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So I already quit my job…. But it’s not what you think.

I quit my job around two weeks ago at a company I was at for 4 years because I was miserable. I was having anxiety attacks because of the job so I decided to quit as I’m not a person who has ever suffered from mental illness. Since I left I’ve felt great.

I’ve found a job in the same industry they offered me similar pay but the company is much different and the things that would cause my panic attacks are non existent in this new work environment.

Since I’ve been off work though I’ve been looking into ways of starting my own business. My background is B2B sales and I’ve been very successful at it so with the right concept in a business I know I can succeed with the selling piece. Somewhere i can start is by doing photography professionally as I already do this on the side and if I dedicated my time 100% to this I feel like I’ll be able to meet my salary.

My dilemma is whether or not I should just take the leap and dive into my photography business or if I should take this other job in the same industry with less hours and work on my photography until I’m 100% sure I can do this.

I have five months of expenses saved up which leaves me with a little wiggle room at least.

I hate corporate life and my dream has always been to own my own business but at this stage I feel like there’s a lot of research I still need to do and setting up before getting going.

So what would you do in my shoes?

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[–] ExxonDisney@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I say do it as long as your idea doesn't suck. I'm surprised at how many people with bad ideas think they have good ideas.

[–] PoliticsAndWeed@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I think one of the hardest part in the entrepreneur journey is figuring out if the idea sucks or not through implementation. but then at that point, you aren't really failing if your idea doesn't work out you're just learning.

[–] natd327@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

My advice. Take the other job. Continue photography as a side hustle on the weekends, and quit when you have a enough business and savings to feel comfortable for 6-12 months.

[–] tropicroots@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago
[–] Additional-Sock8980@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I would never encourage someone suffering from anxiety to start a business. It’s unbelievably stressful, lonely and life is unfair as an entrepreneur. People can sue you, make up false narratives, publicly review their opinions of you (anonymously).

Take another job and do you passion as a side job for now. If the anxiety goes away and can be set to one particular situation, then maybe go for it later. But it’s a head space that’s dangerous for those with mental health or dependency issues.

[–] teknosophy_com@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Ha, I'm quite anxious and couldn't stand cubicle life. I have to be out there in the world, driving around, and seeing the results of my work!

[–] PoliticsAndWeed@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I agree with you but I am not a person who suffers from anxiety. The job I was at had a toxic work culture, poor leadership, public humiliation, unattainable goals, and extreme micro-management which I was able to handle fairly better than most people at the company. Before then i've never experienced anxiety and as soon as i left that work environment it all went away.

I also think it's different when you're working for yourself than working for someone else and a lot of the frustration I felt was that I was sitting at a desk 12 hours a day 7 days a week in a company that sees me at a number and I'm wasting my life away where as i can spend that time energy and effort on my own projects.

[–] Additional-Sock8980@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Fair answer, then in that case go for it. Nothing worse than a bad situation.

Realise that the entrepreneurial journey in itself has a lot of anxiety, and then decide to embrace it by choice anyway!

[–] arkofjoy@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

5 months is going to be no where near enough. With a business like this, you are going to be far better off doing it on weekends while keeping day job. Spend your evenings during the week creating content that will build your reputation and your weekends shooting.

If you quit your job now, you are far more likely to make decisions about your work that will damage your brand because you are desperate.

[–] FITGuard@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

My Vote: take this other job in the same industry with less hours and work on my photography until I’m 100% sure I can do this.

[–] Private-Dick-Tective@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Build up enough savings reserve for at least a year and THEN quit and see if you can handle the stress of solopreneurship, good luck!

[–] OpenTea323@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Photography can be really contract-based and freelance. I feel like it'd be a good call to go with maybe a part-time photography position or something not super intensive so you can work on your personal photography business on the side. This way there's a stream of income to tide you over if the business has a slow start and so you're able to build a solid foundation instead of needing to be profitable asap.

[–] ThickMommaPump@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I'd try it until you run out of savings.

[–] Feelgoodworldwide@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

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[–] monteasf@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

If you have to ask, nope

[–] TCHIIN@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Do it, it will be a good experience

[–] Whole-Spiritual@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You just go do it.

