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[–] toiletobserver@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Isn't that the definition of fantasy? The more far fetched the better imo.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Ok, what if it looked exactly like one of their ex's?

[–] Dudewitbow@lemmy.zip 18 points 1 week ago

then you ahould talk about it. communication is key in a relationship.

[–] whatwasthat@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'd be more offended if it was almost exactly like me.

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] sxan@midwest.social 4 points 1 week ago

Or... a less hot version of me? Like, her standards are lower than I expected?

[–] mm_maybe@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago

That's interesting; I had a conversation once with a friend whose SO was addicted to porn about how she would feel if she discovered that he had AI deepfakes of her. She was very clear that she would see it as a huge relief and a compliment, even; obviously a large part of the hurt she was feeling had to do with the betrayal of having her SO lusting after other women. Otherwise, I don't see how the question is any different for AI porn than other porn; the unique thing about AI is that it's possible to make porn about one's spouse.

[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'd be more offended that they were looking at AI porn, to be honest.

[–] projectmoon@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because of the porn or AI? 🙃

[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 3 points 1 week ago

The AI part; there's so much actual porn online and they decide to look at crappy computer hallucinations?

[–] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

I'd only be mad it was AI generated.

[–] november@lemmy.vg 7 points 1 week ago

My wife and I are both in agreement that AI fucking sucks.

Otherwise no, jealousy is for insecure losers.

[–] Battle_Masker@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Significant Other other?

[–] kitnaht@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Hell naw, I'd try to incorporate their fantasy if I could. If incorporating it would bother me, or her, then I'd let her just keep having fun on her own when she wanted.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 5 points 1 week ago

Is this not what you just asked bro

[–] AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well, I'm a furry, so... nah.

[–] Anomalocaris@lemm.ee 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

what if their AI porn is the most vanilla straight sex imaginable

[–] AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Gasps That means we have to have the talk.