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[–] lasta@piefed.world 88 points 1 week ago (2 children)

For anyone else wondering why 29-year-olds specifically:

The letter is being sent to 29-year-olds becauseΒ women are able to have their eggs frozen at that age without a medical certificate. Women will also be reminded that social security in France covers the cost of freezing eggs for women between 29 and 37.

The article also does mention the arguments that short maternity leave, environmental concerns, and negative outlooks on the future in the country deters people from having children.

So not quite as harsh as the β€œhurry up and reproduce!” message the title implies.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Ok that's actually reasonable. "Hey you're getting older, if you want kids now's a good age to either start trying or freeze some eggs" is something I never would have thought was necessary until entering my 30s and learning multiple people older than me in my life absolutely did not understand that they were approaching the "now or never" age and well into the age where bad luck can take all the chances they have left.

It's weird hearing people in their mid 30s say they plan on having kids someday

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago

It's weird hearing people say they plan on having kids someday

FTFY.

I mean, FFS. Have they no eyes, ears, or lungs? gestures at all this current reality πŸ₯Ί

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

I had my first kid at 40. I wasn't raising kids in poverty or expecting to saddle a huge education debt on them.

[–] Insekticus@aussie.zone 7 points 1 week ago

Knowing how society, government, and policy have evolved over the past few decades, if any woman gets her eggs frozen, the elites will just take ownership if said eggs once the artificial wombs are perfected... or once they get enough slave surrogates to do it in the shadows on some island somewhere.

[–] huppakee@piefed.social 71 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Here's an idea: make raising children affordable.

[–] nimpnin@sopuli.xyz 44 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Here's an idea: don't make your economic system rely on the fact that every single person reproduces

[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

How about just make existing more affordable for everyone, whether they want kids or not.

[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 61 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why would I want to bring another person into this world hellscape?

[–] Insekticus@aussie.zone 18 points 1 week ago

For the oligarchs to use as slaves to make billions off of!

Or to rape, kill, and eat.

Unfortunately, we dont even get to choose which one.

[–] ivanvector@piefed.ca 47 points 1 week ago

I hope everyone who gets one sends a letter back telling the government to get on with taxing the damn billionaires.

[–] 1dalm@lemmings.world 40 points 1 week ago

A drop in birth rates is generally seen as a sign of increasing prosperity in a population... Up to a point. After a certain line it's a sign of decreasing financial confidence and insecurity.

[–] Denjin@feddit.uk 38 points 1 week ago

When I was growing up in the 80s they said global warning would affect our children's children so we should start doing something about it.

Guess what, it's happening to us, already. Why would I bring more people into it. At least I'll be dead before it gets really really bad but statistically I'll see things like the last Coral reefs dying and the amazon rain forest disappearing.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 29 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Its always "have more children" and never "here is 1 million dollars to have a child comfortably"

[–] 1dalm@lemmings.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It has nothing to do with money and everything to do with community.

People aren't having kids because communities have been hollowed out.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

And communities have been hollowed out because everyone is out for 9 hours a day making money.

[–] 1dalm@lemmings.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Making money... So that they can buy a tv so they can spend their last two hours of awake time alone watching tv.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Cause my community meet up is totally at 8:30 PM directly after I put my kids down. I get it, if you want it you gotta put in the elbow grease. But this was done purposefully and it worked wonders.

[–] plyth@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How would children be treated if they are only conceived for the money?

How many parents would hand them a tablet and leave them to themselves?

[–] greenbit@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 week ago

If a country wants people to birth so much, it can cover the upbringing, no need to pay the parents.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Reply with an invoice for €1 million.

[–] JensSpahnpasta@feddit.org 2 points 1 week ago

Not sure about France, but if you take a look at how much money the state is investing in each child here in Germany, that is quite a lot and well over 100.000€

[–] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

While France isn't as bad as the US

  • Make affordable "Family friendly" housing. It's hard to live alone in Paris, let alone as a family of four

  • Spend money in education so we have decent public school, and can deal with bullies

  • The whole global warming and geopolitical tension make getting kids scary, the 2020's looks like the bad scenario young millennials were talking about in the 00's.

[–] 1dalm@lemmings.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I think "invest in IRL social institutions and socially encourage and incentivise people to be positively involved in their IRL communities" and the babies will come soon enough.

But, instead the constant "your miserable life is for work" message doesn't really make people want to skiddley-poo.

[–] starchylemming@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

people always want to skiddely poo but only idiots accidentally reproduce

[–] 1dalm@lemmings.world 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

People might want to skiddley-poo but you actually have to meet someone IRL outside of work to do it.

[–] starchylemming@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

skip the outside of work part. do it right there !

why do you think so many people meet at work

[–] 1dalm@lemmings.world 1 points 1 week ago

I think "so many people meet at work" because many people don't have any meaningful IRL social connections outside of work.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Governments:

If you want people to start having kids again, put wealth caps in place world wide. For as long as there are billionaires and millionaires that hoard all the wealth and power, leaving only scraps for us to survive, we won't be having kids.

Wealth caps will redistribute the wealth back to governments, who can then use it for free healthcare, free education l, even universal basic income

Set that damned cap to 1 million dollars or something. High enough to make sure everyone can live very nicely but low enough to stop hoarding of wealth. Anything over 1 million? To taxes!

Once wealth is nicely spread around again, you'll see, people will start having kids again because now they have a life, resources, and joy in life.

[–] uniquethrowagay@feddit.org 5 points 6 days ago

Make it symbolically high like 10 million dollars. Make sure everybody understands that nobody they know will ever be affected by the cap and even if, they'd still be filthy rich

[–] moderatecentrist@feddit.uk 2 points 6 days ago

Unfortunately the world doesn't have an appetite for sensible ideas like yours. Instead they'd rather blame immigrants and brown people for everything

[–] trk@aussie.zone 2 points 6 days ago

A million is a pretty low bar.

If we could get a Billion in place would be a great start.

"I wasn't going to have kids but I changed my mind when I got a letter from the government telling me it was time" --nobody

[–] CheeseNoodle@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

All we did was create an economy where no one has the time or money for kids... why is no one having kids!?

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 7 points 1 week ago

California governor trying to force ppl back into office. That will certainly help to free up time with all the traffic ppl will be in!

/s

[–] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 19 points 1 week ago

I will start thinking of having kids, when goverments start taking global warming seriously and create a system, where I get to spend time with my kid without ruining myself economically.

β€œProcreation is creating one more human who is going to pollute and consume. It is a secondary reason for me, but I have friends who are clear they do not want children because of that,” he added.

[–] istdaslol@feddit.org 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

we're this close tho have state mandated wives

[–] killingspark@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago

The state sactioned date-nights will continue until morale improves!

[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Isn't false paternity a big issue there? Their ban on paternity tests isn't going to make men more comfortable starting families.

[–] Kkk2237pl@szmer.info 3 points 1 week ago

I have many friends around this age or older.

Only people who got money for flat / house from family, have kids. Others waiting as they will be financially stable.

People want to have kids, but they often dont afford them..