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Sorry, this is a bit of a rant...

I had to assemble an IKEA flatpack cabinet today.

I always find this process painful because, to me, the instructions are always lacking (and a lot of other flatpack kits have followed IKEA's trend of picture-only guides). How hard is it to put a name below each component on the parts page (so I know what this weird thing is when it appears on page 22!), or indicate what's the top/front/back/etc.?

Today it would have been really helpful to know which edge was the top and front for the sides of this kit, rather than flipping back-and-forth through the manual to work it out. The irony is that they got so close to realising this was a factor, since the instructions did actually have two procedures (depending on whether your ceiling was high enough to stand the cabinet up after assembly or whether you needed to assemble it in-situ).

Is it just me and does everyone else just find it easy to follow the instructions, or do a lot of other people struggle with them too?

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[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I absolutely love doing it, as long as I have my own tools, and not the janky trash they include in the box.

[–] Stegget@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

It's like adult Legos, so maybe that's why I don't mind it.

[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I thought this was about Linux flatpaks for a second.

[–] Marshezezz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Yeah I did a double take on the title

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I haven't formed an opinion on those yet!

[–] Unlix86@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

I think they're nice when stuff don't need to be outside the sandbox c:

[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Why is your username land 13 if I may ask?

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Well, I'm from Australia and the number is just the first one I thought of.

[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was thinking of Terra Australis. It's Latin for southern land. I had the words mixed up. I love kangaroos and vegemite btw.

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 3 points 2 days ago

Vegemite is great, but I'm aware it's probably an acquired taste!

[–] bob@feddit.uk 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I get a bit frustrated, but also realise the ridiculousness of wanting to get it over with so I can go back to my lego...

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 1 points 2 days ago

I'm not sure what's worse... stepping on IKEA parts or Lego...

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)
  1. Read instructions

  2. Get all the pieces laid out and sorted.

  3. Read instructions, and look for pieces (if you want, you can match them up with postit note numbers)

  4. Finally start assembling while you read along with directions again.

It sounds like a huge waste of time, but it only takes a couple minutes and then when you go to assemble, you'll know what is happening and will likely realize as soon as something goes wrong.

So in the long run, it'll save a bunch a time and frustration.

If you're tying to "build it out of box" you're setting yourself up for failure. If you've seen all the pieces and their corresponding diagrams, you're less likely to mix them up.

Is it just me and does everyone else just find it easy to follow the instructions, or do a lot of other people struggle with them too?

Most people hate it because most people try to "build it out of the box".

[–] Lj404333@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

That's great until all the screws start looking the same and you can't tell the difference. The pictures can make them seem shorter or longer than they are

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 3 points 3 days ago

Thanks. I always read the instructions ahead of time to avoid getting caught out and do sort the pieces first. I've never had issues mixing up pieces -- the most common issue I have is that sometimes a given step is not clear to me. I find the picture-only guides like IKEA the worst for this as every so often there is a picture which is ambiguous.

Today's biggest problem was the orientation issue, particularly as I had to assemble it in-situ. I knew exactly what piece was what, but it was critical to know which edge was the top and front, given how I had to assemble it, and there was no way to know that without going back and forth in the manual to compare how the assembly of the side (early in the manual) was positioned for the final assembly (later in the manual).

[–] Lexam@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I enjoy it if all of the pieces are there.

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 3 points 3 days ago

Thankfully that's not a common problem I've had...

[–] tankplanker@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Ikeas flat pack is actually pretty decent for how well it goes together compared to other budget brands. Sure Ikea has reduced quality over the years, we still have a dinning room table thats made from solid pieces of actual beech rather than the vinyl wrapped cardboard that they sell as table tops now. Dont even get me started on the switch from metal to plastic cam locks.

Their builds are usually one of the simplest for flat pack due to better than average build tolerances, some actual QA (although its not foolproof), and well thought out design. I can usually build Ikea furniture without looking at the instructions because it reuses so many of the same concepts, its the Lego of flatpack.

Some basic extra steps with some wood glue, some clamps if it doesnt sit square while the glue dries, and an appropriately coloured gap sealer really goes a long way for improving the final build quality.

[–] anotherandrew@lemmy.mixdown.ca 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I just spent the week assembling furniture. IKEA’s instructions and overall build quality have fallen from the last time I did this. The instructions have gotten less detailed (as in, do I use the board that has six holes in pattern A or pattern B? The boards aren’t labeled and the patterns are very similar). Also, the hardware has gotten even cheaper than before. The cams that capture the hidden screw heads have always been fairly easy to strip if you’re not careful and they seem even moreso now. I didn’t have any trouble because I came into the task knowing this, but it was still a bit of a let down.

