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4 days at 10 hours with 3 days off is the way, as long as work-life balance is respected by the job. That would definitely go a long way towards both aligning schedules and giving enough time to address other needs with some leftover for personal care and maintaining social connections.

Not to say I don't appreciate finally having a full-time gig that at least gives me weekends off, which I desperately needed after years of irregular part-time work that made it impossible to plan my life more than two weeks out and never seemed to align my days off with other people. But I already essentially work 7:00-17:00 Monday through Friday (and of course that extra time over 40 hours isn't paid). The 10 hour days aren't a problem for me, but I would really like to have an extra day off in compensation for that.

Some friends I see more often than others, just by virtue of schedules coinciding a bit more conveniently. I try to see someone in person once a week or so. Usually we can get larger groups together for occasions like birthdays and holidays.

Some friends moved too far away to see regularly, but we still keep in touch online, sometimes with video games. I count this separately from the "once a week" statistic above.

There are a small number of former friends (I don't even want to say former because I still like them, even though I haven't seen or heard from them in years) who just drifted apart due to differences in interests or just being too caught up in their own priorities to make time (getting married, having kids, juggling multiple jobs, etc.), but the majority of my friend group with kids still make effort to spend time together, and we never mind the kiddos being part of the social fabric either, so as not to make it feel like the kids are any sort of barrier to hanging out.

It's just another way to say cultivating an image. You want to give off a certain impression to others, so you project certain traits and moods that resonate with people. Often with the goal of looking like a badass by being "extra" about it.

And then you fuck right?

Nope, I made it up while bored out of my mind at work and trying to think of random scenarios just as thought experiments. This one seemed good enough to share, but I'm not a good judge of what people are into, I can remove it if it's shit.

This may be one of the better ideas I've read so far. Incredible, kudos!

I think you caught me there on a verbiage technicality.

I probably should have worded it better in the additional details of the premise, but my intent was that your old self simply doesn't exist in this timeline. Your family is there, but they had some other kid instead of you on the same date you were born.

If your name is Jarnathan Smith, you like baseball and your favorite color is puce, you'd instead find that your family had a kid named Archideld Smith who likes rugby and whose favorite color is mauve.

Yep...you have a diary which likely covers big life events and chunks of recent history, but I hope you're a good actor.

My thoughts were similar to what others had suggested, find some way to simulate an accident, some sort of head trauma, or a serious illness to help sell why you suddenly can't remember much and why your personality is different. But I think a whole lot is going to require trying to be as invisible as possible for a while and try to pick up context clues from observing people around you.

And in the scenario above, even if simply explaining your situation honestly didn't suddenly kill you, I would hate to imagine the reaction of these parents who realize their child is effectively dead and has been replaced by some sort of fae changeling.

Well you're in luck, one bonus of the scenario is stipulated in the body of the post!

Your biological sex matches your gender identity (flip a coin if you are enby)

2002… uff, that would be hard. As a ten year old there is so little you can do!

Yep, that's the catch! You have the knowledge, but who's gonna let a 10-year-old open an investment account? Or who's going to believe that a presumably middle-of-the-pack 4th grader suddenly unlocked the secret to mRNA vaccines?

I'm with you, I think identity theft is probably the easiest way to start out (especially back then when it was so widespread, and not as many people knew what to look out for) but it becomes one more secret to have to keep covered up that can screw you over later if found out.

Yep. My household in 2002 had a computer, but that's because I had a parent who worked in IT. Most people I knew at the time didn't have one. By 2002, ~40% of the United States still did not have access to a computer at home, though the gap would keep closing year over year.

But that's just data for the United States. Other countries may have had lower rates of adoption at that time, and in a scenario where you would be less likely to wake up in a random household with a computer, it would require a bit more thinking to figure out how to get access to one.

I'd probably look to schools and libraries as a place to start. If that's not an option, then it'd be figuring out how to befriend a local rich kid who might have a computer. Otherwise, the USB is effectively a paperweight for some time and you're left only with your memories of the future for guidance until computer access becomes more available.

Yeah, I picked that year for a reason. I was going to go with 2000 at first, but thought that people would feel too inclined to have stopping 9/11 be their first priority, thereby sending the world down a radically different trajectory.

Was thinking similarly regarding the stock market situation. I wanted to accommodate a window for people to game the stock market with prior knowledge, but wanted to leave everything after the 2008 global financial crisis a mystery, so capped its predictability to 2007.