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I fell into alt right when she started abusing me which helped destroy the relationship. I got out of that shit.
That might have contributed to your friends ghosting you, depending on the friend group. You may have been legitimately grieving due to various reasons, but it might not have been perceived that way by your friend group.
I don't know the full details of your interactions, but I could easily see that being a red flag for some of your friends.
Good, because a lot of the alt right influencers prey on people like you were in your predicament. I'm sorry you went down that rabbit hole.
I place a lot of blame on myself for how things turned out but I'm pretty sure the reality is that I am not that person at all and would have never made said mistakes if she wasn't so mean to me.
I'm glad you got out of that but I think we figured out why your friends stopped supporting you. You have reaped what you've sewn. Your actions had consequences.
Now that you're free of both the relationship and the toxic mindset it would be a good time to pick up some hobbies that would encourage meeting and making new friends.
Lol in real life people dont care about politics that much