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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The best ones are thoughts that many people can relate to and they find something funny or interesting in regular stuff.

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[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 100 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Cynics happen when skeptics are right for decades, but no one will listen to them.

[–] classic@fedia.io 18 points 1 month ago

That's line's got some oomph to it

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 33 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Being cynical and defeatist is a coping mechanism. Like racism, its a form of dealing with a continuously shitty situation while not addressing the real problem.

If you look at the small amount of people that drink 1000$ wine bottles for lunch while you‘re struggling to pay the rent, then you find the problem these cynics are unable to address.

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I do understand. I am constantly fighting that myself. For me it's an aspirational statement, not necessarily one I always manage to live.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Same. I mostly try to be honest with myself as I found that copium rarely is helpful. We‘re in this mess now and we can either sulk or get going. I choose to get going day after day. Hows that for aspirational statements? :)

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

Excuse my lack of creativity, but "this is the way"

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

It isn't glamorous and it doesn't grab headlines, but that is how these problems get fixed.

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Making to tomorrow is sometimes not a small undertaking.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 1 points 1 month ago

Fair enough. In bad times, that is true for me as well. But these times pass eventually. At least they always have in the past.

[–] Boozilla@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

A skeptic will seek more information. A cynic will just shit on it first and maybe (probably not) ask questions later.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

This is why I am much more of a cynic nowadays. So much fud and I can't go down a rabbit hole with every one to determine why its wrong. Oh man and my wife stays informed with youtube.

[–] bastion@feddit.nl 3 points 1 month ago

It's more important to have a reasonable stance, yourself, and in areas you can directly impact, than it is to establish truth in scenarios you have virtually no impact upon.

[–] bottleofchips@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 9 points 1 month ago

Good, keep going.

[–] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is it because you think the idea is BS and you assume the worst or because you’re not convinced and the idea requires more evidence to back it up?

[–] bottleofchips@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Oh sure, you’d love that wouldn’t you? Wouldn’t you? Probably. I don’t know, prove it to me.

[–] TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 month ago

So that’s a “yes“. Just as I thought! Although, with a sample size of just one, the result is hardly anecdotal, let alone statistically significant.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Classical cynics loved to ridicule society and exalt nature. Modern cynics ridicule society and exalt themselves.

A cynic that owns a mortgage and a 401k is a bigger imposter than the tourist wearing a Che Guevara T-shirt in the Mall of America.

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 5 points 1 month ago

¿Por Qué No Los Dos?

[–] Skepticpunk@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I've been trying. Unfortunately, people in power seem totally unresponsive to the needs of the people. Don't know what the optimal solution for that is, but historically, the solution is usually something you're not allowed to encourage on social media.

[–] phoneymouse@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Do you listen to The Grey Area?

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not to far. Thanks for letting me know about it.

[–] phoneymouse@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Listen to the episode from last week “why cynicism is bad for you” … you’re on to something with your post here that is covered a lot in the episode.

[–] masterofn001@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] bastion@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Give me a break! Are you fucking serious? I suppose this is to be expected from skibidi fucks like you, anyways.

Edit: was that helpful? Trying to fill that void for you.

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I get it, it's hard to form sentences with proper words when all these curse words are so easy to use anywhere and anytime. Especially when you have to use difficult, intelligent or educated words like "Are you actually serious?" or "skibidi people". I know it's challenging for people like you, but I implore you to try "clean sardonicism".

Give it try, but beware, people might stop thinking you're an asshole.

(Ps, just playing along here, but this did trigger me. I do loath those people who just blatantly go around insulting everyone they disagree with online)

[–] bastion@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago

Absolutely. Well played, I think that's a great example of the self-referential bullshit feedback loop of sardonic behavior. No actual trigger intended.

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago

I certainly won't disagree with that.

[–] ScruffyDucky@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago