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[–] Toes@ani.social 5 points 18 hours ago

Recently I bought a rare bottle of rum. I don't normally drink and after drinking a bunch of it ...I remember why. Haha

[–] bigboismith@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago

I bought a 5kg can of beans for 0,99€. Not sure what to do with it.

[–] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I bought an ATI Rage Fury Maxx for a lot of money on eBay. It's one of the first dual GPUs, based on the Rage 128 chip.

However, back then there was no flow control between the two graphic chips, which means a lot of games horribly stutter if one of them renders a bit faster than the other. There are a few games that work really well with it, and a shit ton of games that don't.

The card is an absolute novelty, a piece of history and it looks cool. But there is no good reason for putting this in a retro computer, because even a regular Rage 128 will run better.

I don't regret getting it, but I regret paying too much for it. 🫠

[–] Furbag@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

I bought a custom sectional sofa for way too much money to shove into a too-small room.

I think my thought process at the time was that I would have a place to relax and also a spot for guests if I had them over for entertainment, but it took up so much space that it was more of a hindrance and I very rarely had people over and when I did they didn't want to be packed into a small spare bedroom that I used as a computer room.

Couldn't sell it either. Had to pay junk removal to take it away.

[–] CADmonkey@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago

I once impulse bought a motorcycle but I can explain why I did that so...

For the purposes of this thread, I think buying a Mini-2 SE drone is the purchase to talk about. I've always been interested in radio controlled flying things, and I had the extra money, and it was on sale, so I bought it. I don't regret it at all, though, because it turned out to be incredibly useful and fun. I had it for a couple of years until two weeks ago, when I flew the poor thing camera-first into a steel beam, which didn't destroy the drone but put it firmly in the "cheaper and easier to get another drone than to fix this one" territory.

Now I have a license and people pay me to take pictures sometimes.

[–] letsgo2themall@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I did this a lot before I closed my amazon account. They make it way to easy for people who get addicted to shopping. The last thing I bought was a telescope. I have no idea how to even begin to use it. It has all kinds of different lenses and I have no idea what they are for. I guess it looked shiny. It was $260 and is now sitting in my storage building.

[–] dogdeanafternoon@lemmy.ca 0 points 17 hours ago

This boggles my mind. Why are people buying things they don’t want or need?

There is no way this is amazons fault.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Christy Mack Fleshlight. Used it once and never touched it again. Think it's still in storage

[–] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago

My first car was a broken down lemon of a 2001 BMW 325i. Electrical problems out the wazoo. Overheated and lost one of the grills on the way home. I had to replace the radiator. It needed to be kept on a charger just to start. I later learned the gas line needed to be ripped out and replaced. That was on top of the standard stuff. Brakes, rotors etc.

It was my first car purchase. I was with my Mom and we went to this real sketch back ally used car guy. In hindsight it was probably a junkyard or a parts yard. We got down to 2 cars. An manual Acura that my Mom drove and was kinda giddy for because she wants to drive a manual, and the beamer. I really wanted a BMW. I drove it around the block and it made it far enough without me noticing any problems. I was like, that's my car now and got no push back what so ever. I paid $1500 and put in an additional $1000 before I figured out the car will probably never be a daily driver. It lasted for about 3 months. The only bright side was that I learned how to change brakes, rotors, brake lines, batteries, a radiator, and an alternator, all from that one car.

So no I don't regret it. My Mom regrets it more actually. She always says, 'I should have stepped in.' Well you didn't, ohh well.

My next car was the best car I ever owned. A 1995 Toyota Avalon. That car was so smooth. I could get it up to speed and it could stay there no gas for I shit you not 10+ miles. I'd still be driving that car if not for the fact that it got rear ended totaled.

[–] sveltecider@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

Too many to count. What do I even need a safe for? I guess I can put important documents but I truly didn’t need it for anything.

I have ADHD so, yeah. A lot. I've made a rule the last few years, if it's not a NECESSITY or a time sensitive thing (sales don't count), it needs to sit in my cart for 24 hours minimum before buying. It's helped a lot.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 27 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I live in an apartment. I was at a yard sale and saw an old pipe wrench. About a meter long and weighing about 5 kilos. Testosterone told me that I needed to own this. Brought it home and left it in the closet for years.

