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If physical or mental health issues bar you I'd consider that different. I never really understood how you can live your life being a NEET. Its a term I've known about for awhile but only recently remembered was a thing. Do you have bills? Do you have autonomy in general? Whats the living situation look like? Is the term offensive? I have a ton of questions really. Not here to shit on anyone I'm just full of curiosity on this one.

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[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] SelfHigh5@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Retirees are using money they saved, SS, pension etc that they earned during their working years, and I understand NEETs to be adults young and capable but disinterested in working/training, whether they have income/savings/pushover parents/sugar-parents.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

So it's basically just a judgment call of whether someone "deserves" to avoid working, because of having had a job in the past? To me it's basically the same if people are living the same sort of life, because those sorts of judgments are not a good way to consider a person's identity. It's only natural to not want a job and the main question is whether you have the means to avoid being coerced into it, people who have the means are really in the same category.