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Get all the pieces laid out and sorted.
Read instructions, and look for pieces (if you want, you can match them up with postit note numbers)
Finally start assembling while you read along with directions again.
It sounds like a huge waste of time, but it only takes a couple minutes and then when you go to assemble, you'll know what is happening and will likely realize as soon as something goes wrong.
So in the long run, it'll save a bunch a time and frustration.
If you're tying to "build it out of box" you're setting yourself up for failure. If you've seen all the pieces and their corresponding diagrams, you're less likely to mix them up.
Most people hate it because most people try to "build it out of the box".
That's great until all the screws start looking the same and you can't tell the difference. The pictures can make them seem shorter or longer than they are
Thanks. I always read the instructions ahead of time to avoid getting caught out and do sort the pieces first. I've never had issues mixing up pieces -- the most common issue I have is that sometimes a given step is not clear to me. I find the picture-only guides like IKEA the worst for this as every so often there is a picture which is ambiguous.
Today's biggest problem was the orientation issue, particularly as I had to assemble it in-situ. I knew exactly what piece was what, but it was critical to know which edge was the top and front, given how I had to assemble it, and there was no way to know that without going back and forth in the manual to compare how the assembly of the side (early in the manual) was positioned for the final assembly (later in the manual).