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[–] Nounka@lemmy.world 2 points 30 minutes ago

A lot off tmes this happens. Nice and personal... Soulless. All those housingreality is the same. O we have a nice home... Lets make it 'unitysoussage' white with some accents.

[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 2 points 31 minutes ago* (last edited 31 minutes ago)

You do know that the inside of that house in the movie was built on a sound stage. That only the exterior of the house was shot for the movie.

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 2 points 15 minutes ago
[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

The first one is interesting, as it shows that they have vastly extended the house to the rear. The door under the stairs led to a half-bath (toilet and sink), and that was the buildings' end.

If you ask me how I know that: I got the original house plans from the net and plan to - one day - build a proper LEGO model of it. Not the shrunken one they offer as a set, but built to scale from those plans, with the driveway, the garage, the garden with the tree and tree house.

[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 hour ago

I get what you're saying, but switching my gaze between the two is like turning a siren off when I see the "after" pic. It's desolate and boring, but it's not AWOOOGAAAA

[–] Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 hours ago

I mean, yeah, the new one is white and awful.

But the old one also has the most disgusting wallpaper to ever exist.

[–] arc99@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I'm surprised the interior was shot in a real house

[–] Johnmannesca@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Yes in the northern suburbs of Chicago, should check it out after visiting the Obama presidential center in Jackson Park.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 1 points 50 minutes ago

The outside of the house was filmed there. The inside was a set.

The Netflix show "The movies that made us" has an ep9sode about it.

[–] Mwa@thelemmy.club 1 points 2 hours ago

Why doesn't the white house have Christmas decorations

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 8 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (3 children)

You can also see this on cars share i live. Next time you go outside, see what percentage of cars that are white, gray or black. Its the absolute majority. And then you have maybe 20% with different colors.

Its because people have been told that white, gray and black are elegant and you won't get tired of those colors.

Im so tired of those colors.

[–] architect@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 hour ago

The primary red and primary blue always on offer are worse.

[–] Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

No, it is because most are lease cars for companies, and they require them to be a neutral color so they keep their resale value for when they get changed to a newer model.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 1 points 2 hours ago

Could be actually. In my country, white Teslas are everywhere and most are company cars.

[–] bus_factor@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Our car is white because that's what they had in stock when we needed a car. I don't give a shit what color my car is as long as it can fit and move my family and my stuff.

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Yeah, it could be that a lot of people don't care about the color too, that's true.

I cared a lot actually, even turned down a car because it was black. I have a very nice blue color on my current car and it's so nice to see it every time in the parking lot.

[–] anistorian@lemmy.world 16 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Good. That place needed a renovation. It was a regular death trap!

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

Careful what you wish for, what with the paint cans and all.

[–] BeUnique@lemmy.zip 10 points 8 hours ago

So it now looks like the inside of a refrigerator. Interesting.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

That bad boy is ready to be slapped up on Airbnb!

[–] RedIce25@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

Wow the now pictures looks depressing

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 19 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

I hate it. I hate how there's no colour in the world any more. Houses are black and white, cars and black and white, clothes are black and white.

Why do people hate colour?

[–] 1984@lemmy.today 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Advertising made people prefer those colors. IPhones, tech gadgets, speakers, televisions, computers, desks, chairs....

Its not generic, it's programming of our minds. And now, when a new color MacBook appears, we feel it's amazing and we want it. Right? Absolutely ridiculous.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 6 hours ago

generic taste of modern house, copy and paste.

[–] BranBucket@lemmy.world 19 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

It was beautiful in the movie, but as someone who lived through that time, it feels pretty dated these days.

The new look is boring, sterile, and reeks of faux-minimalist wallet flexing. Not my thing either.

There's got to be a happy medium between everything has extra detail and patterns and bad sci-fi set.

[–] zorblitz@programming.dev 4 points 9 hours ago

The happy medium is beige colored walls, one accent wall and warm lighting

[–] TemplaerDude@sh.itjust.works 22 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

You guys like wallpaper?

I’ll agree the white is eh but burn the wallpaper, no fuckin thanks.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Fuckin' everything is white.

[–] Cort@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago

Repainting everything twice is still easier than dealing with wallpaper

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 15 points 14 hours ago

"House". That thing is a fucking mansion!

[–] binux@sh.itjust.works 42 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

They both kind of suck tbh. The first looks like a nightmare to acid trip in and the other looks like a wizard sucked all the colour out of it.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

The first looks potentially incredible to acid trip in based on visuals. But indoors is a no-go for me when tripping.

[–] Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 36 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Not going to lie, I like the clean look of the millenial house more. We collectively grew up in clutter, where your grandma would have weird porcelain dolls, or a cabinet to display her fine china.

My grandpa had a taxidermied pheasant, great horned owl, and a coyote pelt on his living room wall.

Nothing wrong with all that, it's just weird as a kid.

Our parents generation hoarded shit, because their parents lived through the depression. That has its own value but it gets overwhelming.

[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 24 points 18 hours ago (4 children)

Clean? As in sterile like a hospital?

I think your example is the other extreme, but a little bit of color and a few personal items is a huge improvement over the sanitarium look.

[–] quarkquasar@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I dunno, I kinda like wondering if I'm going to be ax-murdered by a Bateman copycat when I walk into a place

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 170 points 23 hours ago (19 children)

The new one is MUCH too white, but let's be honest, the before pictures are pretty ugly too. That wallpaper is gaudy as hell.

[–] untorquer@quokk.au 100 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

The before pictures are bourgie and give a 90's generational wealth ick, but at least it still looks like there's a human being living there experiencing something nearly recognizable as a human emotion from time to time.

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[–] atrielienz@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago

They Millenial'd it.

[–] brave_lemmywinks@lemmy.world 68 points 21 hours ago (7 children)

Every time I see that movie I think how it shaped my idea that having such a nice and big house was normal and achievable, along with like 6 kids, and it was the average normal family.... I'm not even American.

I'm so much closer to the robber's reality.

[–] architect@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 hour ago

In the 90s it was more possible. I knew a lot of people like this. They were middle class.

Although this family is higher than that. I think the mom was like a fashion designer or something?

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[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago
[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

It feels so sterile. The first one actually looks like a family lives there, the second looks like a motel.

[–] ohulancutash@feddit.uk 8 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Because the first one is a set designed to look like a family lives fhere.

[–] Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago

Yeah, and that's kinda the point, that's what we think a "home" looks like.

[–] rockSlayer@lemmy.blahaj.zone 88 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

Another victim of big Small

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[–] lemmelemmy@feddit.org 21 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Egh… such a boring millennial aesthetic.

Ps. I’m also a millenial. Gray is the worst colour

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