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My grocery bill is steadily climbing and I am not sure what to do. I make too much for SNAP. Any tips or tricks? It's just me in my household, so would buying in bulk be worth it?

Edit: I want to thank everyone for their responses. I have a lot to think about.

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[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I'm an old guy. I usually go to my local grocery store when the kids get out from school for lunch. It gets really crowded in there and everyone is looking at the kids with suspicion while I'm shoving cans of beans and lunchmeat into my haversack.

[–] raynethackery@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I miss my brother. That's something he would have done. Lol

[–] victorz@lemmy.world -2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

So shoplifting?

Also "old guy", you have kids in school, how old could you be?

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

He never said they were his kids. He just uses the local school to provide cover and plausible deniability.

Also taking food isn't theft or shoplifting.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world -1 points 3 days ago (3 children)

He never said they were his kids. He just uses the local school to provide cover and plausible deniability.

Ah now I get it. 😄

Also taking food isn't theft or shoplifting.

Uh, what? What is it then? It ain't legal for sure.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

If you see someone taking food, no you didn't.

Grow some basic empathy.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I don't care if someone takes food.

I want to know what crime it is if it isn't shoplifting or theft.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

If you want to go by the letter of the extremely immoral laws that govern our society it would be shoplifting. Calling it that allows people with no empathy to pass judgement and kick a victim of their precious system, while they are down.

It shouldn't be a crime. It should be a crime to starve someone by underpayment of wages.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Why can't both be crimes? There can be two wrongs in this equation. You shouldn't just take things. But you should also be able to afford to live if you have work, and also if you can't work. A society has failed you if you can't. Agreed.

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Because one is a crime poor people do against rich people, and the other is a crime rich people do against poor people.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I doubt the owner of "my local grocery store" is a rich person.

[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Perhaps for your specific case. I was referring to the more general "supermarket food stealing" sort of situation.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Okay, I was talking about the topic in this thread.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

i worked at a chain store,w here the shoplifting was so pervasive the store had to permanently scuttled down, basically we were forbidden to even mention it to anyone til much later, granted its mostly done by tweakers, meth heads crackheads.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Shoplifting not okay in every instance, clearly. 😞

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Legal \= Moral

Many laws are ok (don't drive without the seatbelt on) but you need to think it out yourself.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I already got my answer. It is shoplifting. I was just wondering what crime it was, technically speaking.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

To be perfectly clear, I care not one whit about legality. It was illegal to harbor Jews, Homosexuals, and Neurodivergent people in Germany in 1937-1945. It is currently illegal in places to give people who are waiting, for hours in the hot sun to vote, water bottles. It is illegal in places to give food to people experiencing homelessness. Not one of those laws has a shred of moral backing.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 0 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Jeez. I agree, but I wasn't going all that deep. I meant it isn't morally right, of course, and also not legal, so I was wondering what crime it is if not theft or shoplifting?

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If he wasn't paid enough during his life to afford food, the morally wrong decision wasn't his.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Not everyone is a victim. Many are, but assuming someone is "morally right" to just take food without paying for it is also passing judgement. They could just be not willing to pay. A kleptomaniac e.g.

The only thing we can say is that we don't know until we know them and their life.