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[–] cannedtuna@lemmy.world 62 points 1 day ago

Locking this post as it’s drawing the type of people it’s about like flies to vinegar.

[–] piranhaconda@mander.xyz 124 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I was never vocal about it but used to be somewhat a "not all men" type of person in my early 20s. At least in my head.

Then I got diagnosed with autism. Turns out I just don't understand most other men.

[–] audaxdreik@pawb.social 64 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I honestly thinks that's just a part of it; realizing that you don't have an allegiance to other men just because you're a man yourself.

I think if woman are willing to talk about men in that way in front of you, it's generally a sign that they trust you enough to be open about their concerns in front of you without you having to push back. I try to hear the concerns they're voicing, do a quick internal check (is this me?) and if it's not, yeah fuck those guys! They're the worst!

[–] beegnyoshi@lemmy.zip 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hmm, I'm personally not sure whether I'd call it an allegiance. As far as I've seen, it's mostly about belonging to the group being talked about.

For instance, in the context of the comic "Men's egos can sometimes be fragile" would be parsed as "Your ego can sometimes be fragile" leading to an unconscious feeling of being attacked, which ultimately ends up in an emotional defensive response of trying to separate oneself from the group being talked about ("Not all men!") which, ironically, in this comic's context, only confirms what's being said.

This is also how I personally parse that woman and the bear thing. Men see themselves as the "random man" and feel personally attacked when someone picks the bear. Emotional defensive responses ensue.

Nevertheless, I still like the way you phrased it. And asking oneself whether one is what's being talked about might be a great way to dampen the unconcious response.

[–] prettybunnys@piefed.social 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The other side of this is that it’s othering a group and yeah it seems cool to other a group that historically and generally has all the power, so it’s “punching up”

its still othering and almost bait by design.

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 day ago

“Sometimes men’s egos can be fragile” does not mean that all men’s egos are fragile.

[–] piranhaconda@mander.xyz 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yea I eventually learned how to not get offended by the generalizations, prior to the diagnosis, but the whole "taking it literally" thing took a bit to get over

[–] TheRealKuni@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago (8 children)

Honestly it still bothers me. We are told that generalizations and stereotypes are bad, but when they’re directed and white people or men, they’re okay.

Listen, I’m not a #NotAllMen type or anything, but it is a frustrating double standard for those of us who’ve grown up knowing not to stereotype or generalize to then get stereotyped and generalized and be told we can’t complain about it.

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[–] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Then I got diagnosed with autism. Turns out I just don’t understand most other men.

I was diagnosed with "autistic features" back in the 90s, and i feel that.

[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 99 points 1 day ago (1 children)

On the one hand, yeah. Fragile ass mother fuckers.

On the other hand? You do learn in gender studies that toxic masculine and such is a systemic problem. Boys need hugs and love growing up that they just don't get, and it produces these soft skinned psychopaths who perpetuate that cycle.

But this is a comics community so it's fine however you want to interpret it for lols. Lol

[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 day ago

My kiddo gets so many hugs lol. It would be hypocritical to be aware of the issues that patriarchy brings and then turn around and let boys fend for themselves. They need support in this dogshit gendered society in addition to girls.

I will hold grown ass men accountable for their actions and unwillingness to do the emotional labor to become a good person though.

[–] Omnipitaph@reddthat.com 47 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I hate sweeping statements in general. I don't like it when people make general statements about women, men, insert race here. Its dehumanizing. We're all just people.

The "sometimes" is totally accurate in this comic though.

I haven't met many people that don't have a fragile ego, honestly. Criticism is hard :/

[–] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 87 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] prettybunnys@piefed.social 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
[–] Bubs@lemmy.zip 36 points 1 day ago

I've never liked these kinds of attitudes, both against men and women. From the "wife bad" boomer mindset to the toxic "all men are pigs" that I hear people say way too often.

People are people. When it comes to the people I care about, I don't care what you identify as. I don't care what society thinks your "role" should be. You are a person just like I am. I'll treat you the same as I do any other person I care about, because that's what you deserve.

I'll see you as the individual you are instead of these useless preconceived notions based purely on what bits you have in your pants.

[–] Bgugi@lemmy.world 44 points 1 day ago

Everyone who agrees with me proves I'm right. Everyone who disagrees with me proves I'm right.

[–] BlindPenguin@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] shweddy@lemmy.world 44 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The patriarchy isn't gonna like this

We should change toxic masculinity to fragile masculinity cuz thats what it really is

[–] TheRtRevKaiser@sh.itjust.works 34 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I've definitely seen similar discussions around race use the term "white fragility" in a very similar way when you try to talk about things like unconscious or systemic racism or privilege.

[–] a_jeering_serpent@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Move over Fragile X Syndrome, and make room for Fragile Guy Syndrome. Commonly referred to as The Bitching Disease, look out for the especially virulent subtype Angry White Syndrome which has been known to spread even to those without the Y chromosome and is believed to be caused by a lack of rhythm and a bland palatte.

[–] LurkingLuddite@piefed.social 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They are two different things and both definitely exist.

[–] AlfalFaFail@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

Do you think that the toxicity is an overcompensated reaction to the realization of fragility?

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 37 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I can't wait to see all the people from the comic in this comment section.

[–] atro_city@fedia.io 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Misogyny: people lose their minds

Misandry: pfff, hahahahaha

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[–] Tiral@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No, they can be. The problem is as a man as soon as you show any signs of it you're made fun of by women and not desirable. There's a reason guys always say "I'm fine" when asked how they feel, it's because some woman made fun of them an degraded them when they were honest and they learned their lesson.

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[–] snooggums@piefed.world 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What were the odds that all six men in the last panel would be bald?

[–] Sxan@piefed.zip 6 points 1 day ago

Only bald men have fragile egos. q.e.d.

[–] ekZepp@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Works all the times

Screenshot_20260621_174259_Eternity

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago

And people tend to get defensive when you point out their faults.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Back in college a roommate’s girlfriend came over and cooked for us out of the blue. It wasn’t great and she scratched my other roommate’s brand new Teflon cookware with metal utensils.

We politely said it was good and thanked her.

Half an hour later, roommate #1 was berating us because his girlfriend was in tears because roommate #2 and I were insufficiently effusive in our praise of her cooking.

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 7 points 1 day ago (6 children)

What does this have to do with the comic?

[–] Soulg@ani.social 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Women also have fragile egos and it's a weird unnecessary thing to gender for rage bait

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[–] velma@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

Great timing to run into this after getting several downvotes on a post about women’s orgasms lol

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