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Being excluded from culture when you feel like the same person you always were. At some point in your life, every TV commercial, every new service, every trending product will be aimed right at you. And then you'll age out of the marketer's target bracket, and suddenly the party is over and you might as well be dead.
It doesn't sound like a big deal because all that stuff is bullshit anyway, except our entire human culture has been replaced with a synthetic one, and everyone embedded in it takes the cue and treats you the same.
I'm old enough to be experiencing this, but I actually like it like this. I had zero desire to own a Labubu when they came out recognizing it as just that generation's flash-in-the-pan fad like beanie babies was for my generation.
So many online services are sold for things I do not care about so I have zero to manage on those.
I'm not seduced to buy the "latest slightly incremental increase in performance" item for 99% of products out there because I have something that does the job for me already.
Some of today's pop music styles I don't like, but there's thousands of hours of music I do like (including a chunk of new stuff) so I'm not put out.
Its actually kind of great to be immune to so much of the advertising thats out there today because you simply don't want what they're selling because they're targeting the younger generation.
People who push 100 must feel like they're living on a totally different planet than the one they were born on.
I'm not even close to that old and I have trouble understanding GenZ conversation in public sometimes.
It's already weird for me to think about what home interiors and cars used to look like when I was a kid. Those are totally different now.
On the bright side, the grocery store music has started playing bangers these days.