Are you living alone? Start seeing doctors.
Are you living with one or more people? Start seeing the police. (edit: and then doctors)
this post was submitted on 02 Aug 2026
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Get a physical.
Do you get your kicks out of this? Why do you keep on making new accounts and trying to frame misogynistic tropes?
"Is it normal to feel completely different all the time from how ive felt before"
Ragebait used to be believable. Tinfoil hat says this is a misogyny bot
Women becoming decrepit and old at 30 years is such an unbelievable trope these days.
You see this quite a lot though, "I woke up and my arm had fallen off, is this normal or should I go to the hospitals", in the past when it was on reddit it was usually engagement farming not really sure what the point of that here is.
This identical story was posted months ago. At the time OP argued with everyone saying a doctor can't help. Just argued with every suggestion.
Yeah they kept insisting that women over 30 are geriatric and that this was normal. It was bizarre.
This new account is the one who posted a week ago the repeat post refusing to believe that any woman enjoys sex. OP claims they always experience debilitating penetrative pain during exams and any other attempts at penetration. There they also argued with anyone who said to see a doctor because it is not normal.
That makes me even more convinced this is a troll posing as a woman in order to bolster misogynistic tropes about women.
That is my suspicion as well.
But like.... Why?
Because some men fucking suck and want to confirm their sexist beliefs about women. Or they suck and want to troll by pretending to be a dumb, old woman to help push that women act this way.
I still think this is because those posts get high engagement. I have seen another post recently not about woman i could have sworn i have seen before, but Lemmy being Lemmy there is no real way to recover deleted things (without setting my own instance). But why hunting a high amount of upvotes when upvotes really don't matter... I don't know.
rfk junior at it again pretending he's a scientist
Well at some point it just turns into trolling.
Exactly. The other post they made was more clear that they were making a commentary on women aging past 30 and how we’re worthless and old.
No that is not normal at all.
Go 👏 see 👏 the 👏 doctor 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Seriously, go to a doctor. That's not normal.
Did you have covid? Long covid has made people lethargic and I have some friends who only recently fully recovered.
Either way this is serious issue and you should see a doctor. This is not normal aging.
Doctor. Go to the doctor. You need to see the doctor. This is not in anyway normal. See the doctor. You need to see the doctor. Go see the doctor. This is a medical issue and you should see the doctor. See the doctor.
It could be sleep apnea. It could be allergies (sometimes you acquire them later in life). Could be that aliens are abducting you late at night and taking turns batting your titties around and you have amnesia about it.
Do you have a carbon monoxide monitor? If not, get one ASAP.
+1, this sounds like a medical issue and not at all typical aging
Omg go to the fucking doctor?!? No "could be B12 but I've been getting supplements" NO. Wtaf are you doing? If it's not B12 you would know because the doctor checked and your b12 was normal. Wtf are you doing asking the internet?
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could be anemia, women gets them alot from periods. you definitely needs some blood test to check your: full blood panel. probably check a1c, glucose, ,,,etc. B12 deficiency is unlikely unless you went full vegan or have some disorder, like celiacs, or rarely a tapeworm.
as other said, you could have a thyroid problem, probably autoimmune of the thyroid.
See your doctor. This is not normal aging. Getting a Hypothyroid diagnosis can take years if you are one of the people for whom the blood test is garbage. Insist that your doctor get the full T4, T3 testing done. Sleep apnea is also one that can be hard to diagnose but leave you feeling fatigued.
You don't have a husband or live in partner that might be drugging you? In this day and age, it isn't as far fetched an idea as it once was.
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"I’m sleeping very well"
People cant assess themselves for sleep issues, you are asleep, you cant tell whats happening. If you have central apnea you might be 'waking' 30 or 60 times per hour and never have a clue its happening. But the side effect is you never get to the recuperative level of sleep the body needs.
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As someone with sleep apnea, you have sleep apnea. You feel like that because your brain is not getting oxygen.
There's no way you can make a reasonable diagnosis from a 100 word Lemmy post, and doing so might be putting someone in danger.
That's correct, which is why just about every comment in here says to go see a doctor.
oh i didn't know apnea was the only thing that caused that
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The last thing you should be doing is consulting Lemmy.
See a doctor.
Honestly, talk to a health professional if you can. That doesn't sound normal.
Have you tried a pregnancy test?
I don't understand. Are you asking if pregnancies last 2 years?
Obviously. Babies gestate for 1 to two years in a full-grown female and are born as adults.
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It's normal for your hormones and blood chemistry to change over time, especially as you get further and further from your easily recoverable childhood, when a good night's sleep solved most problems.
Talk to your doctor, get some bloodwork done, and see where your levels are. It's likely that a bit of adjustment will do the trick.
- See a doctor
- [If outside of the US] See a physcatrists about why you posted this on Lemmy Instead of seeing a doctor
- [If inside the US] demand Medicare for all
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