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I strongly identify with this meme 😛. Thought others here might as well. There’s this “paradox” of much preferring solitude much of the time while knowing you need other people in your corner in life.

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[–] IvyRaven@midwest.social 13 points 2 years ago

It's 'funny' because I want to interact with people, but interacting as myself means I feel drained. It's a vicious cycle.

Are you actually alone?

No! There are thousands of bacteria living on every centimeter of your surface area!

[–] Hexarei@programming.dev 8 points 2 years ago

I want to be alone, but not by myself

[–] Sketchpad01@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I'd much rather be alone and not have to think of how to act and speak but also I realize that I have a limited time where I will be living with my family and having them at that short of access. I'd like to say I've found a happy medium but I mostly like to hide in my room.

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I have a wife and two kids and work full time managing people.

I have not felt lonely in nearly two decades, and would relish the opportunity. Any moment alone now is a brief reprieve with the knowledge it will end soon. I love my family and my job, but I miss being single and able to avoid interacting with people for a week or so at a time (outside of work).

[–] Mordachai_Shedbacon@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Sonichu's Paradox states that a being cannot simultaneously touch grass and enjoy it.

I love it slightly more than I hate it

[–] PsychTink@radicalsocial.work 1 points 2 years ago

@sature This thread was validating to read.