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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 172 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I’m friends with sex workers who give comfort just like this. Some of them don’t even have sex on their menus, just physical touch, companionship, and listening. They say it’s exhausting, perhaps even moreso than sex, but the pay is good. There’s boundary issues to watch out for.

[–] 14th_cylon@lemmy.zip 91 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

sex workers

don’t even have sex on their menus

🤔

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 59 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Just sashaying up to the counter, “a number nine combo and a medium sex.”

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 43 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

"Sorry, we're all out of sex. How about a hotly contested disagreement followed by rapprochement and eventually a blossoming mutual respect and admiration over the course of several months?"

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Does it come with a side of friendship?

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 weeks ago

Wait there are 12 days of Christmas, you switched back way too soon you heathen!

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That’s literally why I asked though.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm afraid that information isn't publicly available.

[–] prettybunnys@piefed.social 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

That's what she said

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 7 points 2 weeks ago

Doesn't sound too bad

[–] WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@piefed.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'll have two number 9s, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, two number 45s, one with cheese, and a large soda.

[–] EchoCranium@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago

"Did you want fries with that?"

[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Wanna round up for the tatas for tots foundation?

[–] veroxii@aussie.zone 5 points 2 weeks ago

How much for a "hug n tug"?

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Unironical, it kind of works like that. There are usual combos, and straying off from them costs extra.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Wait till you find out about Cam girls

[–] 14th_cylon@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

really? what do you think i will discover when i find out?

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sex workers that dont have sex on the menu

[–] 14th_cylon@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

if you don't have sex on a menu, you are not a sex worker, that is literally definition of the word.

similar to when you don't do politics, you are not a politician and when you don't work in a field of medicine with a medical degree, you are not a medical doctor.

also sex does not necessarily mean "sex with you" or "vaginal penetration".

with that being said, here is handful guide to "cam people" for you:

  • that guy doing videos about physics: not a sexworker
  • that girl doing videos about chess: not a sexworker
  • that girl masturbating on a camera: sexworker

hope that helps.

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

What about a girl who says "lol gimme money cause im soooo hawwwwt" but doesnt get naked

[–] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago

It's really not that surprising and I'd wager that non-intercourse sex work is vastly more common than the other

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 34 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

That sounds like therapy with touching and without the responsibility. Probably not a bad job.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 67 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Yeah but without the years of training on how to manage and help people's emotional problems.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

and the years of training on compartmentalizing work and personal life.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

True. Not a job for me anyway, people are just... ugh.

*to work with

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

With therapy you are a professional who is understood and respected as a professional. With sex work you are understood as a societal problem and being outed as having done sex work can harm other future career prospects.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yes, everyone here understood that already

[–] phx@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

I used to know a gal who did SW at night, though at the time I wasn't aware of her occupation. She'd regularly hang out with my buddy and I. One day he was complaining about his back and she offered him a massage, then offered me one as well as I'd been known to have a bad shoulder While it wasn't the absolute best massage I'd had, it was up there above most places covered by my medical.

I could 100% see people paying for company and a non-sexual contact from somebody like that. She was good with people and had a sense for now to relax people physically and emotionally.

[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yea this is known thing. Sex can be part of it but it’s not really all that important for this kind of thing. Those men (and sometimes women) are so desperate for intimacy they will literally pay for it.

It’s the macho way of going to therapy.

[–] selokichtli@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Are they still called sex workers, then? I mean, your comment is kind of telling, as it is a bit confusing.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Yes. "Sex workers" is the terminology in English. Some people who offer no sex and get registered by the state are professional cuddlers though.