The store experience itself was about the same, with less employees milling around which is good for the showroom but bad for the warehouse. Overall the experience was slightly more negative than previously, especially since the prices have jumped for what IKEA offers which is, let’s face it, assemble it yourself junk furniture.

[–] vrek@programming.dev 4 points 3 days ago

I used to write a bunch of work instructions at my previous job, not for customers but employees. It's definitely a skill but my God they can get long with all the details. I once wrote instructions with a part to screw a unit into a fixture. It took 5 pages, there was 1 screw.

[–] rowinxavier@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

I definitely feel similarly about bad instructions. I have found a few recent products that actually had good instructions which made me really understand the issue.

Good instructions give a single possible interpretation. Bad instructions could be interpreted to mean mutually exclusive things.

Does the washer go on the bolt before the bolt enters the hole? Or on the other side? If you get it wrong you may not tighten it correctly and may compromise the strength of the furniture.

I recently bought and built a few items and they had clear, unambiguous instructions. Only one possible interpretation, clear logical steps, and well labeled parts. One was from GiantX and the other was Fantastic Furniturea chain here in Australia. The difference between those and other flat pack items was insane.

[–] TerdFerguson@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Yes, this is a pretty annoying task regardless of neurotype.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 days ago

Anything I have to learn comes with preparing for massive frustration

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

I may or may not have started a woodworking hobby out of spite for flatpack furniture. At one time IKEA had some decent things available. The cheap stuff was always crap but if you spent a little more, you'd end up with a pretty solid piece of furniture.

That's just not the case anymore. The expensive IKEA stuff is quickly approaching the quality of the cheap stuff from 20 years ago.

So far I've made a few TV consoles, a closet cabinet, a built in closet system, a desk, and some bedside tables. Oh and vertical pull out cabinets in my shop.

Turns out if you have the space and don't value your time, sanity, or apply a cost to tools, you can make anything you want! Except for a profit.

[–] ClipperDefiance@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

I'm my mom's go-to person for assembly. I'm generally okay with it. It's worth noting that I build gunpla for fun, so it makes sense to have me be the one to do it. Though, I can't really say that I enjoy building the furniture. The frequent use of Allen keys certainly isn't helping the furniture's case.

[–] reversedposterior@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

I kind of enjoy parts of it but I fully agree with your point about having a little bit of a description or labelling rather than images that you have to stare at for ages to make sure you are putting the right thing in the right place. I've complained about this exact same thing to others.

Personally I've found that the metal stuff works a lot better than the wooden stuff from IKEA. The holes and screws are all machined and precise so there is less room for error. The wooden stuff sometimes doesn't line up or you split the wood or something else goes wrong a lot of the time.

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 2 points 3 days ago

I understand that they're trying to make it language-agnostic, but I do think it would be helpful to at least have the part names on the components page (even if they're given in multiple languages). Today's kit had a jig for the nails to help you align them for attaching the back panel of the cabinet, but it wasn't initially clear what it was for (even with the picture "demonstrating" its use). Labelling it on the parts page would have saved time trying to work out what it was for, especially since (at first glance) the picture looked like it was some kind of spacer to keep the top of the cabinet off the wall!

I agree about the tolerances on the wood kits too. You've got to be really careful screwing in the pins that are used as part of the joins, since if they're not perfectly aligned it can be a real pain to get the two pieces to fit together.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I buy a lot of IKEA stuff for home and work. I have literally never had an assembly problem or alignment problem. Nothing ever cracked, and the furniture lasts forever.

I hate to break this to you guys, but those pictogram instructions are designed for someone with a third grade education world wide.

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 2 points 3 days ago

Well, all I can say is that clearly there's a subset of people that those pictograms don't reliably work for. I am tertiary educated, so well beyond third grade!

As for the products, I have not had issues with longevity - most of the kits are chipboard (particle board) and I have reasonable expectations for it (as long as you avoid moisture it can last ages).

[–] reversedposterior@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

I'm sorry, I will tell the university I work for to stop employing me as a research scientist.

[–] JamesBoeing737MAX@sopuli.xyz 1 points 3 days ago

Well, I usually just figure it out on my own. If that doesn't work out, I open the manual.

[–] Lj404333@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

Yeah too much even with help. Can take 3hrs to screw legs onto a workout bench. Maybe I'm just stupid and can't follow instructions. It's better when they put the individual pieces in numbered bags, so easy to tell the difference