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because they are people. and people want other people to agree with them to validate them. it feels good.
that's just how human beings are wired. human beings generally, don't enjoy being around people who don't agree with and validate them, they find that painful.
this is why people love echo chambers where they rant to each other about how anyone else who doesn't believe what they believe is stupid and bad, and they are very smart and good.
and really, that's how our 'communities' work fundamentally as well. you get together with like-minded people, you create a shared belief system, and you shit on everyone else who doesn't share in that belief system as a bad and wrong as a social bonding exercise.
also why they tend to fly into a rage when confronted with people who are different than them or say things they don't agree with, because they find that painful and they want to punish you for you making them feel bad.