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I mean, from the CJK languages: they begin with family name then end it with the legal first name while that's reverse in let's say English, Spanish, Russian where the first name starts then ends with the family name. As in, 近藤浩治 becomes Koji Kondo in ENG when it's actually read as "Kondo Koji" upon referring back to its mother tongue (other languages that follow a similar format are: Mandarin, Korean or Hungarian for example).

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[–] zlatiah@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I wonder if this has something to do with "whom you primarily identify with"? Seems to me that the primary identity comes first in naming systems

Because there's some interesting parallels. Even though the order is reversed, in CJ cultures (don't know about K, presume similar) people overwhelmingly refer to each other via family names (which comes first) instead of given names. Where I grew up in China people almost never refer to your given name; most people refer to others with some honorifics + family name (brother Li, lil' Liu, teacher Zhang, etc). In Japanese culture referring to each other via given names is reserved to close friends only. Also in these cultures the given names have a lot more diversity than in Western culture

[–] PonyOfWar@pawb.social 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

It's mostly because "that's how the ancestors did it". In many parts of Europe, the system for last names used to be (and still is in some places) something like "son of [father's name]", which wouldn't really make sense to put first in speech. In other cases, things like place names or occupations were used to identify someone, so something like "George the Smith", which would only slowly be formalized into family names and become "George Smith" in the middle ages. The word order was just kept as it was. On the other hand, in China, family names were introduced by imperial decree about 2000 years ago, to facilitate census data and bureaucracy. For that purpose, it makes sense to put them first, as that's how you do it when organizing them into a table. That Chinese practice would have spread to other parts of Asia etc.

[–] Hapankaali@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

To add to this, in Western Europe the name order was formalized by decree during the Napoleonic era. The Napoleonic reforms had long-lasting influence and impact, and it became the established standard in western Europe.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

Name conventions can be a bit more diverse than you might think.

https://www.kalzumeus.com/2010/06/17/falsehoods-programmers-believe-about-names/

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 4 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

A lot of places around the world put the family name first, including a lot of Islamic majority countries. Western European and their successor countries don't rely on family names as much because they weren't as important.

The old Scandinavian tradition is that the "family" is "name of mother or father" + "daughter or son". Non-noble people in other parts of Western Europe didn't have family names until rather recently. In the UK, family names didn't become big until mass migration caused by the Black Death, which is why a lot of English last names are job titles. Slaves in the Americas didn't get to choose their last name until they were freed, which is why a lot of Black last names today are Freeman.

Since families/clans weren't as important to the working class, it had major impacts on the economic structure of Europe compared to other parts of the Old World.

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 4 points 23 hours ago

Well obviously the first name should come first and the last name comes last. That's universal for all languages. It's just the definition of first or last.

Just the question is whether first name is personal or family name...

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

probably has something to do with CJK languages are based on societies that have implied value to the people while non-CJK languages have implied value to the individual.

IE: your accomplishments are not your own, but those of your family in a CJK country and so your responsibility and the responsibility of every individual is to the family first.

just a guess though.

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago

What makes you think that is more common?

[–] CombatWombat@feddit.online 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Not sure about other languages, but Russians are more likely to give their name as FIO, familia imya and then ochestvo (family name, given name, and then patronymic), especially in official settings. I'm given to understand the practice was even more common in Soviet and Tsarist Russia.

And if you'll forgive me for being a little sassy, tautologically, all languages present names from first to last.

[–] noobdoomguy8658@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

Not sure about other languages, but Russians are more likely to give their name as FIO, familia imya and then ochestvo (family name, given name, and then patronymic), especially in official settings. I’m given to understand the practice was even more common in Soviet and Tsarist Russia.

Very much this.

Today, the more English-like way of listing first name first, last name last in a context where the Western influence is just stronger and more prevalent, like YouTube, social media at large, git commits, etc. I think I've also seen it on TV, but I haven't watched it for over a decade, really.

Generally, it seems like this order is become more and more popular thanks to globalization. which I actually like, but yeah, the more official something is, the more likely the traditional order is to appear.

That said, I think for the Russia-speaking context, last name first seems to be better in some cases, because the first names are not as varied.

[–] hexagonwin@lemmy.today 4 points 1 day ago

not really answering but because of this difference and my asian background i keep confusing first name/last name in english. lmao

[–] Melobol@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I always smile when I think of a fictional quote on this. The Asian name order chatacter said:
"So individuals are more important than their family?"
And I believe the only way to go is the Asian name order. And using my name in reverse is not natural.
Tho don't get me started on the US date format. I always mess up month/day. Why is it reversed??
Year-Month-Day is the way to go.

[–] kopasz7@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Year-Month-Day is the way to go.

ISO 8601 is the way!

[–] thebestaquaman@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I think it makes sense to be flexible: In a table, or other bureaucratic contexts, it makes sense to put the family name first. In daily speech, it's rather common that I'm in contact with family members (even more so historically), and it makes most sense to use the distinguishing name (first name) first.

If I'm with a group that includes siblings or parents/children, I can usually distinguish everyone by first name, while many people share last names.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So individuals are more important than their family?

I would answer yes every time.

[–] Melobol@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 hours ago

Depends on the calendar year and country. Even in the West 200 years ago your family was more important than the individuals - because alone they die.
Clans, families were the way for survival.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Year-Month-Day is the way to go.

But, US style is month-day. If you just leave out the year, which shouldn't be a problem for anyone who isn't a time traveler or just woke up from a coma, you're using US format.

[–] cdzero@lemmy.ml 2 points 14 hours ago

The problem is when the day is 12 or less. What's 7/8? 7th of August or 8th of July?

[–] ViatorOmnium@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago

It's all about historical convention. And countries can even use both. For example in Portugal, we use Name, Surname exclusively on day-to-day, but when dealing with government institutions we often use Surname, Name.

And as other comments say in Russia they have even more conventions based on the context.

[–] Hirohito@fedinsfw.app -3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have you ever tried a search engine?

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have you tried to touch grass?

[–] Hirohito@fedinsfw.app 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Is there a problem with search engines?

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 2 points 18 hours ago

Not really no, it's just quite rude to say something like that when someone asks for help. At least you didn't tell them to ask ChatGPT, but that's kind of the same thing.

[–] homes@piefed.world 0 points 1 day ago

Convenience, one would suppose