My boomer parents are looking at two screens 24/7. Either TV + tablet or tablet + phone or tv + tablet
Bonus points when I call them and they don't answer because they say they didn't have their phone with them
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My boomer parents are looking at two screens 24/7. Either TV + tablet or tablet + phone or tv + tablet
Bonus points when I call them and they don't answer because they say they didn't have their phone with them
This isn't really a shower thought. It's more of a shower opinion.
Gen Z is gravitating towards analog. It’s the boomers who are addicted.
My first thought as well. My parents and in-laws are constantly on screens while watching TV.
I know plenty of Boomers who are additcetd to their smartphones. Even more so than the younger generations. Some even have the TV on in the background while doomscrolling.
Correction: boomscrolling 😁
Older people can be just as bad as young ones about phone addiction and poor habits let alone manners
My mother was constantly on her phone playing games or scrolling social media/TikTok/YouTube. Even when her favorite shows were on she barely paid any attention.
My mom used to knit during shows, and either miss a plot point, or lose count of a stitch and have to unravel stuff.
For movies, she was notorious for falling asleep and getting upset that we finished watching it anyway.
Lol my grandma had phone additiction long before smart phones. Watching TV before steaming really sucked with her in room.
I'm GenX and I honestly can't stand to watch ads anymore, they're all so stupid and I feel like I've put in my damn time already with the ads. I suppose that's why most ads are aimed at younger people until they want to start selling you catheters.
I havent used an actual TV for regular broadcasting in about 25 years, so my experience of ads has been targeted bullshit about buying lawnmowers when I already bought one, and eat this ONE WEIRD FRUIT to half CANCER RISK.
I miss the adverts on cartoon network. Im tired of being an adult. Tell me more about that RC Car that sticks to walls. Show me the slushy maker again.
Right. Advertise cool shit. Not corpo crap. Liberty, Applebee's, some pharmaceutical called wongfelloffwizi
millennial here, I absolutely hate ads with such a passion that I will go very far out of my way to block ads. I've side loaded a YouTube alternative onto my TV to avoid ads. My parents (boomers) have no problem paying for xm radio and still being advertised to!
Yeah same here, my Mom will actually DVR stuff and not skip through the ads lol. WTF.
DVRs still exist?
Yes but it’s really only boomers who still have cable and use them.
Plex and Jellyfin are DVRs. They just do other things too.
Surprisingly yes although I suspect they will phase them out real soon since you can skip ads. The only way to watch the show again will be on demand, which they put ads all over now. There are a few movie channels that offer ad free, but unless you pay through the nose the only way to avoid ads is to pirate things.
My cell phone has literally all notifications turned off.
Silent always. Never a pesky red dot telling me where to tap. Never a push notification reminding me that I should reconsider using something I obviously don't need.
Yess... DND for life :D
Boomer here (cusp between boomer & gen x): Why not both put down the phone AND turn off the TV?
I have a TV but pretty much only turn it on for local news & weather. I absolutely can't tolerate the ads and there are no good shows anyway except a few on PBS. I use a flip phone. I won't call it a 'dumb' phone because it's still android underneath and has navigation. But no internet.
Of course that doesn't stop me from sitting on my ass in front of a computer on the internet, but at least I'm not doing that 24/7 and have other things for entertainment like books, games, hobbies.
edit: not to imply I speak for other boomers. Most of them are on their smartphones all the time, getting notifications every 5 seconds like everyone else.
Not that I'm in any position to speak for an entire generation but I feel like a lot of Gen Z also can't understand why Gen Z can't put their phones down and watch TV like a normal person.
"tiktok will ruin your attention span"
Flips between channels every 20 seconds muttering about how there's nothing good on
Watch older tv and you realize how much time is dedicated in many shows to recapping what happened three minutes ago before the commercial break.
3 minute commercial break? So like TV from 60s?
Last I heard the average sitcom comes in at 16 minutes for a 30 minute block.
I haven’t really watched made for broadcast tv since, say, 2008 and House episodes are about 42:00, 6 breaks, 3 min each. Maybe it’s longer, fewer breaks. But I’m sure it’s trashier now.
I got curious and did some quick searching. Looks like it depends greatly on the content and network with dramas usually having shorter breaks than sitcoms. The Big Bang Theory for instance averaged 17 minutes apparently.
