Aremel

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[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Can I pick both?

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

The overarching answer is "people are different". But I suspect you want a more granular answer than that.

Depending on various factors like age, sex, hydration status, disease process, etc., some people's skin is more elastic than others. People also have different pain tolerances. If you mix and match all of these factors, you'll get people reacting differently to the same stimuli.

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Ground beef.

What do you call a cow with 2 legs?

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Spongebob

DragonBall Z

Ed, Edd, n Eddy

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (1 children)

And at the time of writing my previous two posts, I was a little drunk so I hope I made my point lol.

But yes, I understand where you are coming from. There is always an alternative, more "polite" way of getting a message across, even if that message itself is not polite. Using curses is a crutch for people that do not have the wit and vocabulary to say what they want to say. Did I get that right?

I feel like we agree to some extent. However, where we differ is in our attitudes towards the use of curses. You seem to look down on people who curse at all whereas I look down on people who curse profusely. By profusely, I mean in situations where cursing is not warranted (inappropriate setting) or just general overuse.

I think people can do and say whatever they want so long as they don't hurt anybody, cursing included. I don't see how the use of curses actually hurts anyone except maybe the recipient of a pointed "fuck you". Anyone else around to hear the curse word only gets offended because society told them to.

I draw the line at racial slurs. That's just not cool.

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (3 children)

It's entirely possible to get your feelings across without ever using curse words. I commend people for having the emotional maturity and the vocabulary to do so. However, I feel it is emotionally disingenuous to censor yourself with "polite" versions of curse words, for example saying "shoot" instead of "shit" or "fudge" instead of "fuck".

I can understand if your surroundings aren't conducive to curses, like being around children or in polite company such as a work or religious environment, but if you're in a position where it is socially acceptable to curse but instead choose to censor yourself, I find you to be emotionally disingenuous or at least emotionally immature. If you choose to never ever curse, that's cool too. Again, I think it's commendable to never have to resort to curses. But if you have to use a curse word to get your point across, just use it if the environment is appropriate. Doubly so if it's in a written medium.

I know what you're trying to say when you type "f**k". You've done nothing but demonstrate to me that you would like to seem "proper" while still resorting to using offensive language. Emotionally disingenuous, or at best emotionally immature. If you feel like you must censor yourself, then just don't curse at all.

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I agree to an extent. If overused, cursing can be "edgy" and offputting. However, sometimes you just need to emphasize the emotion of a given statement that mere "polite" words cannot express.

Quite frankly, I do not trust people that do not curse. I feel that they are not emotionally genuine. Conversely, I feel that people that curse too much are emotionally immature and do not know how to express themselves properly. Cursing is an art. It's a linguistic balancing act where one must take the audience and message into consideration.

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yep. I've been there myself. It's strange being "between worlds" as it were, but I've come to terms and even celebrate my multiculturalness.

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Coconuts as in "brown and hairy on the outside, white on the inside"?

That's pretty funny lol

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (5 children)

From what I understand, some servers prefer tips because they make more money that way, and since it's cash they don't report it to the IRS so it's untaxed income. I don't know how much of the server population prefers it this way.

[–] Aremel@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

"Courage means being scared but doing it anyway" seems like a pretty succinct way of putting it I think.

My wierd compliment (if it can be called that) was when I was in high school English class. My teacher noticed how competent I was and how I was the only one to consistently raise my hand when he asked a question. He gave us a research paper to do and I got an F on it, exclusively because I fucked up the citations. He said the content was good, but he had to mark me way down due to improper citing. He said "I know you can do better than this."

Is that a complement? Either way, I think about that interaction and scenario a lot even though I haven't been in high school for well over a decade.

 

I bought this off Ebay but I am not sure if it is authentic or not. Can anyone here tell me or point me towards a resource I can use?

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