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[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

For real. That’s why they kept having to pull my grandma aside in Sunday school. I guess you’re not allowed to ask questions but I wasn’t willing to believe things you couldn’t ask questions about. It made no sense. Like seriously if Adam and Eve were the only two people and they had two sons Cain and Abel then where did Cain and Abel’s wives come from? Anyway I got in trouble for asking that and got annoyed when my question wasn’t getting answered. I knew then and there if you could not ask questions you were being taught bullshit

[–] Teratologique@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 14 hours ago

"That's just how it is" is not a good reason, just fucking explain to my autistic ass!

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago

I work with a guy like this and he has my eternal allegiance.

[–] mastod0n@lemmy.world 10 points 22 hours ago (3 children)

I mean I kinda get it and a team with an understanding of a situation can handle it more efficiently and throughly but if I had to reason every management decision with everyone we would finish nothing at work.

At a certain point, you just gotta label it as "management bullshit" as shorthand. Besides, is management causes confusion that makes it hard to get anything done, that's their fault. In an ideal world, competition from the market would weed out the bad ones, but competition is pressure capitalists loves to mitigate.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Maybe that's a sign that we don't need all that bullshit management then?

[–] unit327@lemmy.zip 1 points 14 hours ago

It can go too far in either direction. If you're writing a report you know no one will ever read it can help to ask why and push for an answer, but it isn't the driving instructor's job to explain why you should stop at the red light.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

"I can explain" is different from "you can understand", and chain of command means you do not have to reason with literally everyone involved/affected by your decision. So if used well, the drop-any-rule-lacking-backup is useful

[–] BeMoreCareful@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

The Hessians complained about colonial troops questioning orders and lacking discipline.

[–] wingnut@lemmy.zip 9 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Honestly, as a very autistic person myself, everyones right and wrong here. When you get stonewalled trying to understand, yes absolutly this. But Ive come to find at least half the time there is a good reason that tact demands be not dived into. Fuck that tho. If you dont know then ask and find a way to answer if you yourself are asked instead of claming up.

[–] EnchiladaRaisins@lemmy.zip 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Chesterton's fence. One should not remove a fence until one learns why it was erected in the first place. By all means, learn why!

The current administration is causing huge amounts of damage and suffering by blindly removing and eliminating things without understanding why those things were created and maintained.

It's less about them not understanding and more about them not thinking it matters. The wealthy think they can strip mine society without consequence or meaningful pushback, and in the short term they have been right. The rich Americans of the future will not have to same global reach that they do now, but this generation of oligarchs is absolutely selfish and proud of it. They don't really give a fuck if their kids inherit their empire, or get burned at the stake. Line go up, and most of them won't live to see the system the take for granted crumble into irrelevancy.

[–] renrenPDX@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

“It’s because that’s why!”

[–] svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I find that a credible threat of violence will usually suffice to get me to do it, also.

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[–] Phantaloons@piefed.zip 36 points 1 day ago (8 children)

"Because we'll stop paying you if you don't do it."

...well, that's fairly convincing.

Yeah, convincing me to find another job.

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[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)
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