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For me, a few come to mind:

  • "You're imagining everybody in this story way more attractive than they actually were."

It was posted somewhere on one of those spicy subreddits under some affair threesome story. And it sort if clicked with me. Like look around, normal people on the street don't all look like supermodels. And supermodels don't lurk around in reddit comment sections. It really put things into perspective for me.

  • "Life isn't short, it's the longest thing you'll ever do."

It is a bit uplifting to realize that no matter if you have bad or good period in your life, it is only a short chapter contained in the longest time period possible for you to experience.

There were a few others that I probably can't remember of the top of my head right now.

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[–] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 1 points 11 minutes ago

Hope is not a strategy.

It's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.

[–] NutWrench@lemmy.ml 3 points 3 hours ago

"The purpose of discipline is to live more fully, not less"

[–] nick@midwest.social 4 points 7 hours ago

Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment.

Cynical is a word used by the frightened to describe the realistic.

[–] Pudutr0n@feddit.cl 3 points 8 hours ago

"Growing hurts... but it's always worth the pain."

-My sister

[–] SomeGuy69@lemmy.world 32 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Actually this one and I just saw it on Lemmy too. As a life long Trek fan I have this quote IJ my head quite often.

[–] DeadNinja@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago

The only peace you will find at the top of a mountain is the peace you bring there with yourself.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 16 points 15 hours ago

Maya Angelou: "Do your best until you know better, then do better"

[–] tO0l@lemmy.ml 5 points 12 hours ago

the ironic thing about common sense is that it is not that common.

[–] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 16 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Your dog might not be your entire life, but you are the entire life of your dog

[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 11 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Thats a good one, also along the lines "In our dogs eyes we are the immortal elves."

[–] MoonlightFox@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's a good one too.

Every time I think about how important we are to them and how loyal they are, I end up thinking about the "Jurrasic Bark" episode in Futurama 😭

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK3PWHxoT_E

[–] dmegatool@lemmy.ca 10 points 15 hours ago

Lol F you, I'm not clicking on that 😒

[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

That is exactly the same for your kids, it is not until their world expands a bit when they are 3-5YO; before that you are literally everything to them.

[–] Lauchs@lemmy.world 31 points 18 hours ago

No one can change everything but everyone can change something.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 25 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Despair is typical of those who do not understand the causes of evil, see no way out, and are incapable of struggle.

-Vladimir Lenin

Very applicable today, there's no better time than the present to read theory and get organized. If anyone wants, I can post a short introductory reading list on Marxism.

[–] Achyu@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

Thank you. Been thinking about finding good leftist quotes to as my phone wallpaper. Are there more, shorter quotes?

I'm curious about the intro reading list. I've tried the manifesto and listened to some audiobooks by Dessalines. Are there newer articles that are recommended, that summarise/improve the pre-existing content? Especially ones that talk about how the things were/are to be applied.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 8 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 11 minutes ago)

Lenin is a huge yapper, he has tons of fantastic quotes. Another good one is "There are decades where nothing happens; and there are weeks where decades happen."

Here's a little "intro to Marxism-Leninism" list I threw together, modified a bit. It's critically missing National Liberation theory, so any additions on that matter would be excellent. I am working through intersectional theory right now, which is why it is missing from this present list, the goal is to be as straight to the point as possible.

A good intro for someone with no familiarity is Engels' Principles of Communism and if you are anti-AES but willing to read I recommend Parenti's Blackshirts and Reds.

From there, it becomes more important to understand that Marxism-Leninism is broken into 3 major components:

  1. Dialectical and Historical Materialism

  2. Critique of Capitalism along the lines of Marx's Law of Value

  3. Advocacy for Revolutionary Socialism

And as such, I recommend, in order:

  1. Politzer's Elementary Principles of Philosophy

By far my favorite primer on Dialectical and Historical Materialism. By understanding DiaMat first, you make it easier to understand the rest of Marxism.

  1. Engels' Socialism: Utopian and Scientific

Further reading on DiaMat, but crucially introduces the why of Scientific Socialism, essentially explaining how Capitalism itself preps the conditions for public ownership and planning by centralizing itself into monopolist syndicates.

  1. Marx's Wage Labor and Capital as well as Wages, Price and Profit

Best taken as a pair, these essays simplify the most important parts of the Law of Value.

  1. Lenin's Imperialism, The Highest Stage of Capitalism

Absolutely crucial and the most important work for understanding the modern era and its primary contradictions.

  1. Lenin's The State and Revolution

Excellent refutation of revisionists and Social Democrats who think the State can be reformed, and not replaced. Also a good call to action to cap off the intro.

  1. Vikky Storm and Eme Flores' The Gender Accelerationist Manifesto

Critical reading on understanding misogny, transphobia, and homophobia, as well as how to move beyond. Uses the foundations built up in the previous works to analyze gender theory from a Historical Materialist perspective.

After reading all of this, whoever has completed these works should have a good grasp of the basics of Marxism-Leninism and be equipped to do their own Marxist-Leninist analysis, though tons of excellent and fairly critical works were dropped for the sake of limiting the scope to an intro reading list.

For your specific question regarding modern, easier to get into theory, I really love this person's essays on Marxism. They are more advanced, but focus on modern Marxist analysis. I think Why Do Marxists Fail to Bring the "Worker's Paradise?", Socialism Developed China, Not Capitalism, and Why Public Property? are 3 of the best modern essays and primers on Socialism. The first goes over the Materialist theory of Democratic Structures and how they can be built while critically analyzing AES through an AES-positive viewpoint, the second goes over misconceptions about the PRC, and the last helps explain why Marxists advocate for public ownership and central planning, and why Capitalism makes way for this through decentralized markets coalescing into monopolist syndicates.

Let me know if you have any questions!

