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[–] threeonefour@piefed.ca 126 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I had the opposite TIL when I learned other cultures only apologize for wrong doings and not as a sign of sympathy.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 131 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)
[–] Vupware@lemmy.zip 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I’m on the other side of the fence for this one.

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 months ago (15 children)
[–] ChairmanMeow@programming.dev 12 points 3 months ago

He's the neighbor.

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[–] AceBonobo@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago

I'll give you something to be sorry about vibes. I'll give you something for me to be sorry about?

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 95 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Prior to this law, millions of people were arrested at funerals.

[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 27 points 3 months ago

Police have to pick between arresting the doctor or people paying their last visit. It's horrible.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 47 points 3 months ago (4 children)

why would it be; it just means "i feel bad". which you could say for things you did but also it should be allowed to feel bad for things you didn't cause yourself.

"we had to evacuate because of the wildfire"

"oh, I'm sorry"

"I knew it you son of a bitch"

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

For anyone having trouble understanding the difference between "I'm sorry" and "I apologize," think of how it would be taken at a funeral.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

"I'm sorry for your loss"

[–] Atomic@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 months ago

It depends on the context, don't you think?

I don't think anyone will assume you started the fire just because you're sorry someone had to evacuate.

But let's say you're out in public, there's people all over, you bump into someone, or someone bumps into you, you're not sure, but either way, they fall down and injure themselves. Thanks to this, you can say "I'm sorry" without having a lawyer argue that you accepted guilt for the incident just because you said you're sorry.

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Every single time I tell my bf I'm sorry about something bad that happened to him, his response is, "Why? You didn't do it."

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

I wonder if there's a chance he's trying to console you. like there's nothing you could've done and it wasn't your fault so you might as well not worry about it kinda way.

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, ive had literally this conversation, word for word.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] pyre@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You fucking monster!

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 37 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Interesting that it doesn't apply to criminal cases, just civil ones, and in PEI, only to civil healthcare or defamation cases, nothing else.

[–] arin@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 3 months ago

Are we going full gang bang?

[–] sukhmel@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago

I imagine, healthcare case comes from when a medic announces bad news and tries to express compassion only to get sued because obviously that's the correct person to blame

[–] lastunusedusername2@sh.itjust.works 29 points 3 months ago (3 children)

The fact that this was necessary is so stupid

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 16 points 3 months ago

Law is like that.

[–] Jack_Burton@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 months ago

Yup. It was necessary because of the lawsuits from our former "neighbors" down south. We tried to stop that shit from coming up here but here we are. Get fucked America (not directed at you op, sorry)

[–] rozodru@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Since I'm Canadian and live in a major city that gets very busy I can kinda understand it. I do it myself. bump into someone or do the side walk shuffle and I said sorry even though it's not my fault. Like someone will bump into me and I'll say sorry.

I understand saying sorry. I don't understand it being legally binding anywhere in the world.

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Can I invoke this during family arguments over the holidays?

[–] AceBonobo@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago

Legally you're allowed to use "I'm sorry you feel that way"

[–] Texas_Hangover@lemmy.radio 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago
[–] Cyclist@lemmy.world 15 points 3 months ago
[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 months ago

“I’m so sorry for your loss”

“Murderer!!!”

[–] sad_detective_man@leminal.space 8 points 3 months ago

that's pretty funny. the culture is acknowledged by law

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