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  2. 🏘️ Community Standards

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  6. 📬 Post Frequency/SPAM

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[a sign reads FEMINIST CONFERENCE next to a closed door, a blue character shrugs and says…]
I don't care

[next to the same door, the sign now says RESTRICTED FEMINIST CONFERENCE WOMEN ONLY, there are now four blue characters desperately banging on the door, one is reduced to tears on the floor, they are shouting]
DISCRIMINATION
SO UNFAIR!!!!
LET US IINN!!
MISANDRY

https://thebad.website/comic/until_it_affects_me

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[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 112 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (62 children)

For real.

This is literally what happens in Lemmy’s women-only sub. Posters are still complaining about it in comments below.

Ugh… I fear for the future of my sex. Sometimes, I want to slap some basic respect into other guys. Nothing fancy or philosophical, just “don’t be a dick, leave other human beings in peace” kind of common sense. Yet it feels like a losing battle.

[–] Bad@jlai.lu 85 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (17 children)

From personal experience posting my content on multiple platforms, Lemmy's userbase is by far the most fragile one regarding sexism.

Yes, even worse than Reddit, where this very comic had its comment section locked by the rcomics mods due to the hundreds of pissed off dudes crying in the comments. At least they get downvoted on Reddit. Lemmy really is dudebro land, and needs to fix that if it wants to grow further (which I would like as a Lemmy enjoyer).

I've said this a few times already, and it usually makes Lemmy users uncomfortable, so I'll keep repeating it as often as necessary.

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 31 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It’s the ultimate consequence of going all in on recruiting people from reddit, which I have been trying to tell people for years. You’re not making the fediverse better, you’re making it more reddity. There’s no point in leaving reddit while bringing the worst of the culture.

[–] eureka@aussie.zone 6 points 1 week ago

There's also some element that "alternative sites" tend to accumulate the people banned from the primary site. Luckily the strong left-leaning initial crowd kept most of the bigotry at bay during the formative years, but I really dislike that in general-purpose instances, many have failed to create much original culture distinct from reddit. Lemmy isn't reddit, and that can be a good thing.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 28 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Please do. Uncomfortable is good.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That's where learning happens!

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[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I appreciate you posting this kind of stuff!

Lemmy really is dudebro land

I feel this every time there is a post or comment about how women should have bigger pockets in our jeans and pants.

[–] CH3DD4R_G0BL1N@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Are there really dudes defending fake/small pockets on women’s clothes? That’s a new level of…I don’t even know what.

[–] dkppunk@piefed.social 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (17 children)

lol Yeah it happens. They don’t so much defend them, more argue with women that it’s our fault for buying pants with small pockets, even though there aren’t many options. Or since women like our pants so tight, pockets would look wrong to stuff them full, when all we want is to be able to carry a few items like ID, credit card, and a small amount of cash. And there is always someone who links to a search for “women’s pants deep pockets” on websites like Old Navy or The Gap thrown around like that actually means those pants have deep pockets, when they frequently have those useless half pockets. Or that women should just wear men’s pants even though they don’t fit women’s bodies and are uncomfortable.

It’s a misunderstanding of what women are actually asking for, so instead of admitting they don’t understand, they double down and argue with women that we don’t really want that 🤷‍♀️

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[–] xorollo@leminal.space 15 points 2 weeks ago

it usually makes Lemmy users uncomfortable, so I'll keep repeating it as often as necessary.

Lol good job.

[–] mathemachristian@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

speech-rgigachad-hd

Lemmitors when women make political comics: erm-this-you

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[–] FlihpFlorp@piefed.zip 32 points 2 weeks ago (14 children)

Yeah one time I accidentally commented in one of the women’s space community, as I thought it was only a meme aimed at women. The mod both recognized it was an honest mistake, and noted it actually added the conversation so they kept it up but said something along the lines of “thank you this is great but this is also a women’s only space, please don’t do it again” and they were very respectful about it. So I just lurked in that comments section as to respect the rules

Point is I too would probably be upset if my community was overran with “as a man”. What’s that one comic strip with the guy always going oh no, basically in the one I’m thinking of, they carve out their own niche, but then the majority comes in and kicks them out

Like is my heart in the right place, yes I think so, but would it lead to a situation like that, also yes

But I don’t see the point of people throwing a fit. Like go a general community like one of the Asks and throw it there. Like I fundamentally don’t understand people going “waaah I can’t be a part of something I didn’t want to be in”

It reminds me of one of my friends upset he wasn’t invited to one of our line gaming get together, despite the fact they hate the game

WHAT I MISSING I DONT GET IT

[–] Bad@jlai.lu 50 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

The comic you're thinking of is by webcomicname, and… it's better than my comic at making the same point tbh, I love their work.