Last week the kitchen sink was stopped up. Took me about twenty minutes to locate the monster, but I knew I had kept it. Another five minutes to set it to the right size and position it. A half turn loosened the bolt on the U pipe. I was able to snake out the drain without calling the super.

Now I can boast about my mighty feat on the interwebs!

[–] octobob@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I saw a pair of $40 scissors at the hardware store the other day. These things were like almost the size of my forearm. I have no idea what I'd use them for. I may pick them up next time I go.

Edit: Ok looks like cutting thin steel and plastic stuff like siding. I don't know when I'll need this but I know I will at some point.

https://www.homedepot.com/p/Malco-1-in-Straight-Cut-Tin-Snip-M12TS/100147753

They make these electrician scissors that I used to have. They're more meant for cutting cables and stuff. I used them to cut some flat rolled roof material and ruined them but got the job done. These would have been great for that.

[–] runner_g@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

good old tin snips. when I worked at home Depot, zero-markdowned a pair for myself because they were perfect for cutting the thick plastic bands around bunks of lumber and roof panels. I kept those suckers when I quit and use them frequently around the house. it's not an impulse purchase, it's an investment in your future.

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[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago

Someone else posted a similar story.

They do landscaping and whenever kids walk by the youngsters look in awe at the huge shears they use to trim plants.

The poster said they'd think "That's right kids! I get paid to use giant scissors."

[–] flubba86@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Nice one. I agree that the hardest part of hoarding potentially useful stuff is being able find it 5 years later when I finally have a use for it.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's an episode of Malcolm in the Middle where Hal and Lois discover they have a downstairs bathroom that got so filled with junk they forgot about it.

[–] flubba86@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I literally have dreams about that happening at my place. Like, often dream about searching through the garage for a box or something and I open a door to a hallway that leads to a totally different part of our house that we forgot about since we moved in.

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago

Like I said, I live in an apartment and I've never mown a lawn in my life.

One day I was in rural Pennsylvania on the way to a camping trip. We stop at a mall to pick up last minute supplies. There's a display of riding lawn mowers outside.

I'm sitting on one like a child on a mechanical horsey

[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I don't remember why but I bought a $50 manual pencil sharpener that came with own leather carrying case. When it arrived I opened it and there was just a regular brass sharpener inside so I returned it. I was actually relieved when it wasn't the item I ordered and had an excuse to return it.

I guess I don't have anything to regret.

[–] Lumisal@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

A cheap 3060 on a local Finnish used item online store (Tori)

Was so excited about the price I completely missed that the description said it was only partially functional and likely had a single fuse burnt or something.

Spent days trying to figure out why it kept outputting on 240p for the OS except in text only mode, only to eventually go back to the listing to see if I could return and read that they mentioned it wasn't fully functional.

Deep regrets.

If anyone knows how to repair a graphics card though and wants it however, let me know and I'll give it for cheaper than I paid for. I'll regret it much less then.

[–] HurricaneLiz@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Just a friendly note that if you find yourself doing this periodically, get checked for bipolar disorder.

[–] AcidiclyBasicGlitch@sh.itjust.works 56 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Right after we had a baby and moved into a new place, my husband and I decided we wanted to get a tapestry to hang over our bed to tie the room together. For some reason it turned into this really difficult thing. Like we were deciding on matching tattoos or something permanent, and we just couldn't make a decision. For over a year, we would send each other tons of examples, agree on a bunch, narrow it down from there, and then still end up not picking one for one reason or another.

One day ~3ish years ago we were just hanging out listening to music. My husband noticed the very bizarre album cover art for Minnie Riperton's Adventures in Paradise, and showed it to me like "THAT'S FUCKING AWESOME!" and then jokingly said "that's what the tapestry should be."