One interesting factoid I found was that The Wizard of Oz, which is 101 minutes long, took up a 120 minute block in the 60s unedited but a 180 minute block today with edits to make it shorter.
And I'm a (late) millennial and spend most of my time at home neither on my phone nor TV, but my laptop computer (connected to two external monitors).
I got my first own computer when I was 10 and ever since then, using the computer has been my "default" activity when I'm at home. Smartphones came after that and didn't change that, I still prefer big screens with a keyboard and mouse if I have them, mainly use my smartphone when I'm not at home.
Because TV is boring as hell most of the times and majority of it is ads which cant be blocked.
At least with phone i have to move my thumbs or put a little taught into how to express myself.
Standard TV is just a complete mind numbing existence. It's pretty much equal to just being in a coma. Even sleeping is better, at least the body is recovering at that time. Standard TV is one of the worst ways to consume data garbage.
Of course there are good movies and documentaries, but those are a minority.
Boomers grew up in the 40s and 50s. 60s a little. Television had three channels and you watched when the broadcast was happening. That was it. There was already a long history of non-TV activities to do.
Today with phones and telecommunications everywhere, along with "I can consume whatever content I want to any time at my whim", is an entirely different landscape.
I wish the media environment was as basic as it was in the 50s.
I disagree with you, but you're right
Gen-X quietly in the corner, remembering how they watched TV a lot too, but also mostly got kicked out of the house to play outside and "don't come back in until dark".
Edit to emphasize this wasn't necessarily a choice we made for ourselves. Boomers (and the Silent Gen before them) wanted their peace from the kids, so we were on our own. Good and bad points to that kind of character building.
Millennial here: don’t come back until dark wasn’t exclusive to GenX.
Yeah, it didn't really fade out until into the '90s.
So much TV. Mostly UHF on Saturday mornings until cable came along.
My parents said I was addicted to TV. So they told me I was allowed to watch 4 hours a week and I could pick the programs I wanted to watch from the TV magazine.
Turned out that this just meant I could watch the shows I wanted instead of them switching them off. I only had 3 favourite shows, I never watched anything else anyway.
Actually, boomers are some of the most phone-addicted people I come in contact with 🤷♂️
I've never seen someone panic when the internet went down as my 72yo mother
Or my 83-year old mother in law. Most of the stuff that happens happens because she doesn't read. She'll just blindly click.
Like TikTok, Twitch, and YouTube aren't basically the same thing as TV.
Video content, sometimes live, loaded with commercials. Just like TV.
Like TikTok [... isn't] basically the same thing as TV.
Dude, what TV were you watching? Even clip shows like AFV weren't as WarioWare as TikTok is. TikTok is a nonstop whiplash of extremely short-form shit which you're incentivized to absorb emotionally but not to think about – way moreso than TV. The content is way shorter, and importantly, it's bouncing back and forth between completely different subjects every dozens of seconds or so. Even in the era where TV is mostly VoD, this doesn't hold up.
The parallels are there with YouTube if you watch it in a certain way (I'd argue saying "YouTube is the same" is wrong too because there are a trillion ways to watch it that act nothing like TV, i.e. that this comparison is a subset of YouTube), but to say "video playback with ads, therefore TV" for TikTok is the most ridiculous oversimplification of it I've ever seen.
TikTok is like TV in the way that a machine gun was like a musket. Like, kind of? Technically? If you want to strip away all nuance? Shooty thing go pew?
I mean the oldest one of these is YouTube, which was literally named after an element of TV technology. The name implies that it's a TV program made by "you", the user. So this isn't new knowledge at all.
I think they crave shared experience, the social activity of watching together, of picking something that everyone wants to watch.
I miss it too, except I never wanted to watch what they wanted to watch. I couldn’t do it either.
Now I just miss them.
The boomers can't either. When I visit my parents half the time when I look over at my parents they're on their phone.
In the worst case Boomer can’t even remember how we watch TV in the 90s which was exactly the same way but without our phone. We didn’t watch TV scotched to the screen like people like to think, there’s a reason why ads are blaring noise like a fucking bombing alarm now.
Not a shower thought.
Also never heard this from any boomer - and I have a large family that extends from 90 year-old grandparents to newborns.
It’s adjacent but my boomer dad thinks I should be getting my news from network news stations since I also don’t get the newspaper. For some reason he thinks those sources are more reliable than the internet without thinking about who owns them.