[–] lettruthout@lemmy.world 21 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy.

[–] Akasazh@feddit.nl 1 points 3 hours ago

-Tom Waits !

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

Sometimes life's a bitch and you keep on living.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 17 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

"How active you are in middle-age determines how active you will be able to be in old age. And that applies to any given decade of one's life.

Meanwhile, on Lemmy, we got people whining about sore backs and knees once they turn 30.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago

Work with elderly. Use it or lose it.

Amount of people who struggle to walk because they got in a wheelchair at some point is fucking high

There's a guy on Youtube by the name of Chris Boden. Slightly controversial figure but he seems to mean well. A video of his that seemed to be venting/reconciling himself included the phrase

"So you wake up one morning in your impact crater and you start. Again."

[–] Redacted@lemmy.world 8 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

The whole poem by Dylan Thomas is fantastic but that line in particular often pops into my head during difficult times, like these.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 3 points 13 hours ago

This is my favorite reading of it. Gives me goosebumps. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESWzPhZWYeI

[–] DirigibleProtein@aussie.zone 11 points 16 hours ago

β€œBe excellent to each other”.

[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 15 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

"Some people deserve to be punished." - Amos Burton (actor Wes Chatham), The Expanse season 2, in reference to an opportunist who had been enriching himself during a humanitarian crisis; comparing him to pimps that force kids and vulnerable people into prostitution.

Full quote(after beating up an uncooperative person and threatening him at gunpoint, then getting confronted about it)

I didn't kill him. Not yet. He's a bully, and where I come from, bullies take desperate young girls like your daughter and force them into prostitution. And when they finally get knocked up, they peddle them to johns who get off on that. After they have the kid, they push them right back out on the streets even before they have a chance to heal. And those kids, they use them, too. Some people deserve to be punished.

[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 9 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

The Expanse has so many memorable quotes.

  • "You're not that guy. I am that GUY."
    - Amos
  • "What is it you're think you're doing?" "WHATEVER I GOD DAMN LIKE."
    - Avaserala answering to the council
  • "You look like shit." "You look amazing."
    - Avaserala and Amos on Luna
  • "I'm just gonna take my pet nuke for a walk."
    - Miller on Ceres Station
[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 8 points 17 hours ago

And Amos was so great. Both the actor and the character. The books are possibly even better

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 5 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Reminds me of bash.org RIP https://bash-org-archive.com/?top

  • "Where ever you go, there you are"
  • "We have just enough fuel to make it to the crash site"
  • "Ruh-Rouh"
  • "Deny, Deny, Deny - Until you believe!"
  • "A Rule without Enforcement is just wishful thinking"
  • "When life gives you lemons- BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD"
  • "Ignoring a alert is the same as normalizing alerts, if it's important, don't ignore it, if it's not important don't alert for it"
  • "Follow the money" - Gripping Hand I think
  • "Premature optimization is the root of all evil" - Knuth maybe
  • "Once you know something is possible, doing it becomes a exercise in persistence."
  • "Science isn't what other people say, its what YOU can observe"
[–] LouNeko@lemmy.world 15 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

"I'm a leaf in the wind."

Said by Wash the pilot in the movie Serenity. I tend to whisper that to myself when things aren't going my way and I need a reminder to just go with the flow.

I'm surprised that works for you, given what happens to him immediately after

[–] Name@feddit.nu 3 points 15 hours ago

I hope you haven't missed the series

[–] BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 17 hours ago

The standard you walk past is the standard you accept

[–] Codilingus@sh.itjust.works 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

"There's no such thing as retard/idiot proof, only retard/idiot resistant."

[–] metaStatic@kbin.earth 5 points 13 hours ago

'A business should never buy idiot proof systems they should just stop hiring idiots"

[–] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 3 points 13 hours ago

"The only person who won't fire you is you."

[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

"Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke

This was used at the end of the movie Jojo Rabbit (one of my favorite movies btw). I often remember this line when I feel like everything is going wrong. It helps me hold on to hope.

[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

I don't have time for-/I didn't have time to-

What you are really saying is, "I didn't prioritize-" and that's OK sometimes. But be real with it. Sometimes it's OK to prioritize other things, but when you start rephrasing it this way, you realize that you may be putting yourself, your partner, your kids, your family, in second or even third place.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 11 points 18 hours ago

β€œMay I have the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

it's a variation of the serenity prayer and it's helped me immensely for the last 40ish years

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago

Happiness is for pussies.

Frankie from The Goon comics.

In my twenties life was a continual slog in a cycle of disappointment and desperation. That gave me something I could "steel myself" with.

[–] bitruge@lemmy.ml 5 points 16 hours ago

"The sun will rise and set regardless of your life""

[–] Plum@lemmy.world 7 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

I give myself a "Dammit, Steve" from Life Aquatic maybe twice a week. I'm a woman, and my name isn't Steve.

I've also got a lot of mileage out of, "everyone knows when you make an assumption, you make an ass out of you and umption."

[–] perviouslyiner@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

Similar with "get up, Trinity" from the matrix.

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 6 points 17 hours ago

Oh nice, I knew "when you assume you make an ass of u and me"

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 2 points 13 hours ago

"Silence deafens everything." At first it seems counterintuitive, but being silent can "deafen" those around you (or society) to an issue or problem.

And my friends dad commented on his wanderlust need : "It doesn't matter where you travel to, you will never get away from yourself"

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

Confident, Cocky, Lazy, Dead.

The serial killer in the Tad Williams books, but it makes sense to me.

[–] 2kool4idkwhat@lemdro.id 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

"Those who never try, never find out"

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 4 points 16 hours ago

In a similar line, "the world belongs to the brave"

[–] ohwhatfollyisman@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

be like the tree; let the dead leaves drop.

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