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"Do you think my tattoo is cool?" No, I don't. There are no cool tattoos. "Check out my sleeve!" Oh god ew.

Tattoos themselves are stupid. Doubly so if it's some media IP. "I put Batman on my body!" "Look at this image of Goku on my calf!" I can't think of many things I'd want to do less than that.

There are a few narrow exceptions. Chances are yours isn't one of them.

If you personally like tattoos, fine. I'm not saying nobody should get tattoos because I don't like them. I'm stating my opinion that tattoos are stupid, and I am stating it here because it is probably not a popular opinion.

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[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 2 points 10 minutes ago (1 children)

I would extend this to all images on people. Graphic t-shirts, hats, logos, text on booty shorts, jewelry

Why does everyone need to be a walking billboard? Why must we cover everything with "art"? Why do we need to constantly be broadcasting messages to everyone who looks at us?

I get that people are excited about these things, and I never want to make anyone feel bad about having tattoos or wearing clothes they like. But personally i west plain clothes, mostly solid colors and the occasional stripes, nothing busier than plaid. I took thr dealership stickers and manufacturers logos off my car.

[–] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 1 points 6 minutes ago

Same here. On the other hand, I would like that someone stroke conversation with me because of some decoration I have on me.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 5 points 49 minutes ago

Neck, head, facial, and hand tattoos are great, they let me know who doesn't make the best decisions, and tells me that someone may not be suitable for a job.

This is semi sarcastic, I mean that these kinds of tattoos are general known to reduce the available job opportunities for a person, meaning that a person with any of those has deliberately made it harder for themselves to get a job, thus impacting themselves negatively.

It is their choice, and I will never tell someone off for doing that, but if I were an employer, it would definitely negatively impact their chances for a job.

Other tattoos can all be covered up and would not impact my decision.

[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 2 minutes ago

Facebook for your body

[–] toxicbubble@lemmy.world 4 points 44 minutes ago

on the contrary, people without tattoos look....plain?

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Tattoos look good for the first few months, or in other words about 1% of their lifespan

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 minutes ago

You're supposed to get them touched up occasionally, and most decent tattoo artists usually offer free touchups. Tattoos require maintenance, just like any other body modification.

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works -1 points 14 minutes ago

This isn't a good unpopular opinion, it's just you whining about something you don't like.

[–] Pronell@lemmy.world 7 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

My first thought when I see someone with a ton of tattoos is "Fuck that looks terrible/painful/expensive."

It's only after that I try to appreciate them as a personal choice and artistic thing.

That said, I do want one tattoo, from the show Fringe, episode White Tulip. Just haven't made it a priority at all.

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

For a lot of people tattoos are indeed a luxury they indulge in. Also, for a significant amount of people who get tattoos, the pain is part of the point.

[–] SippyCup@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Kinda depends, where you get it and how much shading there is makes a big difference on how much it hurts. None of mine were all that painful but the shading wasn't comfortable by any stretch of the imagination.

That said, you never just get one tattoo. You get that first one, then think, well you can't just have one that's silly. Then suddenly you're covered in ink and looking for room for more.

Maybe, get that design in a sticker first, slap it on something everyone will see and see how long you enjoy being asked about it.

[–] masterspace@lemmy.ca 29 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Lol I don't have tattoos, but I can do this for literally everything you have ever liked or enjoyed.

This is one of those "if you think something that doesn't effect you and brings others joy is stupid, you probably need therapy".

[–] Unpigged@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 25 minutes ago

And so opinions were discovered.

[–] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

There's a phrase that's been around a while - "don't yuck someone else's yum".. just because you don't like it doesn't mean that others can't like it.

[–] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 14 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Was gonna downvote but then saw the community so I guess I'll upvote it? People want to etch something onto themselves permanently, I think that is pretty cool a person likes something so much they want to mark themselves with it. Some of the things people get tattooed tho, not so much lol.

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

In this community - doesn't upvote means it's a unpopular opinion?

And downvote if it's a common/popular opinion?

So your voting is correct!

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 3 points 58 minutes ago* (last edited 58 minutes ago)

My unpopular opinion is that just because an opinion is technically unpopular doesn't mean it should be upvoted. I think if an opinion is reasonably well thought out and has more than just "personal opinion" vibes to it. Like, if you could reasonably argue your opinion and potentially sway them, its a good unpopular opinion.

"I dont like them therefore they're bad" does not fall in this for me. This is a bad unpopular opinion.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 16 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

This was the popular opinion when I was younger, I love tattoos but they used to be uncommon and sort of countercultural.

I never imagined tattoos would gain mainstream popularity like they have. I think it's improved the art but at the same time made them less, I dunno, cool?

[–] Zorque@lemmy.world 4 points 57 minutes ago

I think if you're getting tattoos to be cool you're doing it for the wrong reason.