The people who read books first never do anything. You’ve got the sales skill and know what it takes to hunt business.

I was a top new label enterprise rep selling data to hedge funds and banks back in 2008-2015, became an SVP running a large business unit, then CRO then CEO in tech at a smaller company. I should have just gone out younger.

Now I have a revenue augmentation company for b2b tech, having a blast, hanging with fam and I own the company, debt free. Scales fast. If you actually know how to build, it’s a travesty seeing people as employees.

[–] PoliticsAndWeed@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Thank you for the advice! This is exactly my fear will I have enough time to work on what I need to be doing to be truly successful?

[–] Whole-Spiritual@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I recommend listening to Arnold.

Believe him on the concept of the “safety net”, it is poison.

https://youtu.be/u_ktRTWMX3M?si=BQ-akelXz5v3OzCu

[–] BBQGoose@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Keep the job. Grow your business on the side and maybe figure out a way to market yourself and an course online to supplement your income. I'm assuming it will take more brainstorming and writing of a few other ideas that will make this feeling of entrepreneurship more realistic. How in demand is your new passion? How many clients would you need a month to replace your income? All this should be written down and mapped out before you even think of quitting. Good luck 🤞

[–] General-Lobster-4837@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I think part time and getting things started sound great.

[–] CarelessCoconut5307@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

personally, I want to do photo/video work professionally, and have been doing so, its tough. competitive and right now is kind of an economic downturn. doesnt mean it isnt possible. we should both try, however, I have two jobs, one in video that is contract work, and I work anywhere from 0-4 days a week, and then I also have an amazon job thats flexible. I can pick up anywhere from 12 to 30 hours a week. so I have two part time semi flexible jobs to allow me to build on the side..

food for thought. however I live in my parents basement, so I do have a safety net

[–] Alarming-Mix3809@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

You’re going to need more than five months of expenses saved if you want to go out on your own. How much will you need to spend on advertising, equipment, healthcare, etc.? You need to do more planning.

[–] DDayDawg@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If a corporate job has ever caused you enough stress to have panic attacks then you do not want to be an entrepreneur. Looking up from the “trough of despair” you will miss those days of corporate stress.

[–] Far-Alternative6246@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Definitely disagree! I believe the panic attacks stemmed from having to deal with things that brought you no joy and dealing with people who had only selfish motives. Step out on faith. If you have envisioned this entrepreneurial dream, then it is already destined to be successful. Invest in what brings you joy.

[–] Street-Jicama9456@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Give it a try my friend!! I see my self in your situation. Honestly I do not like corporate work style so I decided to quite my job at the end of March this year. I have been discipline everyday since the time I quit my job. 100% focus on my business idea and make it to real life. Ah I had backup plan and enough saving for a year. It made me feel confident to build what I want. Last month my business got first deal and then took off. If you feeling like not sure it works better you choose work for a living and own business at the same time, this time kind of tough as economic falling down. Wish you all the best of luck!

[–] finishyourbeer@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I would go for it. If it’s what you really want and you really think you can make it work and have thought it through then go for it. You will never be fulfilled with the new job. Even if you “succeed” with the new job you won’t be where you want to be. If you fail with this new business venture, you can at least say that you gave it your best shot and odds are you will be able to get a job in your old industry.

[–] guymclarenza@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Statistically 50% of businesses fail in their first 2 years, Having a fixed income while you do it on the side can be very useful.

Having said that, trying to focus on anything while doing another is very challenging.

[–] foxpandawombat@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Similar position as you, corporate sales, miserable. Im currently building a small business, signed a few accounts so far and feel as happy as ever. Way different feeling going out and getting your own vs selling someone else’s stuff.

[–] Traditional_Mix68@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I see one of these posts like once a day. My cents: dont quit untill u see proof of concept. Then you can throw some marbles in. If you can find the energy and passion for whatever your doin outside of work hours then I bet you will succeed

[–] Alert-Land9256@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Ask yourself this: are you running from something or to something?

