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[–] mamaMiata@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (4 children)

This may be an unpopular option since I've already seen it across lemmy, but the ____porn communities. I'd like to browse pictures of nice landscapes or exotic cars without worry about someone around me noticing "PORN" on my screen.

At this point it seems very old internet, something that made sense when those communities were established, but now is unnecessary gratuitous and not socially acceptable.

[–] DrMango@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I saw a post about a community created here called "pixel passport" which I thought was a hell of a lot better that "earth porn."

[–] ImOnLemmyWow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

EarthPixels. CarPixels. PornPixels. HistoryPixels. This could work.

[–] Asraelite@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Voat, when it was still around, had this same discussion and settled on using _Pix for everything.

[–] MrPear@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I really like that name. Way better than Earthporn. Thank you for sharing, I subscribed!

Link: !pixelpassport@lemm.ee

[–] TitanLaGrange@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Indeed. I like 'Earthporn' too, but I think it should be all nature pictures that look like genitalia and suchlike. Rocks or trees that look like penises for example.

[–] Skiv@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Damn, I had forgotten how obnoxious that was on Reddit. Blocked all of those years ago because it was just unnecessary and a gross way to qualify otherwise unremarkable photos.

[–] GONADS125@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Nothing like someone peaking over your shoulder and seeing you're browsing r/AnimalPorn....

I totally agree with you. Hopefully lemmy can be a little more mature with community names. (Yeah, yeah.. I know the hypocrisy of my username.. It's my gamertag)

[–] DontAskAboutUpdog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

There is (was?) a ”nosillysuffix” sub that would aggregate all those *porn subs.

[–] Smooth@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Can we stop talking about Reddit? Let it go.

[–] Ddhuud@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Hey people grieve at different speeds. Some people got to acceptance on the same day, others are still in denial.

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[–] buycurious@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

The “hivemind” ignoring the correct information or even worse, encouraging the wrong information.

Does anyone else remember the whole Boston Bomber fiasco (i.e. We did it, Reddit)?

[–] PostMalort@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Similarly asking for proof getting downvoted to hell. Asking for proof is so important online and pretty much every statement should be able to provide proof

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[–] Zozano@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Please don't let /c/asklemmy become like /r/askreddit, which had half of the front-page posts being the same sex related questions every month.

"Women of reddit, what non sexual thing that guys so makes you horny?"

"What is the sexiest thing you regret doing?"

"How many cocks have you sucked while your cat judges you while waiting for you to feed it?"

It was bullshit.

[–] Countess425@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

When people turn a popular post into an Oscars Acceptance Speech

ETA: wow thanks for the upvotes!

ETA2: omg my first gold award?? I couldn't have made it without my mom and Jesus through whom all things are possible

[–] ProvokedGamer@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This.

ETA: thanks for one upvote!😃

ETA2: thanks for two upvotes!😀😀

ETA3: woah?! 3?!?!?! thanks for three upvotes!😁😁😁

ETA4: this is more upvotes than I have money in my bank account! thanks for four upvotes!💵💵💵

ETA5: INASANE!!! thanks for five upvotes!😍😍😍

ETA6: I’ve never had more than SIX!!! thanks for six upvotes! 😱😱😱😱😱

ETA7: thanks for seven upvotes! I want to thank my mom, my brother, Jesus, Scott, Bill Gates, and my cat!!!🤗🤗

ETA8: What? Why y’all downvoting me now? Bring it back to seven!😤😤😤

ETA9: Unbelievable. -400 upvotes now. I lost my house, my car, and my job because of this! 😔😔😣😖😖😖😭😭

/s

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[–] Sinister_Grape@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The ragebait fake text message screenshots that plague subs like antiwork.

Wow, your dickhead boss is stupid enough to put all of that in writing and has the exact same style of writing, spelling and grammar as you do? Isn’t that a coincidence!

