don't know, and I've been a man a lot longer than this asshole or them. Any time I ask them to explain it to me, they can't. "It's just different." It's not that I think my step kids are going to start grooming women for sex work, but it's entirely possible that they're subconsciously seeing women as "less than" and painting it as "men's responsibility to protect and provide." And that's pretty toxic IMO.

[–] mustardman@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 year ago

That last part sounds pretty tough to deal with as a parent. It's hard to deprogram people from brainwashing.

[–] Skoobie@lemmy.film 12 points 1 year ago

Not to mention that the entire "Alpha Male" philosophy was disproven by the very same guy who hypothesized it. My dude went back to check out the same family of wolves years later to see how things had gone and guess what? The "Betas" he'd witnessed weren't the inferior members of the pack at all. They were the kiddos. The "Alphas" he'd witnessed being recognized as superior by the "Betas" were actually just the parents raising their kids. He tried to tell the world how he'd fucked up but by then the damage was done and nobody was listening.

[–] FaeDrifter@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago

Oh yeah, that's the whole point. Grifters, cult leaders, and other social predators are intentionally targeting the most vulnerable demographics.

[–] SCB@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Per the article, the leader of the "War Room" is a 60+ year old man who has been involved with "at least two cults."

Everyone who falls for Tate's schtick is always some lost little boy with no sense of purpose, often occupying a grown man's body.

[–] Saneless@sh.itjust.works 41 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Imagine being so insecure that you look up to this guy

[–] Clown_Tempura@lemmy.world 28 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'd rather not imagine it. There's an entire population of failed men who lost the chance to ever make something of themselves when they decided to make idolizing rapists a part of their identity politics.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The truly terrifying part is that it's not just men. Lots of teenage boys look up to Tate. That scares the shit out of me. The fallout from him will be multi-generational.

[–] chakan2@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

The important question there is why are there so many failed men in the first place.

You have to be utterly desperate and broken to look up to a slug like Tate.

[–] gummybootpiloot@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not even, I know men in stable relationships with good jobs that look up to this guy for some reason or another. Its absolutely ridiculous. They think he got arrested for "his opinions".

[–] Carighan@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Legitimately one of the few people in the world I'm not sure I wouldn't just attack if I saw them in the streets. There's a lot pieces of shit out there. A lot who have or had a really big effect, like Trump or Höcke or Rogan or so. But Tate is a special kind of disgusting, horrible and not worthy of, frankly, the air he gets to breathe.

[–] SCB@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Attacking him would be a mistake because he'd definitely press charges and then make money from his idiot followers from it.

Just remind him his dad never loved him and walk away.

[–] Clav64@lemmy.ml 30 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I have a friend who keeps defending him, often deflecting to attack the people writing the article (i.e. BBC) and then ranting about Epstein Island and the Clinton's etc....

Yet here we have a man who has videos of himself talking about trafficking, coercion and abuse of women - and more evidence of them openly discussing it like a grooming gang, yet my friend continues to say words to the effect of "it's the elites trying to take him down for telling the truth"

Honestly, I just do not get it, and would appreciate anyones advice who has maybe faced similar issues how to get through to them.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

You can't reason a person out of a position they didn't reason themselves into. Your best bet, if you wanted to try, is to probably use emotion. Maybe talk about how emasculating it must be to follow this guy who needs to groom women or something. Idk.

[–] elscallr@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

You can’t reason a person out of a position they didn’t reason themselves into.

Nicely put.

[–] trash@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think you need to replace this friend.

[–] Clav64@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I'm appealing to help on the internet, I'm pretty much exhausted and this is my last gasp to find a way to help him tbh.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 9 points 1 year ago

Surely the elitists would be hiding evidence of his crimes and then using his services.

Fucking conspiracy theories can't keep a straight story.

[–] Infinity187@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Fuck that "friend".

[–] Dirk@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Why do we need to discuss this incel king's bullshit?

[–] Zelaf@sopuli.xyz 72 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Because he got rich by abusing women and talking online about how great that is. Then proceeds to trick younger generations to have a toxic mindset about life, mental health and how to treat people around you and especially how to treat women.

If we don't share, discuss and argue against his crimes, abuse and manipulation on social media, minds will probably have a harder time to change.

Speak up, spread awareness and help people either stay in toxicity and not get anywhere in life or grow and have a better understanding of how things actually are.

[–] Dadifer@lemmy.world 35 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My 9-year-old daughter sent me a Tate quote.

[–] gregorum@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

THIS is why this shit needs to be talked about

[–] d00phy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Wanted to reply to this earlier. I’m so sorry for this. Hope you and your daughter can address that together.

[–] Dirk@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I’m not giving this person any platform, not even one you mentioned. Because this is what offenders like him want. The only right way to deal with him is putting him in court.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 year ago

It's good to talk about, and when able to, make fun of these groups and types of actions, so possible potential victims can see this and not go down the same incel pipeline.

The KKK took a hit in their growing numbers when comic book nerds made them a joke in a Superman radio show. They later made it into a comic and published so more people would know about the Klans code words and rituals and remove the mystery that drives newcomers.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Superman_Smashes_the_Klan

[–] stopthatgirl7@kbin.social 21 points 1 year ago

Because even though you might not care about him, a lot of teenage boys do and are being influenced by him.

[–] Laticauda@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

Maybe because of his illegal activities and abuse of women?

[–] xc2215x@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

This is no shock to anyone.

[–] Jaysyn@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

So, does anyone have any idea of how many years he's looking at in prison?

[–] ChrisLicht@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Good time for Romania to add hobbling to its schedule of available punishments for pimping at scale.

[–] mtchristo@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Is there more noise around his trials than subtance ?? . It seems like it is moving nowhere. and he knew how to stay within the gray zone

[–] TheRealKuni@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The legal system takes time.