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[–] postnataldrip@lemmy.world 117 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 58 points 3 months ago (6 children)

I'm general I agree, but I draw the line at face tattoos. If you have face tattoos I assume you are dumb as sticks.

[–] havocpants@lemm.ee 35 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I've seen people describe face and neck tattoos as the "everlasting job stopper"

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Depends on the job tbh. I couldn't care less about a software developer with face tattoos even if I think less of their life choices.

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[–] yourgodlucifer@sh.itjust.works 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

I feel like face tattoos are judged too harshly at one point in time all tattoos were judged as harshly as face tattoos are now. All of it is arbitrary who cares if someone chose to get a tattoo on their face?

I wish people could do what they want to their bodies without judgment but I don't see that ever happening.

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[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 13 points 3 months ago (1 children)

https://www.businessinsider.com/ethan-westbrooks-face-tattoo-2014-9

tl,dr the man got a tattoo on his face because he knew that would disqualify him for any job except playing pro football.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Well that's a risky gamble...

[–] AtariDump@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago
[–] Dagwood222@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago (2 children)

While I'd never do something like that, I can see his point. Sometimes the only way forward is to burn your bridges.

Also, all this talk about face tattoos reminds me of one of the all time great science fiction novels, "The Stars My Destination," by Alfred Bester. One of the subplots is that the hero gets tattoos that make it easy for his enemies to find him.

Fun read. https://bookshop.org/p/books/the-stars-my-destination-alfred-bester/11574652?ean=9781876963460&next=t

[–] Rusty@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 months ago

That was my favorite book when I was a kid. I only learned that it's the Sci-fi version of the classic book "Count of Monte Cristo" as an adult.

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[–] hellfire103@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 months ago (13 children)

I possibly would allow ones around the edges, and of course Maori face tattoos are fine; but otherwise, yeah.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 3 months ago

OK, fine. I will take face tattoos on a case by case basis but they're walking on thin ice.

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[–] Dyskolos@lemmy.zip 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I would actually not care nor measure that into my judgment. At one particular time in their life, this felt like a great idea to them. We didn't live their life, we can't know. It might even make up for a great story to tell.

And on top of that: I see no difference to make-up, except it's permanent. Women paint their faces like they're applying to Clowns college and noone bats an eye. A nice face-tattoo is just more plainly identifieable as paint than good makeup is.

Not talking about a swastika or other stupid messages of course. If you portrait stupid messages I'm forced to deduct you're stupid.

[–] boonhet@lemm.ee 18 points 3 months ago (6 children)

The permanence IS the most important difference though. One requires you to knowingly make the decision you'll have it on your face forever.

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[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Make up not being permanent is a big reason why it's perfectly OK to use it even if you look like a clown. I'm a dude and occasionally use make up at certain parties.

You seem to agree with me that face tattoos are a terrible idea, but you empathise with their idiot younger selves. I get it, and probably IRL I would not be so merciless. But I prefer that my kids know that face tattoos are a terrible idea even if some people will show them some sympathy.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I prefer that my kids know that face tattoos are a terrible idea...

Ever heard of a cyclical issue? Basically, you believe that people will think less of them for having face tattoos because you think less of people with face tattoos. You're perpetuating the intolerance that you fear your kids would face.

Tattoos don't mean that you're stupid, especially not in today's world where tattoo removal is increasingly available to the laymen. What do you gain by judging people in that way? Just more reason to feel better than them?

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[–] bricklove@midwest.social 38 points 3 months ago

They're also patient and willing to push through a bit of pain for a reward

[–] SpaceCowboy@lemmy.ca 29 points 3 months ago (4 children)

"Showing up on time" is the lowest possible bar, isn't it?

I'm reminded of the Chris Rock bit about people bragging about "paying their bills" and "taking care of their family" as if it's a huge accomplishment. These are just things you're supposed to do!

[–] umbraroze@slrpnk.net 6 points 3 months ago (2 children)

"Showing up on time" is the lowest possible bar, isn't it?