[–] Dodgeit@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

/r/nothingeverhappens

This is posted in sarcasm as I always hated that kind of response

[–] throbbing_banjo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Karma-whoring. It's already started with the stupid "upote my can of beans" posts... Dude nobody cares about your internet points, either activity participate or fuck off to Instagram.

[–] Rengoku@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Ads.

Fuck ads.

[–] meisme@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

"Sir, you have just won the internet" "Thanks for the gold kind stranger" "I too choose this guy's [placeholder]" And the other corny overused reddit lines

[–] TheSpookiestUser@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hope that the mod-user relationship will be healthier here. (Bias, I was a reddit moderator.)

Some reddit mods were crap, this is true. Powermods and sub collectors were real. They did shit up a few communities.

But these people were a very small proportion of all moderators. Most moderators I met were chill, and just wanted to chip in to their respective communities to give back, in a way. Volunteering for internet janitor duty, because no matter how much people use the term as an insult it turns out public spaces need janitors - or they get filled with shit, trash, graffiti (and not the cool kind either, mostly badly drawn swastikas). It's not a position that should be glorified, or anything, because that's weird, but I hope that some semblance of basic respect can be maintained here on Lemmy - both ways, meaning no powermods but also no defaulting to assuming mods suck.

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[–] TheDeepState@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] Rooki@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

~~perma bans him~~ (joking of course ;D )

[–] lagomorphlecture@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My cat didn't get any love over on insert community name here. I hope you guys updoot me more than they did.

[–] flatplutosociety@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

updoot

WORST.

[–] EyesInTheBoat@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Karma. I feel like that will push Lemmy in a way that isn't healthy.

[–] metic@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Ragebait like noahgettheboat, idiotsincars, publicfreakout. It’s the Jerry Springer of the 2020’s.

[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sponsored posts, banner ads, algorithms, and other advertising-industry fuckery.

A reply that's just "r/(some subreddit name)."

A robot trying to sell stolen fan art printed onto t-shirts.

People childishly self-censoring non-sweary words. "Sex" isn't a bad word, but writing "s*x" suggests you probably shouldn't be allowed on social media at your stage of development.

[–] Moshpotatoes91@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

"Thanks for the gold kind stranger"

[–] ugh@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Creative writing presented as truth

[–] DarthTanion@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

An expensive API.

[–] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] xman664@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

So I poured steaming hot Chili on my grandmothers head for not commenting positively on my new suspenders... AITA?

[–] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

The general attitude that people have where they need to be right at all costs and will insult you for thinking otherwise.

Like, it's okay to admit that you're wrong and have your views changed.

[–] kaotic@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)
[–] nyternic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Power-tripping users that somehow have access to hundreds of sub-communities and lean heavily on automodding and just reacting by absolutes because they lack problem solving skills.

Shitty, unfunny jokes that spiral into lengthy comment chains that are a chore to weed through. Keep that shit on Reddit, because everyone pretends they're some downtrodden, unspoken stand up comedian on there.

Thought policing.

Word policing. Yeah I get that we shouldn't say n***** and stuff. But, why go through the trouble of censoring swears? I mean come on, we've grown up to have the privilege of airing those words out!

[–] PolarBone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Stupid drama and community rivalries. And ads in apps.

[–] Nioxic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

people bot-posting for karma or similar bullshit

[–] reddit_sucks@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Karma, and assholes who intentionally try and misrepresent an OP because he wasn't eating everyone's ass in the first post.

[–] OreoCat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Ads and rage bait content farm

[–] DrTeeth@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I’m feeling insecure and shy, please rate my anus.

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 1 points 1 year ago

Just general karma whoring...

[–] answersplease77@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cringe horny sexual questions on the main page every day: Reddit, what sound do you like to hear when you do the sex with your female partner? (and the post has 999999 upvotes and 99999 comments)

[–] Rentlar@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

TIFU by sexing the sex when I sexed my sexy sexer.

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