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Looking for stories of times you interacted with a criminal organization in any capacity. Were/are there any infamous locals frequently talked about in your area (please don't dox yourself). Please give a genuine answer not a political stance. The only one I think I've had was a story I've told here before about having met an Aryan brotherhood guy when I was 12ish.

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[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 3 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Just like smoking crack - the human is both the victim and the perpetrator in that crime.

I’m all for kinks and all that, if it floats your boat, but “cross-species” romance, absence of consent or liking humans that are “a bit too young” is where I’d have to draw a line.

[–] SmoothOperator@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I’m all for kinks and all that, if it floats your boat

That's nice - but certain kinks and LGBT relationships were illegal for a long time, and still are some places. Are they victimless crimes then?

If yes, do you think that your specific society crossed a threshold at some point going from a legal system with victimless crimes to a legal system without victimless crimes?

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Anyone who grows up thinking that two - or more - consenting adults can’t live or love together is a(nother) victim of that (in the legal sense only) “crime”.

Where I currently live there is an old and much copied legal system but I’m not really qualified to think about nor answer your second question.

[–] SmoothOperator@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Anyone who grows up thinking that two - or more - consenting adults can’t live or love together is a(nother) victim of that (in the legal sense only) “crime”.

Ah, but then they're a victim of the illegitimate criminalisation of LGBT relationships, not the victims of the LGBT relationship itself. Meaning the crime has no victims, the law has victims.

Where I currently live there is an old and much copied legal system but I’m not really qualified to think about nor answer your second question.

Sure you are, don't put yourself down like that. All citizens living under a law should have their say in the justness of that law.

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 1 points 13 hours ago

The “crime” only exists because of the law; so a person coaxed to bigotry from a young age would still be a(nother) victim of said “crime.”

But this is just an opinion, from me. It’s fine to not agree; in fact it’s good.

[–] erev@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

All of the examples you just gave are not victimless crimes. Besriality is an abuse of power and at best coercion but more normally just straight up animal sexual abuse. Absence of consent is just rape, and children can't consent to sexual activity. Unless you dont consider animals, people, or children to be capable of being victims none of those are victimless.

Kinks are consensual, that is the difference.

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 1 points 19 hours ago

Hello?

I don’t believe any crime is without victim (s).

I don’t think I made a typo.