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[–] PixelPilgrim@lemmings.world 3 points 3 months ago

Got banned on Reddit years ago and I've been on Lemmy for a month

[–] trilobyte81@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

They gave me a tempory ban for bull crap so i deleted my 10+ year old account and moved here

[–] ptc075@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 months ago

Perma-banned, and the worst part is I'm not even sure why. I logged in while away on vacation, got hit with the 'you're logging in from an usual location, please confirm with an e-mail code', and when I did that, boom, locked with no option to appeal.

I find some humor in that a robot decided I was a robot. Perhaps that will save me when the great robot uprising occurs?

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 3 points 3 months ago

I was never banned on Reddit (did get the boot from like 3 subs but that was in 10 years of redditing) β€” but I manually purged my account when I left.

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Got permabanned. I was one of the last protestors from the API stuff standing.

both of my accounts are still up, i just like Lemmy more

[–] caboose2006@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

I came here when they made the API changes. I made the right choice. Rn Lemmy doesn't offer the variety and volume of content that Reddit did, but fuck those guys.

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I got banned because one of the mods of r/entertainment didn’t like a joke I made. After I appealed it it was denied by admins because β€œthe moderators need to be able to protect their communities”.

My joke: β€œ1 like=1 wank 🫑 ”

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[–] Leorhall@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I’m not banned, but prefer Lemmy more, or at least the idea of it. I come here first, browse around the communities I’m subscribed to, and then shift over to Reddit to browse again. Unfortunately, I’m still seeing more interesting things to me over there, people gushing over Alan Wake, talking up the war in Helldivers, chatting about ways to buy things locally instead of American, etc, the topics I’m interested in.

I do find that things keep getting more interesting here, more discussions I’m keen on seem to be surfacing, and I take that as a good sign.

[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Just left during the API thing. I've rarely been back, mostly to the subreddits for games I play (unfortunately still the best communities for them) but I used to spend hours a day there, and now it's minutes a month if that much.

Never banned or even shadowbanned as far as I know.

[–] ThirdConsul@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

No, but I'm banned from:

  • r/republican for asking if they have ever heard about besieged fortress syndrome
  • r/twoXchromosomes for telling a mod that she's bullying a person who disagreed with her in a discussion about abuse - like an abuser would (the mod was trying to rally other people into joining her into cyberbulling)
  • r/menslib for writing that being a victim is not an excuse in a thread about a 20-something yo woman grooming young girls into porn (she herself too was groomed).
  • some political ones for "hate speech against Russians" - for cursing them and their invasion of Ukraine.
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I think so? I used to browse the site over breakfast, and one morning, Apollo couldn't connect. I don't want to cause trouble by trying to log in, if I'm banned, so I have not tried to log in another way.

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[–] bstix@feddit.dk 3 points 3 months ago (2 children)

When Reddit changed the layout (new/old) some ten years ago, I started using a 3rd party app, because "new reddit" was everything that I hated about other sites. I stopped using it when they killed 3rd party apps, but that was really just the final nail in the coffin anyway. It was rotten to the core long before that.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Yeah I still use Old Reddit when I go there.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I just like lemmy more. I still visit reddit irregularly, like every few days.

[–] Zoboomafoo@slrpnk.net 3 points 3 months ago

I'm still using both, but I'm sure with the changes in administration I'll be getting banned soon. I already got a warning for saying that self-declared kings are liable to self-declared regicide

[–] Viskio_Neta_Kafo@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

I was banned off reddit doing to standing up to the r/seculartalk mod Liam and him throwing a little bitchy fit when I used my alts to warn users he was banning them for disagreeing with them. The site then banned me for circumventing his sub ban.

[–] imaqtpie@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 3 months ago

Nah. Reddit just sucks and Lemmy is awesome

[–] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 months ago

I like lemmy more.

[–] innocentpixels@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I just use both. I don't like what Reddit as a company is doing, but they have a larger amount of content

[–] RabbitMix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 months ago

just left and haven't looked back, I'm not using the stupid default reddit app

[–] cyphear@lemm.ee 3 points 3 months ago

After spending some time on Lemmy, I have a feeling that if I were to say anything is get banned. I made a meme of that screaming seagull saying, "Luigi!!!" That I want to post from my main. I just can't bring myself to go back. It seems pointless.

