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I'm kinda regretting not naming it oneninesix, but here we are. I guess I love letters.

~~To anyone wondering what's up, I did this on my phone while out in the "big city", so I'm still waiting to get home to do anything serious. I have a few ~~suckers~~ really nice people who volunteered for modding along with me. Anyone else who is interested, drop me a line. I'll be picking mods when I get home in a few hours. Sorry for the wait and I'll do my best to put out any fires in the meantime. I didn't think this would take off!~~

For those wondering, here's my take on moderating the place.

  1. Moderation is to facilitate an experience for its users in line with the goals of the community and the instance. It's not to push a personal agenda, give you a bigger hammer in debates, set up a digital fiefdom, etc. You certainly can and should include your mod experience on your dating profile, though. Unilateral decisions are not cool except in a few situations, like if 100% of your userbase is usurped by literal Nazis.

  2. 196 exists to be a place where you post something (often but not always something goofy) when you visit. I know not everyone does and that's fine - I still love you. These things can't be offensive or hurtful, though, especially not intentionally so. Unintentional vs intentional I believe is a HUGE distinction and needs to be considered when moderating.

  3. ~~LBJ~~ LBZ exists as an inclusive, (relatively) judgment-free zone for gender-diverse folks. I intend for us to uphold that here. I say relatively judgment free because there will be people looking to start shit and mods and admins are going to have to judge their actions, but only their actions.

If you wanna be my modder, you gotta get with my bullet points...or argue persuasively why I should amend them (but that part doesn't fit the tune).The three big things I'm looking for otherwise are diverse viewpoints, if you can remain reasonably impartial, and if you can say you're sorry. The last is huge for me. As a mod, you're going to mess up. I used to mod on Reddit and I certainly did! I find it's important for maintaining the community's respect to be able to admit when you made a bad call and what you'll do to avoid it in the future.

@ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone, pointers would be welcome as I think you do a great job.

Community feedback is encouraged and welcome, just be aware I'll be a little slow to respond for a bit.

PS: wow, I really DO love letters!

Edit: Corrected point three, damn autocorrect! Believe it or not, we're not an inclusive community in LBJ's corpse.

Update 20/1/25: We're replete with mods for now! Thank you all who reached out. I'll start pulling these stickies as they get irrelevant, I'm just a full disclosure kind of person so I want people to know what is/has been going on.

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[–] Sop@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Feedback: no more ‘fuck tankies’ in banner or rules. It’s divisive because it has no consensus definition and I think we should make all leftist feel welcome and just use mod action if someone is being harmful to the community.

No authoritarian propaganda - auth-right, auth-left, or auth-else.

I think this is clearer - community generally is about silly fun, building people up, and maybe some good natured anti-establishment jabs. Folks want to get deeper/punchier about political world views, it's not like there's a shortage of places to do that.

Then again, the line seems clear to me, but it may not to others...which is kind of a larger rub these days anyway, isn't it?

[–] WrittenInRed@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

One rule I think might be a good idea is that mods aren't allowed to moderate their own posts/comment chains. Not that it's really been an issue on 196 in the past afaik, but there are some communities where the mods will get into an argument with another user and then remove comments for incivility or a similar rule which obviously has massive potential for abuse. Assuming there are enough mods where it's not an issue to do so (which seems very likely based on the number of people interested in moderating) preventing situations like that entirely seems beneficial.

I cannot agree more. Good call, I appreciate the input.

[–] Arkhive@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The only experience I have is small leadership roles in some discord (🤮) communities, but I’d be willing to try my hand at moderating here. I’m trans, I like to think of myself as a good listener, and while my neurodivergence sometimes makes me “not get the joke” I generally think it forces me take a step back from my emotional response to things and look toward community reaction for guidance on various posts and issues. First and foremost I’m glad this community was made to help us stay on LBZ, and I’d love to help contribute to it even though I’m not a frequent poster.

I guess I’ll add a strong affinity for privacy, opt-in centric policy, self governance, and mutual accountability, as core tenants of digital communities. Especially in leadership roles I want to hear from my members, and create systems that work for them, not work the way I maybe envision them.

[–] Cornflake@pawb.social 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm a bit late on the wagon, but if you're still in need of mods, I would gladly help curate this community and do my best to maintain onehundredninetysix as we know it ^^

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Just in case, I PMed you about modding. Just wanted to be sure it didn't get lost.

[–] Cornflake@pawb.social 1 points 13 hours ago

Thank you! Just replied ^^

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 days ago

Feels like it should have been 197 😅

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I vow to make this comm 1000% more trans and leftist if appointed mod 🤓

I am in cahoots with the international trans mafia. I will not show anyone any quarter. (I already mod shit on here)

[–] Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world 0 points 3 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Sorry, but I have to withdraw my offer. I am currently struggling with mental health and can't handle any more toxicity or drama.

The last few days have shown me that stuff like this is not good for me at all.

So, good luck and happy rules.

~~Hello! It's me, Roflmasterbigpimp! The lovable rascal from communities like !bubatzgartenclub@lemmy.world and, since yesterday, !196@lemmy.world.~~

~~And to some degree even !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone for a whopping two days, until feddit.de (and therefore my account) died.~~

~~Even though I have barely done any moderation at all over at !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone, I still want to help out and perhaps sort things out further. I tried to do my best on the .world 196. I encourage you to check my comment history about this topic and form your own opinion about me.~~

~~I can 100% understand if you decline my offer, but I really like this community and want to make this work.~~

~~Furthermore, I would advise adding a rule along the lines of "All decisions affecting the community and its members as a whole must be backed by a public vote." This is something that could have prevented this whole disaster in the first place.~~

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 0 points 3 days ago

This is part of the deal you make when joining a community with active mods, admins, and rules. Not everything is up for debate. I know firsthand that this can be quite frustrating sometimes, but we can’t act like everything else has always been subject to election up to this point. It simply was not.

https://lemmy.world/comment/14556651

Not sure that really shows you under the best light

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 0 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The canonical name being written out in words makes sense if you or Ada didn't want to take over the existing community (which IMO would have been preferable). But I would strongly prefer that the display names of both communities make it clear which it is. So !196 would become "196 (archive)" and !onehundredandninetysix should just display "one hundred and ninety six", or at least "196 (new)". This is just so it's very clear at a glance, regardless of where in the UI you're seeing it, which community you're looking at, and helps differentiate it visually from the LW one.

[–] KoboldCoterie@pawb.social 0 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Do you not see the instance name after it? For me, it shows up as "196@lemmy.blahaj.zone", which makes it distinct from "196@lemmy.world". It doesn't need to be distinct from the old one, because they locked that one to new posts.

I agree that it would have been much better if we could have just taken over the old 196@lbz but here we are.

[–] Blaze@feddit.org 0 points 3 days ago (1 children)

!onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone and !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone show up as similar in a few menus as they rely on display names and not ID

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 1 points 3 days ago

That's the main problem, definitely. A secondary problem is that in some places it might show the instance name, but it's not quite as prominent as the community name. So it takes a second longer to figure out which one you want. If that second can be entirely removed by one easy change, even if it is only one second, that's a good thing to me.