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I recently started playing in a Luanti server and I was having a good time, I tend to be more independent but I usually participate in server events. I also tend to help people out if I am able/know what to do.

However there are times I would interact with what seems to be children, and it feels suffocating. Sometimes when they spot me would sort of type my name into the chats until I respond, and ask me to do stuff with them. Normally that's okay, but it's very often and the activity tends to take up a lot of time and would sort of leave me frustrated, like with mining because if they spot a valuable ore I'm mining they would sometimes take it for themselves. Another is when I'm exploring/moving around the world and one of them wants to follow me around, but I dislike being followed around and I like my alone time. I would often humor them and point out some good locations and interesting stuff but when I want to chill by somewhere they also want to be in that spot. Sometimes they can be sort of excitable that they want to go somewhere else and want me to go with them, but I would really prefer to be in my spot.

They aren't malicious but it really scares me away from being spotted by them or talking in chat when they're online. Some of them can really insist a lot and they may think me talking to other people means I have time to deal with them. But I'm not their parent and I have my own goals.

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[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 16 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Ah this is also how people historically deal with children following them around in real life. Great things ahead. An army of urchins at OP's disposal.

[–] brown567@sh.itjust.works 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago) (1 children)

I've heard the phrase "if a kid isn't cleaning then they're messing" and thought it sounded cruel, but now I've got a toddler and I've come to realize that he is constantly and enthusiastically ~~effecting~~ affecting his environment, but he's just as happy to ~~effect~~ affect it for the better if pointed in that direction. Kids like doing stuff, and they like it even more if it accomplishes something praiseworthy

Edit: thanks, those two confuse me XD

[–] Slashme@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

To "effect" something is to make it happen. "Effecting change" is the typical usage.

To modify something is to "affect" it. So children are affecting their environment.