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[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

The people inside the walls told me to. I no longer dare to defy them.

[–] folaht@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Got banned on Lemmygrad for being hitler. Most of my family considers me Stalin.

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Where Boost goes, I go.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Because Kbin isn’t around anymore

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

oh wow I quite liked kbin. what happened?

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The person writing it had some personal and medical problems. I wish I could help him out because he brought me to the fediverse.

[–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

I heard he was having some issues with his health insurance. He said something about taking matters into his own hands, whatever that means.

I left Twitter and Reddit and I found Lemmy and Mastadon. Lemmy is going much better than Mastadon.

[–] Bronzebeard@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Reddit went ban happy and nuked my 13 year old account over attempting to appeal a mod power tripping over an innocent comment they didn't like.

Which was after the api think killed RiF

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago

The lack of accountability of mods on reddit. Reddit doesn't want to lose their free labor.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Much better community. I've posted on Reddit and gotten posts removed, downvoted, and no interaction. Communities are smaller here but if you post something, you will get interaction.

Edit: also, after you scroll through reddit for a sufficient amount of time. You realize everything on your algorithm is karma farm bots reposting stuff. Every now and then you will get decent posts and then you look through the comments and there are karma farming bots. Essentially, you have to sift through a pile of shit to find good content.

[–] dsilverz@thelemmy.club 3 points 2 weeks ago

I first knew fediverse through Mastodon, so my answer has more to do with the whole concept of fediverse than with Lemmy alone.

My main reasons initially were the following:

  1. I don't really like crowded networks (it's actually a personal trait of mine, derived from the physical fact that I don't really like crowded places at all).
  2. I hate when algorithms try to lead me, ruling over what I write and/or ruling over what I read.
  3. I like alternative options and the unknown. Between a latin/roman A and B, I often tend to choose a greek Gamma (trying to always think outside boxes).

And I kinda of liked it. Well, Mastodon has been a cemetery, so most of my fediverse interactions happen through Lemmy.

Just out of curiosity: among several Lemmy instances, I specifically chose The Lemmy Club as an instance for having a Lemmy account for a symbolic reason. Back when I was signing up on Lemmy and trying to find a good instance, the initial "thelem" from "thelemmyclub" got to my attention, because at that time I was delving into Aleister Crowley's Thelema (Liber Al Vel Legis, The book of the Law). So "the lemmy club" kinda of resembled "Thelema club" to me. I'm not a Thelemite, at least not entirely, because I'm more inclined towards a syncretic Luciferianism, but I liked the hidden symbolism that I got to see within the instance's name (also it's actually another personal trait of mine, trying to find patterns everywhere at every time, even though it's just a pattern to myself).

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago

Initially because reddit permabanned me. Then I got comfy here

[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago

It's the spot!

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 weeks ago

Grew up on enthusiast BBS, Lemmy is like a bunch of them are linked up.

Dislike for profit internet as it must inevitably lead to enshitification, just never had a term for that in the past :)

I don't have an issue with "toxicity" as i just ignore it, like a dog shit on the side walk. I prefer the "BBS/Usenet format" to Twitter like Mastodon though I am over on Masto and had been there for many years. I don't participate much though.

[–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Reddit killed third party apps and their mobile site barely functions, so I wasn’t able to use reddit on mobile without installing spyware/adware.
Lemmy was the best alternative.

[–] MITM0@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Cuz there are 3rd party apps on both Desktop & Android

[–] Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 weeks ago

I can't be on Reddit, but I like the branching comment format and thematic post grouping ideas I learned there.

[–] Hexadecimalkink@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago

I don't think all social media should be based in one country because that creates a risk of political censorship.

[–] Aux@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

To monetise it and extract wealth from lemmings.

[–] breadcat@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

just one more fedi account bro just one more

[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

In the past, I always felt good about never being on Twitter, considering how much people complained about it on Mastodon.

And then I realized I instead visited Reddit daily. To maintain my perceived superiority, I had to quit that and ended up here.

[–] Tehdastehdas@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Quora's enshittification ~2018-2024 went too far, and I'm still looking for something good enough. Checking out Lemmy, Trust CafΓ©, and Kialo.

To give me something to do on my phone during work hours since there's no way I'm touching the official reddit client

[–] jaypatelani@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago

For BSD and Unix community

[–] Lauchs@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

API issue made me leave, AI scraping posts and forcing ads made me stay away.

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[–] SoulWager@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm new here, but the straw that broke the camel's back was reddit getting rid of r/random. Also more reposts than new content. Also feels like there are more bots than people. Plenty of other anti-user stuff over the years.

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Reddit banned me for saying I should be allowed to punch Nazis, appeal silently declined within the hour. Didn't consider it worth pursuing further, had reddit-shaped hole.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Reddit mobile app support was the last straw.

[–] Alphamars@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I have created different emails and using different ip address form different networks. The moment I use the account on my current ip, I get banned

[–] tupalos@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Got banned from Reddit. Enjoying Lenny so far but there’s some subreddits that don’t have enough traffic so I still go back to peruse. Anyone got advice to get around the reddit ban?

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

waiting for a bus

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

just lemmy or the federation? im on mbin and I left with the big reddit migration and was pleasantly surprised to find something a bit closer to the old internet I knew. Im one of the few who don't see the need for it to get popular but its fine to me if it does.

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