[–] nylo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 4 hours ago

agreed, I remember hearing a gen z punk a while back in my DIY days say, "these days it's more punk to not have tattoos"

i remember rolling my eyes at the time but he's kinda got a point lol

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

IMO if it's somewhere you can see it it's different from a tattoo meant for others to see. So, I'm not a fan of tramp stamps because they're on your lower back. To me, that means it's meant for others to see. I'm especially not a fan of neck or face tattoos because they're not for you to see, and are always visible to others. But, a forearm tattoo is something you'll see often, so it's for yourself.

It also depends on what it is and what it means. If it's just something you thought was a cool design, I'm not a fan. OTOH if it marks a significant event / milestone in your life, I can see that. I think the traditional naval tattoos are interesting because they use a traditional design to mark a significant event in a sailor's life.

What's truly unfortunate is when someone gets a tattoo and doesn't think carefully about what other people will see. I'm not talking about bad art. That's a common problem with tattoos. It's when someone gets a Nazi symbol without realizing, or gets something in a language they don't speak that isn't what they meant, or they try to get a Vox Machina tattoo but end up with something that looks almost identical to the Gmail icon.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 5 minutes ago

This gatekeeping is odd. Tattoos are bad if decorative but good if meaningful to your standards?

[–] BallShapedMan@lemmy.world 56 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Wait... I disagree completely but it's correctly posted in unpopular opinions. Fine... Take my up vote.

There are bad tattoos but I love most of them. I don't have any yet, but my wife and I are talking about getting our first.

[–] mushroommunk@lemmy.today 31 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

The way you wrote the last sentence implies to me you and your wife are planning to intentionally get bad tattoo stamps soon. I love the idea.

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[–] Elting@piefed.social 56 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

For the record I totally agree. But if one of my friends just gotta tattoo im gonna pretend to be excited for them. What else are you sposed to do when someone just got permanent artwork etched on themselves?

[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 points 33 minutes ago

I had a couple of friends who were drunk as shit one night and they decided they needed to go out and get matching sperries logo tattoos immediately.

They asked me for a ride to a tattoo shop and I told them no and to stop being dumbasses. They basically called me a lame anti-tattoo prude and then took a cab to the place and got the tattoos.

The next morning they were hungover and blamed me for the tattoos cause I shouldn't have let them go, I should have tried harder to stop them. Fuckin A...

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 36 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

I'd be excited for them not their tat.

[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Right? It not being for you or not fitting your tastes does not mean that their happiness about it can't make you happy and excited for them. Like my brother-in-law was a punter in the NFL for a couple seasons. My wife and her mother knew absolutely nothing about football and didn't care for the game. But they both learned enough to appreciate specifically what a punter does and attended many of his games to support him. There is a big difference between loving what someone loves and loving them.

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[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 40 points 6 hours ago (6 children)

I've always said to myself "I'll get a tattoo when I can think of something that I'll still think is cool when I'm 70"

Ain't got a tattoo.

My brother has our family coat of arms as his only tattoo, I think that's reasonably timelessly cool.

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 16 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I got WIDE LOAD tattooed in black metal font on the backs of my thighs

[–] BarrelAgedBoredom@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Ngl I might steal that lmao. That's great

[–] Banana@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 hour ago

Go for it, haha! And thanks! :)

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[–] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 7 points 4 hours ago

I half agree.

If you're getting IP put on, I think that's a bad idea. I may still find it aestheticaly pleasing.

I've had a mind to do something similar to Adam Savage's ruler tattoo, because there is actual utility in always being able to get a rough measure of objects. But I'd prefer to wait until I'm in my 50s for that, just so there is minimal change in size as I have it.

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Saw a bunch of old people in swimsuits recently. TONS of old people have tattoos. Like - gray, wrinkly, can't walk very well OLD people with tattoos.

It wasn't . . . beautiful unless you mean in a kind of Diane Arbus way, then yes.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago

One day you will be the wrinkly old person at the beach. At that point I don't think it matters at all, does it? I can't imagine they are trying to look good to you. Lots of things only look good when you are young, doesn't mean you ought not do as you like.

I had a friend who said all she wanted was one day to be that wrinkled old lady smoking a cigarette at the beach, because those people looked so happy and did not give a fuck.

[–] pigup@lemmy.world 18 points 5 hours ago

Met a scientist that worked at NASA. He didn't like tatoos either, but made a pact that if they launched their satellite project, they would all get tattoos of it. I don't like tattoos at all but I can respect that.

[–] deft@lemmy.wtf 9 points 5 hours ago

Life is meant to be lived. People worried their whole lives they won't like a design or piece of art, in my opinion, are living scared

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 12 points 5 hours ago

I don't yuck other people's yums, which is, strangely, often also an unpopular opinion.

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