I can't remember much else, but it seemed so ridiculous it almost felt like a challenge. I looked into it and found out it's surprisingly cheap to just make your own tapestry by getting an image printed on cloth. So I ordered it and then we immediately forgot about it. Several weeks later I had no idea what it was when it arrived in the mail.

We were probably sleep deprived and loopy, but other than that 100% sober when we made this decision. No regrets:

[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I blew around 4k on travel in 2019 and 2020. I blew another 2k on SCUBA gear and training. My only regrets are not spending more on gear that would be easily repairable so I wouldn't need to buy a new set and not buying a much better camera.

My wife had passed away and I didn't know what to do. My only emotion was pain and sadness. I had a little cash left over after her memorial and cremation. Nearly everything was impulse at that point.

[–] AcidiclyBasicGlitch@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Sorry to hear that. Honestly in that situation impulse was probably a protective mechanism driving you to go somewhere else to give you a break from the pain.

Sometimes just going back to a normal routine after losing somebody who's always been part of that routine can be one of the most painful and difficult parts of mourning.

[–] MuttMutt@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

For sure. We had one of the AMC Theaters movie pass things and I couldn't bare to sit in a theater to watch it. The only thing that got me up and out of bed in the morning was her dog. I still have boxes with some of her things in them I can't go through that were packed up when I moved 5 years ago.

[–] kindnesskills@literature.cafe 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I bought myself a new name on impulse.

I had been joking about considering taking that name on and off my whole life, but didn't expect the name change approval papers to show up a couple of weeks after a bender.

Turns out joking about stuff for a long time can just rewire your brain, and I'm actually really happy with my new name.

[–] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 40 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I got drunk as shit and bought a 6' samurai sword. After that I hung my wallet on it so I would have to look at that dumb shit before I bought something.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

On a samurai sword is lame but a 6’ one is sort of a trophy.

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

I've got an injury at the moment that means I have to order my groceries online and have them delivered. So many items I don't remember ordering and bitterly regret. Jelly snakes. Chocolate. Bombay mix. Fancy sourdough crackers.

[–] backalleycoyote@lemmy.today 5 points 1 day ago

I had an opportunity to buy a juvenile peacock. Why not? Learned a lot about caring for peacocks very quickly.

[–] Stupidmanager@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I’m very financially sound and price shop, never impulse buy things. I’m not cheap, but I don’t rationalize something I want unless I’ve researched it.

But then there’s medicated me… I don’t take prescription painkillers unless absolutely necessary. High doses after a surgery have found me binge shopping on places like w00t for the dumbest things. I of course don’t remember ordering at 2am, 120 led candles with remotes and color changing flames. Or after a car accident I felt the need to buy 100 non-refundable boxes of emergency break ice packs (break the capsule and it gets cold for 20 min) - donated these to the local highschool sports club. And my all time favorite was ordering a go-cart, $3500 for no reason.

After some hard financial lessons, my ex just took away my phone if I was going to take high doses of painkillers.

In my early 20s had to help a friend go pickup their 2am drunk eBay purchase of 3 vending machines... That was something lol. 2 he was able to fix up and 1 was just for parts.

[–] AcidiclyBasicGlitch@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I can't lie, the LED candles sound kind of cool. If you're going to use them as decorations, you're obviously going to need a whole bunch. What else are you going to do, use real candles and set the place on fire like a Victorian Christmas tree? At least medicated you was thinking about safety first. (That would be my post medicated rationale at least).

I also did something similar to the 100 non refundable ice packs, but I had what seemed like a really good reason at the time.

When I was pregnant my OB kept telling me to watch this standard birthing video that they make all new parents watch, just so they're not completely unprepared for the experience. I kept putting it off bc I thought "I know how having a baby works. I'm not steewpid!" She kept pushing it, so finally at like 8 months pregnant, me and my husband sit down and watch the stupid birthing video together.

I can't remember exactly which parts really did it, but it ended up kind of scaring the shit out of me.

I just remember that even after being uncomfortable for months, not sleeping, not being able to do anything I wanted to do, (even little stuff like drink more than one cup of coffee or eat certain foods), and finally getting to the point where I couldn't even bend down to pick stuff up, and had to rely on other people for help, I was so ready to just get it over with. Then I watched this video, and I literally started thinking about running away so they couldn't make me give birth.

