My most stolen photo has been stolen over 100 times and almost exclusively is used on other professional photographers’ websites, including one national photography company.
Gonna take a real nice vacation when all the settlements come in.
It takes a special kind of stupid for a photographer to act like they don’t understand copyright.
Did you look at any of this guy’s work before hiring him? Did you look at full jobs and not the greatest hits? Does he have a studio? Did he bring lighting and take the time to set it up for a look that supports your project brief? Did he style the items on set to make him look their best? Did he provide a contract?
If you paid less than a couple hundred bucks, well you get what you pay for and are at the mercy of his timeline. If you paid a standard rate for commercial photography in your area, then no, a month is not acceptable at all.
I just delivered a commercial job later than normal - it took me 7 days, because the job itself required a full day out of town so there was lots of busy work to catch up on upon return, and then I had some familiar obligations due to a death in my family. Kept the client advised of the timeline and delivered a ton of work.
Payment upfront in full is not unheard of, but neither is taking a deposit and getting a final invoice when the final images are ready for delivery.
If this person has a real business entity you could leave reviews, but based on what you said about the shoot length, this person sounds like a rank amateur.