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The Clitoris has the highest nerve ending density of any external organ so it probably feels the best when licked. It might feel so good it's unfathomable as a male and most of us will never know.
PS: The clitoris is part of the vulva and not vagina but I thought it fits your question.
As someone with a clitoris, sadly a (likely rather small) population of us still will never know. Mine seems to have come out nonfunctional from the factory. Sometimes I wish I could feel sexual pleasure like how a majority of the planet seems to.
As an enthusiast of stimulating clitorises, I'd like to remind you/mirroring readers that most of it isn't the knobby part but (typically) spread throughout the lips and inner thighs, and that is often a more accessible/enjoyable way of stimuli.
In my practice I've found that clitoris havers enjoy different stimuli (for a myriad of reasons): deep massage, light tickling, pinching, scritches, pressure, heat, etc applied to lips, folds, thighs, around the opening, as well as the knob. I'll argue it's still clitoris stimuli, just better suited to that person's anatomy and preferences.
And if that isn't your experience, there are many other ways to stimulate a person and body. I wish you all the sensuality and orgasms you can handle, in whatever way works for you.
Thank you. That's very kind of you, but I think if I wasn't going to figure out anything at this point in my life that it's just not going to happen. To describe things to people, I describe any sort of sensation that I feel in my crotch region as no different than if you were to touch your own elbow. You can touch or rub or lick or suck your elbow any which way you want, but it's not going to feel at all pleasurable (I'm sure there are some people but that's not really the point of my analogy).
It won't necessarily feel uncomfortable, just won't have any pleasure associated with it. If it's so complicated that I can't even figure out where to begin with finding even mild pleasure, then I don't think there's hope. It's likely broken. Idk. I'm 32 btw.
Vibrators?
Have you checked whether there’s still warranty coverage?
It also helps that a rather large proportion of American men are circumcized. You can blame John Kellogg (yes, the guy that invented bran and had a company named after him) for that