People should respect the boundaries set by their partners.
this post was submitted on 25 Apr 2026
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but they let me put their cocks together to suck them at once😒
is cocks touching less gay than kissing?
Among other things, you are there to ensure the heterosexuality of the event for them, so they can explore each other a little bit without fear of commiting. They sound like trad guys and trad guys are raised to think that sexual identity is all or nothing and that if they let in even a little bit of gay their entire identity will shatter. It’s sad that the culture does this to them - they do it to each other, really. Have patience. Let them go at their own pace. Exactly as you would with any partner, with any sexual experience.
Meh, I think some people just like what they like. I see nothing attractive about making out with another guy, it's a hard turn off. Masculine faces just dont do it for me. No problem with dicks though. So if I was in a threesome I'd have no problem with going down on both men and women, but making out would be a no
Kissing is the one thing that crosses the line for some reason, for sooo many situations. “Straight” dudes willing to suck another dude’s dick, but won’t kiss another guy because it’s gross. It’s the same for a lot of other kinks. Threesomes, cuckolding, incest, etc etc
I think the border lays in the fact that kissing is a normal activity between couples, and that’s real life, whereas indulging kinks can almost be compartmentalized as an extreme form of getting off to porn (ergo fake, fantasy - not real, or “doesn’t count”)
I mean also people's sexual orientation can be different than their romantic orientation, and kissing is more of a romantic thing
im far to wise to fall for your obvious ploy of getting me to kiss icky ladies and suck off my buff homies
I'll gargle your buff homies like a frying pan gargles donuts. Send em my way.
Kissing is more intimate than sex for many, many people.
There are lots of people I would fuck but not kiss.
If the guys are straight, being willing to double team a girl but not make out with each other makes total sense.
Them kissing doesn't involve you so it is different.
It sounds like she asked them to do it for her - doesn’t that involve her?
When it comes to sex, being involved tends to mean physically and certainly does in the case of asking someone to do something.
It's okay as long as the toes don't touch.
Yes. Ballsacks are ok too during a DP, but I'm not going to kiss the guy. That's just weird.
~~envy~~
Dvp next
Silly geese, if there is a girl within 5 meters then anything goes, its like manakins or bonobos kiss your bro impress the girl.
Also it is odd that it seems to many more socailly aceptable the other way round...
That's my partner. I mean, I'm fine with fooling around with another dude, so it's no big deal. But boy, does she wants to see me either be the top or be the bottom. It's like one of her biggest request besides pegging me.