Recently I found an old school yearbook. My entry was written by someone who barely knew me. Said something about me showing up on time all the time. Now, I was like "holy shit that's cringe, I don't want that on my tombstone".

[–] VonReposti@feddit.dk 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Would you prefer "Was late to his own funeral"?

I think that's what'll be on mine.

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[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 24 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Tattoos also apparently taste bad, so they are also good at risk management, as they're avoiding cannibals

[–] ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 3 months ago (1 children)

so they are also good at risk management, as they're avoiding cannibals

Eh, I'd argue it's actually the exact opposite of good risk management. They've spent a lot of time and money mitigating something that's extremely unlikely to ever pose a problem. They should take a step back and reevaluate that risk matrix, maybe get a second opinion on it too.

[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 21 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Mah man, that's just what the cannibals want you to think! /j

[–] Comment105@lemm.ee 5 points 3 months ago

Christians are cannibals (they have a ritual), that's why they don't like tattoos.

[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Is that why sailors got tattows? xD

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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 23 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Years ago I was asked by a recruiter if I had any tattoos and piercings - I don’t, but told them I wasn’t interested in working for a client who’d let that get in the way of hiring the right people.

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[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 22 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

The thing is, people can commit to different things. A classic saying in recovery is "If you put as much effort into your recovery as you did your addiction you would be on top of the world" or whatever. Would you walk 4 hours to make it to a job interview like you would to pick up heroin? etc

Someone might be really into adorning their body with art, but maybe wont show up to crunch data and smile at customers.

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 21 points 3 months ago (9 children)

I've got no problem with tattoos generally, but certain specific tattoos are red flags.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 7 points 3 months ago

Literally this.

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[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 18 points 3 months ago (1 children)

With a decent tolerance for pain

[–] filcuk@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 months ago

An important attribute for people looking to join IT support or retail

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 16 points 3 months ago

Or you're a degenerate who lives with someone who owns a tattoo gun and you're the guinea pig for them to practice on.

[–] deathbird@mander.xyz 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

It depends a lot on the tattoos though. Some tattoos show forethought and patience. Other tattoos show poor decision making. It really just depends.

[–] phx@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Yeah, I was thinking the same. It's basically a visible representation of somebody's thought process. It may indicate something important to them, something they're passionate about, or just a point decision without due consideration for consequences.

People get tattoos that are extremely artistic and represent a significant investment in both time and money. Many get tattoos about something they have a passion for. Some to honor deceased loved ones. Some to represent their culture.

Others get a facial tat with prison symbols or to make themselves look like a lizard/devil, which I can only describe as a "look-at-me" tattoo. That may not be the type of personality you want working for you or even to hang out with.

Others it's a "hey we were drinking and just got this cool new tattoo gun" or "I wanted ink but didn't bother to research local artists or pay for someone that does good work or can spell" ...

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 5 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I love shitty tattoos.

Not on myself, mind you.

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[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 3 months ago

According to the Trump administration, the entire population within a specific range of millennials are gang members to the last.

OG Boomers and Silents are gang members, but they're called lodges and esoteric societies, sometimes churches for tax reasons.

Remember that the primary efforts of Black Panthers and Hezbollah are community support (often cooperating with NGOs like Red Cross and Doctors Without Borders), we can expect that other terrorist organizations are similarly extremist.

[–] ExcessShiv@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 months ago (2 children)

All I think is "oh, that person is either a tattoo artist (and friends with a bunch of them too), or good friends with one". But thats just based off of my own experience, the people I know that are heavily inked are all tattoo artists or married to one.

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[–] Murvel@lemm.ee 5 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Lmao. That drunk tattoo of a dick on your forearm truly speaks to your tardiness and responsibility.

Some level of impressive deduction right there.

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[–] sunbytes@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

"Shagger Mike's Stag-do '14" above a penis with a top hat.

HR: "This guy's exec material"

[–] Beetschnapps@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

“Not where a judge can see”

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