You sound like a real douche
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Most DNs look like a sack of crap, so naturally this post will receive no upvotes. But I agree with you. The denizens of my home city in the USA look and dress like shit. Most people that I meet in Latam think I'm European.
I can't speak to Europe, although anecdotally I've heard that Stockholm is ideal if tall Nordic blondes are your thing. Bogota, Colombia has the most hot women per capita that I've seen in my life. Model quality women everywhere that also dress well. Montreal, Quebec and Vancouver, BC would be my picks north of the Rio Grande.
I find my standard of what's attractive/appealing changes once I stay in a place long enough (within reason of course). Usually after a few weeks things sort of realign. But maybe that's just me.
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