While we were watching it, I honestly imagined myself standing up, telling my husband I needed to go grab something from the other room, then just getting in my car and driving away without any plan. It was pretty much my body being in the textbook definition of flight mode.

I ended up calling a friend of mine who had a kid, and talking to her about it. She reassured me that it really wasn't that bad, except for the "perenial tearing." 😬 She advised me to get plenty of ice packs and have them ready to go for when I got home from the hospital.

So I ordered a box of crackable ice packs made for exactly that purpose. Came home one day to a giant box sitting on my front porch that said "PERENIAL ICE PACKS" on the outside, and realized I had somehow purchased a box of 150. Ended up having to have a C-section and using none of them, so I also just donated them. Hopefully somebody somewhere got some use out of them.

And my all time favorite was ordering a go-cart, $3500 for no reason.

This is amazing, and probably the best answer anybody has given so far along with the 6ft samurai sword.

Edit: To be clear, not that I suddenly decided I didn't want to have my baby, I just had the very irrational thought of running away to avoid the process of labor. I knew the baby was coming one way or the other, but maybe I could just hold it in forever and raise the baby that way? Idk it was not a rational response, I just panicked. I just always assumed (based on everything I had learned prior to watching that video) it was only a stretching process. I didn't think there would be any "tearing" involved unless there were complications. I definitely had never known before that day: A. Tearing is much more likely to be the default (90% of first time mothers) and rarely (but it happens) some people will even do a preemptive snip prior to giving birth, B. There are grades of tearing severity (first-degree being the least severe and fourth-degree being the most severe, often requiring surgical repair.), C. It never really occurred to me that there was a risk of spinal injury if you move the wrong way when they're inserting an epidural (while you're in labor), and D. Even if you get an epidural, there's a chance it might not work. Giving birth is no fucking joke. Not that I ever thought it was going to be easy, but before watching the "basic" birthing video, even with a master's degree and more basic medical knowledge than a lot of people, I didn't really comprehend what women go through to give birth. There's actually an evolutionary theory that it can be so traumatic your body and brain kind of work together to keep you from fully forming memories of just how bad the experience was, to help drive continued reproduction. (Also important to note though, that more negative experiences and memories of giving birth are associated with more adverse outcomes, and that the experience can leave a long lasting impression)

It's not that you won't remember the pain at all, (bc even with a C-section and epidural, I damn sure remember screaming and feeling like my stitches were tearing open after it wore off, and I know I got off relatively easy), but in hindsight, your memory of the intense pain you experienced during childbirth can be dampened by the flood of hormones and feel good chemicals you experienced after. Like there's a reason oxytocin both stimulates painful contractions to help get the baby out, and also helps you bond with the baby after birth. It's really beautiful. But it's also insane.

Edit 2: Pregnancy May Reduce Fear Permanently, Scientists Reveal

Reduced fear memory may also support caregiving behaviors after birth by lowering anxiety and promoting bonding.

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[–] emotional_soup_88@programming.dev 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

That bag of potatoe chips last night was unnecessary AF and I regret buying it with all my belly.

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[–] moondoggie@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I have ADD, so everything I buy is an impulse purchase that I can’t remember. And I. Regret. Nothing.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

Can’t regret what you don’t remember, it’s just random gift time all the time!

[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Part of a sprinkler system to bury in ones lawn, that extends upward with water pressure.

I do not own a lawn.

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[–] inkzombie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Long fingerless gloves. I don't remember why but I must have been in a 2000s mood because I bought a bunch of bracelets too. Not too much regret for the bracelets

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[–] thethrilloftime69@feddit.online 8 points 2 days ago (6 children)

I got an Amazon Credit card while drunk. I completely regret it and I'm ashamed it took me way too long to cancel it.

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[–] Object@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Kagamine Len cosplay kit

It turned out okay, so no regret on that. I also found out there's anime convention next week, so I figured I should wear it there.

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