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I remember when I first got here, the biggest post was about the person who asked for advice on how to not poop for 3 days.
Now we are here with detailed comments on Genital Nullification Surgery, with GREAT answers in the comments.
How times have changed.
Awww, thanks!
You have unlocked some rare NSFW cosplay options, look around the comment section for inspiration...
Have you considered matching top surgery?
I have, but decided against it. Sex doesn't hold much appeal for Me, but I do like having My nipples sucked.
Getting a tattoo is too much of a commitment for me.
I love that you're now having the non-genitals you want and I love that by requesting that you've now been a pioneer paving the way for others 🏳️⚧️
You really should be proud of yourself for going through all the medical system interrogations and stuff and enduring people questioning you on things that are not their business.
Congrats for nothing 😁💕
It kinda is their business if they're doing the surgery. They can refuse to do things that they feel are unethical, inhumane, ect. Plus they have to take into account the person's mental status if they're in the right state of mind for an elective operation like that. It isn't surgery to remove an appendix or gallbladder. They can also refuse to do it.
But yeah, if that's what you want do you. They just need to make sure, for some pretty damn good reasons.
seems like you don't know how invasive the questions asked by medical stuff can be. sure this is something with extra questions involved. these questions are not my point.
(just for example I have been asked unprompted - and in details - about my sexual activity by a diabetic doctor. things like that happen a lot. it's exhausting to be trans in the medical system.)
Its exhausting to be anyone in the medical system. I can't think of a single person that isn't beaten to with in an inch of their mental limits by the medical system.
Its a pain we all share.
Still waiting for one brave soul to undergo the combined phalloplasty/vaginoplasty. That's where they first take your existing dick and surgically transform it into a vag and vulva. Then they take a piece of your arm skin and construct a replacement dick for some reason.
No real questions here tbh, I'm just so glad you were able to get what you wanted! Having genitals you don't want is unbelievably fucking uncomfortable in my experience. I hope it was the relief you needed!
Yeah, I'm way comfier now. And no more hair getting stuck under My balls! Now it only gets stuck in My butt crack! That's progress!
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At first, I thought you were describing a zero-depth vaginoplasty sort of situation, but then realized you really did order "nuttin'". I'll admit, I was just as confused as Jimmy. Thanks for digging up this classic ad too.
I have no questions (your replies here tell the whole story already), but just wanted to say: this is incredible and I'm happy for you!
No questions, just congratulations!! 🎊🎈🍾🎉
Where did they relocate your urethral opening, or whatever it's called? I mean, where do you pee from, now?
Around the same place most women keep theirs. Just, minus the vagina part.
is it just like a small small hole? do you have to 'dilate' like a standard bottom surgery (I forgot if that's the right word for that)
No, I don't have to dilate, I'm not Hank Hill. I have a perfectly normal width urethra.
Officially it's a meatus (mee-AY-tus), but asking where you pee from is probably easier for everyone XD
That's awesome, now I know the medical term for a pee pee hole and I can answer "where do You pee from" more professionally
Where do you pee from?
My surgeon made Me a new pee pee hole, around where most women keep theirs. You definitely couldn't fit a penis in there, though, it's tiny. It's for pee and jizz only, same as the old one. I suppose I could still do sounding, but I don't want to.
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Did you have trouble finding a doctor willing to do it, or get a lot of push back? I've heard how hard it can be for women to get sterilized sometimes, so I imagine there would be a lot of push back on this too. "Are you really really really sure for real?"
I had a lot of trouble with the doctor stuff. Bottom surgery in general in Australia is a nightmare. There's this guy, Andrew Ives, who used to be the #1 recommendation for bottom surgery in the entire country. So I booked a consultation with him, months and months in advance. And then he retired.
I eventually found a surgeon with a great bedside manner, who could do exactly what I wanted, including the special feature I wanted. The only problem was, he wanted Me to see TWO licensed WPATH psychiatrists. Most people only have to see one psychiatrist, but I had to see two because My surgery is less common.
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I kinda want to see what this looks like
You want pictures of My crotch?
I mean, this is the internet, sending each other crotch pics it's what it was designed for 😄
Also, how do you stimulate for orgasm? Prostate only I guess. Or you don't want to have sex as well? Just curious, I'm happy that you're happy 🙂
I kept a little bit of the sensitive tissue. Just the tip. It's under My skin so I can wank by rubbing it. But I'm not really into the whole having sex thing most of the time.
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What was the healing/recovery like compared to a traditional GRS?
Pretty quick and simple. I don't have to dilate or anything like that. I walked out of the hospital three days after the surgery, and a week later I was taking care of Myself
@Grail dang, the nothing envy is real 😹
I made this post because A: it's funny, and B: I want other trans people to know this is an option, so they can be happier with whatever choice they make.
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