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Tell us you were late-diagnosed/discovered as autistic without telling us directly (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 year ago by BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world to c/autism@lemmy.world
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Tell us that you discovered you were autistic as an adult without directly telling us that. Imply it by sharing personal experiences.

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[–] Knusper@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

I'm not diagnosed, only lately suspecting, but well, one experience that stuck with me, was on a communications training at my workplace, which is an IT company, so the participants were a whole sack of nerds.

The trainer gave us instructions to stand in a line next to each other, she'd read forms of communication and we should take a step forward, if we did not like that form of communcation.

So, "e-mail" → 3 people take a step forward,
"phone call" → 7 people take a step forward etc..

At the end of it, I turned around to see where the others ended up and realized I had walked almost twice as far as everyone else. And I felt like I was rather conservative about it, too...

[–] lairedae@aussie.zone 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I got super excited when I discovered we had a whole department at work dedicated to maintaining all the back end customer/vendor/product data in our systems.

Now I'm in it, and I love it so much.

[–] vldnl@feddit.dk 2 points 1 year ago

I like to recite grammar rules or language facts to myself when I'm feeling stressed out, almost like a form of meditation.

[–] AetherWart@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

"..and that was so annoying, like, why are they arguing with my diagnosis"

"Huh. I suppose I'm still arguing with mine"

[–] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

Whenever I get stressed I find something to alphabetize.

[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When work is slow and stable I'm bored out of my fuckin mind but when shit hits the fan and I've got minimal staffing I can cover 4 stations at once faster than most people could cover 1

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

omg! Before I was discovered as autistic, I got got put on buspar for anxiety per my complaints. It worked so well, that I had no desire to do anything. I told the doc that I needed to come off of it because I needed anxiety to keep me motivated to accomplish tasks. Really, I just needed the stimulation. 😆

[–] nyoooom@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

In the last few years I started to describe myself as an introvert-extrovert with a social battery.

Behold my bewilderment when I found out it's masked auDHD.

[–] torpak@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I recently found out that it's not common to always buy the same brand of generic food types like apple juice, fish fingers, cereal,...

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Wait...people are just changing up brands haphazardly when they go shopping? Do they investigate the brand and make a rational choice beforehand, or are they 1700s trans-Atlantic risk-takers just upheaving their entire lives on a whim?

[–] clara@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

get this right, it genuinely shocked me too. some people just... look at the product, and then go "i'll buy that!" and then they buy it. they are not even making a conscious choice when doing this. their brain intuitively tells them "yes, this one" and they don't have to think it out.

more often than not, the product that wins is the product with the better or "flashy" packaging and style. that's one reason why they spend all that money on advertising and branding. to me, it's sooo strange. why would you not read up on your choice beforehand, or at least investigate each packet to check for food aversions, find out which one is the best $/unit value, etc? why should the packet the food is in, have any substantial bearing on your choice of purchase? (there are edge cases where the packet matters, i know)

to answer your question, yeah there is a lot of risk-takers out there!😱

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] clara@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

oh god it's not just "some people" are influenced, it's "most people" are influenced?? 💀

it's no wonder that "influencer" is a job title, yikes!

also, this line made me laugh:

Instead, the autistic shopper focuses on what really matters: ingredients, price, and the necessity of even owning the product. Time and again they select the best product for their needs regardless of how it is displayed.

when they spell out the reasons like this, it's very funny because it's written like we're specimens in a zoo (imagine the david attenborough voice), and that we're all acting strangely. no, we're the ones acting rational, you're the strange ones!

that's a nice article. glad to see my reasoning validated. thank you for sharing ❤️

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm happy you enjoyed it. We have a lot to be proud of. You're welcome!

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'll get what's cheapest. Apple juice is apple juice. If it's bad apple juice, I'll remember.

[–] clara@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

ahh you must watch out for the "[fruit] juice" vs "[fruit] juice drink" meme

on the packet somewhere, it will specify, for the example of your case, "apple juice", or "apple juice drink"

anything that is a "juice drink" is just not the good stuff. a "juice drink" can have basically anything they want in there, with some 0.0001% real fruit to cover themselves legally. always look out for "juice" on it's own, that's the 100% real stuff

i say this because i got bitten by buying the cheapest apple "juice" once, to find out it was a "juice drink", i.e not apple juice.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago

Oh. Everything I get is definitely not real juice. lol

[–] AtomicPurple@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Define "late"

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It's a loose definition, but to give a definite definition with ambition of decision: after childhood, so 18+ years old. It doesn't really matter though.

[–] cogitoprinciple@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When someone pointed out that I had made the same meal for dinner for most of my meals every week, for 4 months.

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What meal was it?

[–] cogitoprinciple@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Beef Casserole. Easier than most things because you just chop everything and then put it in the slow cooker. Little effort required. I kept doing it because new recipes stressed me out too much.

[–] c10l@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly look into an Instant Pot. Put everything in it, ready in 15-20min of pressure cooking. Can be set to keep warm if you’re not going to eat straight away.

[–] cogitoprinciple@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thanks for the idea, I'll have to give this a go

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I knew this would happen

[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I don't understand why people with autistic kids describe their kids needs as special. These needs are all completely normal. There must be some misunderstanding.

...oh

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

lmaoooooo 😂

I've heard so many accounts of parents learning they were autistic because their kids were discovered to be autistic.

[–] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

Yeap that'd be me. We always joked about it growing up, but once I took my son to his first screening I was a bit freaked out.

[–] jesterraiin@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just reorganized my collection of 18092 PDF files by renaming them based on 12-word criteria pattern. Which is funny, since the number of files corresponds with the majority of the registration number of USCSS Nostromo.

All done by hand.

Lazy Saturday. Depending on the timezone, also Friday and Sunday.

[–] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 year ago

Can you tell more about the pattern?