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Oh, NO DOUBT there are some shittastic female boudoir photographers out there. I follow one mainly because she keeps stealing our interiors photos to use to promote her sessions. Her lighting is fucking terrible and she knows fuck all about posing larger bodies. There’s shitty photogs everywhere. But the female boudoir photogs usually aren’t sending sus texts after the session or trying to have a deeper relationship like the badly behaved male ones. There’s literally instagram accounts for models to keep track of which photographers are sketchy.
Why even bother doing boudoir? Like you said, commercial work pays way better and is less emotionally fraught. I shot a couple back when I did weddings and it was better than doing newborns but it’s not a genre that’s going to result in additional sales from other parties, and the client willing to invest 4 figures or more is kind of rare unless you have a super popular boudoir brand.
If it really “speaks” to you artistically then just hire a model. Much easier to make sure you’re getting what you need for your portfolio when you can call all the shots on styling, make-up, wardrobe, etc.
My biggest pet peeve with boudoir photographers is that a solid 95% cannot pronounce the word “boudoir” correctly. How is anyone supposed to take you seriously when you can’t even say what you do. If I hear “boo-door” one more time…
Haha I get you about the pronunciation of the word.
The thing is there’s creeps and weirdos on both sides women just make more noise about it. Men brush it off and keep it moving.
As for why do boudoir even if the pay isn’t as much, it’s not always about bread (money). If that was the case I wouldn’t take photos of half the things I capture, most of what I do is because I’m interested in it and I like the look of it so I want to freeze that moment. It’s no different with boudoir or capturing a beautiful woman. Inspiration starts with an interest, nothing wrong with that or admitting to it.
The whole label of men photographers being just in it to be creepy is lame, even the OP’s own friends vouched for the guy after having shoots with him.