In this order: Get therapy to explore your anxiety issues. Take the other job for now Start/continue building your portfolio until you know you feel safe leaving (btw, you’ll likely never feel safe) and then JUMP

It’s never going to happen unless you make the jump. There will never be a ‘right time’ or enough money - you goal is to gain momentum and confidence and then… jump.

[–] Far-Alternative6246@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

“I don’t want a nation of thinkers, I want a nation of workers.” — John D. Rockefeller, early education school system pioneer. The system is designed for more benefits to Entrepreneurs. You have enough cushion and if you still feel unsure, speak to your local SBA and chamber of commerce. They have grants, counseling, mentoring and training programs and can help you with formulating business plan and getting EIN

[–] Shruthi_2851@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I would encourage you to pursue a job with shorter hours while simultaneously indulging in your passion for photography. This way, you can experience less stress and more happiness.

[–] DOM_TAN@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago
[–] S1ckret@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

For me staring a side business was a lot of stress and anxiety. I can't imagine what's it's like starting a business without a main job or saving. Too much risk for me.

After this experience I started valuing my 9-5 better. But still trying out new ideas

[–] Secret-Turnip1115@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Listen your inner voice. If not today, build a path to became who you wanna be.

[–] PoliticsAndWeed@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Love this. Thank you

[–] Intelligent-Yard-657@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

No. I have done that. Struggle is real. What if ur photography hustles takes 10months instead of 5. Then what? Better to grind and suck it up for guaranteed pay until your hustle becomes a business. You want to get to a point where your customers come through referrals or you have built a list of clients until then grind my brother because startups require your time, energy and more importantly money. Besides if you need time off then use your sick days thats what they are for anyways.

[–] themarissajoy@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Starting a business will excite you and give you hope again. But you have to choose one with high demand and I'm sorry but photography is too generic and over saturated.

You may have other expertise that could be leveraged to start a coaching or consulting business where you utilize your photography skills to enhance it. What is your current profession?

[–] PoliticsAndWeed@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Thank you for the advice. The over saturation is definitely a fear I have.

I currently do B2B sales and am an account manager for a big multi national corporation. Before that I did recruitment for a couple years and before that I went to school and majored in political science and international relations.

[–] teknosophy_com@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

As my buddy told me when I took the leap: Dayjobs are dime a dozen. Give yourself a chance. Try it for a few months and see what happens.

I will say, photography is great but the market is oversaturated. I'd suggest doing something where you're rare. I do in-home tech support for seniors, and am pretty much the only one in my midsize city who does it. The calls never stop.

[–] PoliticsAndWeed@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Great advice! How did you ultimately come up with that concept? Were you in IT or is tech a passion of yours? I’m always interested in hearing how people found their niche as I find this to be one of the trickiest things starting out.

[–] RuralDisturbance@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

No, you should become an entrepreneur and then quit your job, make a plan, follow through, one foot in front of the other.

I don’t promote the way your going about it, I stayed at a job I hated for 17 years to build my life raft, then I floated off, waving goodbye, never needing another employer again, it will be 5 years in March.

[–] am-bro-sia@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Do it on the side. After work hours, weekends or sometimes during work hours.

Once you have a good flow of income with photography then you reduce your hours.
So, I suggest to do both in parallel. If you are getting a lot of clients and projects with photography then still do it 3days of regular work and 4 days for photography.

Success!

[–] papatradesdaily@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

Life is short. Take the risk. Go all in. Discipline yourself and work 120% of your time. If you truly enjoy what you are doing, there will be no burnout and you will thrive. A healthy dies is essential and daily exercise is crucial. On a WORST case scenario, you go apply for a job similar to what you had and you end up right where you started. The growth and journey will be worth it regardless the outcome. Again, life is short. Don't forget to eat right, you're going to need it.

[–] costcowaterbottle@alien.top 1 points 10 months ago

I totally relate to feeling like I couldn't be successful in business with a full time job. I'm just not one of those "grind 25 hours/8 days a week" people. Once I left my job business picked up tenfold. That being said I had been saving and investing hardcore for 5 years and could have supported myself on zero income for several years if necessary. 5 months wouldn't be nearly enough for me to feel comfortable making the switch. Don't let your passion become a stressor when money runs low. Having a bigger runway gives you more time to figure it out