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Lesbians and bisexual men rape people too.
At a much lower rate
Where'd you find stats?
I couldn't.
Like, obviously by total number. But that's because there's a lot more straight people.
Anecdotally back in my bar hopping days, people were getting dosed at gay bars way more than straight bars. Mostly straight male friends, but once it was it was a woman in our friend group.
Pretty sure it's because she drank her BFs drink that night tho, that dude was a weirdly a magnet for it.
But I think it's important that person was just saying it happens there too.
Like, the people who do this are dirtbags, if women are going to gay bars to feel safe, they're gonna go to gay bars and do this too. Because when people feel safe, they let their guard down.
Just because a bar owner designated their bar as gay, doesn't mean they have date rapist radar installed.
People should be aware that nowhere isn100% safe and you still need to be aware.
So imagine a bowl of skittles...