My husband was a champ. He worked full-time and also stayed up at night manually pumping my breast milk while I was sleeping, and he'd wake up with th baby & fed the baby & changed diapers & he cooked meals too! The only thing he didn't do is clean and that's okay cuz I loved cleaning.
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I always wonder what kind of point one wishes to make and what kind of responds they expect.
Seems like a lot of trouble could be avoided if people who don't actually want to take on the responsibilities of parenting stop reproducing.
"She wanted a divorce out of nowhere!" - Every deadbeat dad.
The meme isn't judging all men, people. It's calling out a specific behavior and attitude. Not sure why people are so upset. Unless you actually do this, of course.
My wife is in labor as we speak! Crazy how I'm sitting here this meme feels very reIevant. I aspire to not be this guy.
Bullshit. This is stupid, generalising and damaging in just the same way as memes about how women get married and stop having sex.
Those stupid sexist memes are also not about all women.
I dunno, my ex was ok with the kids, and I was able to sleep & nurse at the same time (small boobs) but breastfeeding knocked my libido down to less than zero. Usually I run pretty hot, but while nursing it was like I couldn't care at all about sex, it felt like a chore, and when we did, I had both fear (because childbirth) and had to work just to get to a baseline level of desire at all. I always figured it was a natural birth control thing, nature helping so kids don't come too close together.
Hey, incel Nazi wannabe douches. Downvote me harder, daddy. I'm getting rock hard and going to consensually bang the hell out of my wife.
Holy shit I really got to you didn't I?
I saw you made two responses to my comment showing you were wrong. I knew you were big mad, but this is hysterical. I didn't realize you were having a full on breakdown outside our little sub-comment chain.
You're yapping an awful lot about "I have hot sex with my wife" for a guy supposedly happy, stable, and a better husband than the rest of us InCeLs. Thanks man, you've just made the next couple days for me.
Nazis don't deserve nice things. They do deserve to be made fun of.
As you keep responding you keep sounding like a worse person.
I've been having a blast pissing you off. Keep going. I've got all week. : )
There is no big mad, I just know you are some sort of abuser in the guise of #notallmen.
And we fuck rather regularly. My lady tells me she is representative of the crowd--hornier as they get older. Truth is, I was born to please. I'm not sharing because I'm upset. We mutually enjoy the occasional banging. (I know, you wouldn't understand. 😔)
Difference between us? I respect people (who aren't closeted fascists.)
BTW, I know this was one of you morons.
This is some boomer shit
Specifically American boomer, and something that's still going on. There was a thread here on lemmy a while ago that was about how american culture is very different from much of the world in terms of how much the father does in the things mentioned here. That a lot of the world have had it kinda even for many decades and some places even centuries.
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Must be America again, because I've hardly seen this in Denmark, Sweden, Germany, the Netherlands, France, or Spain (all countries I've either visited for extended periods of time, or lived in for portions of my life).
In my own family, however, I am the biggest brother, so they basically made me take care of a lot of the dirty tasks involving my siblings.
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