[–] jtrek@startrek.website 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I also commented there by accident once because I didn't read the community name. They politely asked me to refrain from doing so. I was embarrassed, and have been more careful.

Apparently for some people this is unacceptable.

[–] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The same for me. I later just blocked the community because I will definitely forget to check again and then comment and I don't want to be an annoyance.

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

When you're allowed everywhere by default , it can bruise something in your brain when you hit a closed door.

Now couple that with generations of bullshit tropes about women-only spaces being either lesbian pillow fight fantasies or penis-slicing plotters and shit gets weird

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[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

It reminds me of one of my friends upset he wasn’t invited to one of our line gaming get together, despite the fact they hate the game

it's not that they weren't playing the game, it's that they were excluded from the group. they would have liked the chance to say no, or just to hang out and keep y'all topped up with snacks or whatever i don't know the exact dynamics of the group. next time, even if they hate the game, invite them and give them a chance to say no. that's what they want and what does it cost? that way they don't feel excluded from the group. it's (probably) that simple

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[–] guynamedzero@piefed.zeromedia.vip 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Here’s my take on it:

I think we do deserve a private community of only women where women can have a safe place to talk about whatever they want without men. The problem is that this is not a private community, lemmy and piefed are fundamentally public spaces, not private, it is impossible and unreasonable to have a private community.

Perhaps in the future we’ll gain the ability to make real private communities where users must be approved to view posts, but that’s not today.

The mods of the community have the idea that it’s everyone else’s problem, that tens of thousands of people should go out of their way to remedy the issue by blocking the community just so a couple hundred (thousand?) people can have no responsibility for it.

I participated in the community at the beginning of its existence (despite my username, I am not a guy), and have long since left and blocked it because I really hated how the mods treated others. Maybe it’s changed over the last 6 months or whatever, but they’ve left a permanent impression on me.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago

AFAIK the expectation is that everything there is publicly viewable, but posting is bound by the rules.

And that's (IMO) within Lemmy's structure. Mods can set whatever rules for posting that they want, and it isn't the only community that's "exclusive".

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

The problem is that this is not a private community, lemmy and piefed are fundamentally public spaces, not private, it is impossible and unreasonable to have a private community.

As of 1.6 Piefed does support ‘private’ (non-federating) communities that only people with certain assigned roles can invite others to: https://codeberg.org/rimu/pyfedi/releases/tag/v1.6.0

The mods of the community have the idea that it’s everyone else’s problem, that tens of thousands of people should go out of their way to remedy the issue by blocking the community just so a couple hundred (thousand?) people can have no responsibility for it.

I think it’s kind of wild to expect a community to be open to everyone or not exist at all on the fediverse, along with the idea that this is a huge burden on anyone except the mods of that community who have to clean up the comment section.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

One issue with that is visibility. Showing up in an open Fediverse feed is likely how other women discover the community, while a closed one would have more of a “private chat room” kind of structure and feel, right?

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[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Yeah nah mate

Anyone can join. Anyone can read. You're just asked not to comment because it's not a space for cismale voices.

I - and you - see HUNDREDS of comms and posts in any random feed that don't apply to you. You skate over them, don't even blink. It's absolutely nbd.

But you need a fucking cone to not post on a single women's community and it's some how the community's fault for expecting you to act like a reasonable human?

Bullshit.

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[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

What I hate most about the women-only community is that there are so many interesting topics that I want to chime in, or that I forget to check which community it is before accidentally commenting against the rules, but I don't wanna block the community because it's still very interesting to read.

I'd become a woman but that just seems like too much work

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[–] horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Ugh… I fear for the future of my sex. Sometimes, I want to slap some basic respect into other guys. Nothing fancy or philosophical, just “don’t be a dick, leave other human beings in peace” kind of common sense. Yet it feels like a losing battle.

The problem isn't restricted to one sex/gender. I may have commented below, with what I can confidently say is a politically unpopular opinion, but the discussion quickly degenerated into claims that I was 'mansplaining' and being told to 'fuck off' and shut up.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The problem isn’t restricted to one sex/gender.

Perhaps not.

...And yeah, there's all sorts of flavors of hostility even here on Lemmy.

But the manosphere seems to be "winning" their culture war, at least here in the US, compared to whatever the equivalent problem on the other end is. That feels like the bigger problem.

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