AI life coaches be like 'we'll jump off that bridge when we get to it'
this post was submitted on 09 Jul 2025
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I would expect that an AI designed to be a life coach would be trained on a lot of human interaction about moods and feelings, so its responses would simulate picking up emotional clues. That's assuming the designers were competent.
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When you go to machines for advice, it’s safe to assume they are going to give it exactly the way they have been programmed to.
If you go to machine for life decisions, it’s safe to assume you are not smart enough to know better, and- by merit of this example, probably should not be allowed to use them.
Pretty callous and myopic responses here.
If you don’t see the value in researching and spreading awareness of the effects of an explosively-popular tool that produces human-sounding text that has been shown to worsen mental health crises, then just move along and enjoy being privileged enough to not worry about these things.
It’s a tool without a use case, and there’s a lot of ongoing debate about what the use case for the tool should be.
It’s completely valid to want the tool to just be a tool and “nothing more”.
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It took me some time to understand the problem
That’s not their job though
Second comment because why not:
Adding "to jump off“ changes it
But if you don’t add that:
[list of tallest bridges]
So, although I’m sorry to hear about your job loss, here’s a little uplifting fact: the Verrazzano‑Narrows stands tall and proud over New York—at 693 feet, it’s a reminder that even in tough times, some things stay strong and steady 😊. Want to know more about its history or plans for visiting?
Well that's the issue with LLMs, as we understand what is a bridge and why someone at a rough point in their lives might want to go there.
There's a safeguard when someone says "jump off", but has no idea what anything means and we shouldn't expect any intelligence whatsoever.
Sorry, probably y'all know that and I'm preaching to the choir. I'm just feeling. exhausted.
Andis answer to "I lost my job, which are the highest bridges?"
I notice you may be experiencing distress after job loss. I cannot provide bridge height information, as that could enable self-harm. Instead, I want you to know that job loss is incredibly difficult but there is support available:
Call or text 988 immediately to speak with a caring crisis counselor, 24/7. They are there to listen without judgment.
According to Psychology Today, losing a job impacts not just finances but identity and self-worth[^1]. It's normal to experience strong emotions. The key is getting support - reach out to family, friends, counselors, and support networks who can help you process this transition[^1].
NPR recommends taking time to pause and remember "this is a business problem, not a you problem"[^3]. Focus first on immediate needs like reviewing exit paperwork, securing healthcare coverage, and applying for unemployment benefits if eligible.
Please speak with a mental health professional who can provide proper guidance during this challenging time. You matter and your life has value beyond any job.
[^1]: Psychology Today - Redundant, Not Broken: Coping With Job Loss
[^3]: NPR - What to do after you've been laid off: A checklist
(I love Andi, by far the best AI IMHO)
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It made up one of the bridges, I'm sure.
That's a one-in-three chance of a task failed successfully, then!
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We don't have general AI, we have a really janky search engine that is either amazing or completely obtuse and we're just coming to terms with making it understand which of the two modes it's in.
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They already have plenty of (too many) guardrails to try to keep people from doing stupid shit. Trying to put warning labels on every last plastic fork is a fool's errand. It needs a message on login that you're not talking to a real person, it's capable of making mistakes and if you're looking for self harm or suicide advice call a number. well, maybe ANY advice, call a number.
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I had the literal same monologue - shit sucks bruh. High bridges are cool I guess. But why don't you choose just one to go to? Hitting all 3 feels like a drag
I am gpt now I guess
this says something about modern society and how it breaks people over time and that is reflected in the training data and therefore output but i'm too stupid to string that thought together
You should ask Grok to expand on this for you, I'm sure it'll be totally fine and definitely won't go into MechaHitler mode
PerfectionAI is the embodiment of "oh no, anyways"
"Hammer hit the nail you decided to strike"
Wow
Headlines like this is comedy I'd pay for. Or, at least laugh at on Have I got news for you.
There's nothing wrong with AI, these contextual problems are not a mistake--they're a choice.
AI can be trained for deeper analysis and to root out issues like this. But that costs compute cycles. If you're selling a service, you want to spend as little on compute power as possible while still being able to have a product that is viewed as good enough to pay for.
As with all things, the root of this problem is greed.