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I have a relative staying over right now and he has to have an opinion on.. everything. Examples:

"That's a nice watch.. How much did you pay for it? That much? That's too much money".

"That meal looks good.. You should add some cheese to it"

"What size is your bottle? Don't you think it's a bit large? it would be better if it was smaller"

"That would be better if they didn't add sugar to it. They put too much sugar in it." Me: "There's no added sugar". "That would be better if they didn't add sugar to it."

LIKE BRO????

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I did have those, i have cut them out of my life.

Typically the over opinionated bullshit morphs into jabs, insults and outright to hostility….. I just got sick of dealing with it and cut them out of my life.

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

same and extremely valid

[–] Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Not a relative but a friend. He has an opinion on everything and also usually has the only correct answer for every question too.

Boy wish o could be like him... Never a doubt

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 7 points 2 months ago

Boy wish o could be like him… Never a doubt

Doubt is often a good sign of a working mind.

[–] Waraugh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 months ago

Even better, a mom, and one I have to be around more than I’d like now that she’s elderly.

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Nowadays I don't have this problem, but I know exactly which sort of person you're talking about: they act as if their opinion was always important, relevant, or welcome.

For me it's most of the time just an annoyance, except in one situation: if they're vomiting uncalled advice on my face, because then I'll interpret it as an insult. (EDIT: 3/4 of the examples in the OP show this.)

[–] CathyBikesBook@piefed.zip 3 points 2 months ago

Kick them out. You deserve peace in your own home. People like that are always going to have something to say about what you do

[–] MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

So annoying, right? Like, just SO annoying!

....

Ok, fine, whatever, yeah, that's me. Sorry. But you really SHOULD add cheese to it.

[–] Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 2 points 2 months ago
[–] notwhoyouthink@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Maybe it’s just my experience, I’ve noticed this to be a near universal Boomer trait. It’s as if they are incapable of keeping an opinion to themselves and worse yet, act upon this impulse with the expectation that whomever they’re speaking to will be grateful for it and if not it is somehow a personal insult.

[–] raskal@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago

As a boomer myself, I think you're wrong

[–] lvxferre@mander.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

I think you're onto something here. I can see exceptions (some non-boomers doing this shit, some boomers not doing it), but it does sound like something you'd expect from your typical boomer. And it fits, since plenty boomers are entitled shitlets acting as if the world revolved around their individual belly buttons, opinions are just an extension of that.

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

all of the older members of my ex-family were like this, so that tracks

[–] GreenShimada@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

It's performative insecurity. And it's not an opinion, it's bullying. That's the point, to steamroll other people and their opinions to make people capitulate to their "way of doing things." To make them feel good about themselves. Which is cheap and fleeting.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 2 months ago

Your asking. People hanging on the internet. An internet forum no less. If its bad that people have an opinion on everything. You get me?

[–] vantablack@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

i did and they were horrible people so i stopped talking to them and disappeared entirely

this is manipulative and controlling af if not outright abusive behavior

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 2 months ago

The not listening thing in the last example is more irksome than them having an opinion.