[–] swampwitch@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

I just switched when the API nonsense shat all over the actually good reddit apps, since I primarily used reddit on my phone.

I saw lemmy touted as an alternative and figured why not?

[–] UltraBlack@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I want lemmy to succeed. Sadly reddit has better shitposts

[–] Emperor@feddit.uk 3 points 3 months ago

Left during the APIcalypse, largely only go back to help guide people to the fire exits.

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 months ago

Left on the API troubles went back once or twice for warframe and other small comunities but been liking here much better. I engage with people in here. It doesn't feel like screaming into the void.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago

Lemmy is 99% of what Reddit used to be for me. I still use Reddit for niche stuff, but it’s a solid replacement - especially since Reddit decided we had to use their substandard interface.

[–] toadjones79@lemm.ee 2 points 3 months ago

Trying to switch over. I use them both, but the threats to reddit freedom and it's fast enshitification are the reasons I am currently using both.

Plus, the automod are out of control. I got a three day ban for quoting Clerks. (Try not to blow anyone on your way through the parking lot). I wasn't even being mean, it was all for laughs and got a lot of upvotes before some automod refered me to a prude of a moderator.

[–] Lyra_Lycan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I knew about Lemmy, but didn't migrate until months after drama in Reddit.

I got permabanned from the CasualUK sub for insulting boomers. In a response to the query of the word being a slur, as one person on Twitter felt picked on, I said the ones that act like the stereotype (aka self-absorbed, demeaning others) deserve the nickname the stereotype was given. I was banned for 'identity-based hate' despite the fact that being an asshole to anyone younger than you is not an identity.

I also got banned from GirlGamers for questioning the authorities, which made me realise that some mods really are pricks who rule the subs by removing people that they don't agree with, and I decided that I didn't want to reside in a site where moderators are borderline fascist, no matter how wholesome the other users are.

Someone asked if it's worth avoiding media because you don't agree with the creator. I voiced my opinion, saying that I don't think so, as long as the media makes you happy. I referred to a few examples, including "my love for the Wizarding World, despite its creator being rather toxic". This got removed for 'mentioning Hogwarts Legacy', VERY loosely tying my comment with a sub rule. I reposted the comment twice, once omitting the Wizarding World, and once a copy of the original, adding "(not the game, the whole franchise, power tripping mods!)" which resulted in a three day ban. (For those who don't know, the Wizarding World means the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. This is a very large media franchise spanning a significant more mediums than one game. There are seven more games, in fact). I contacted the mod team, and they said I cannot question them, permabanned me from GirlGamers, and blocked me for thirty days, as if that wins the disagreement.

This kind of leadership, and the controversy over Reddit becoming a walled garden of censorship and run like a corporate cash cow, ended my support. I deleted my account and cut ties emotionally with the communities there.

[–] Frieren@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

You can get banned on Reddit? I thought you can only get banned by those sweaty mods.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I banned myself off Reddit. Deleted my 10 year old account because fuck em.

I didn't, unfortunately, obfuscate my comments before deleting them. However, I find solace in thinking that there is a small win in leaving all of that socialist propaganda in their training data

[–] BabyVi@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

I still have a functional reddit account. But I only use it to view old posts these days as there's still a lot of useful info on reddit.

[–] Bzdalderon@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I find it super funny honestly, because I left Reddit because of shit moderation and a gross bias toward liberal posts in the moderation (ironic now). Then I come here to escape, which I'm realizing is a very liberal a platform, and I'm noticing that it wasn't that it was leftist leaning, the people were just insufferable.

I routinely find things in common with people across the aisle here and the content is way more objective.

I never got perma banned, but I was silenced enough to know that it wasn't good for my mental health to stay. Lemmy is great. I think this is a platform where people can actually just meet in the middle and talk. I got banned from Mastadon on my first day, so it was a no go.

But banana bread, at fucking work bro? HELL. YEAH.

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